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Lovense Flexer vs Vulse Side-By-Side Comparison

Tested & Rated with Methodology v2.0 Updated: September 8, 2026
Tested & Rated with Methodology v2.0 Updated: September 8, 2026

Use Case Ratings

Overall6.77.1
Wearing Around6.07.0
Solo Use In Bed7.67.1
Long-Distance Play7.78.0

Performance Ratings

Clit Stimulation 8.0 N/A
G-spot Stimulation 7.5 7.5
App Control 9.5 9.6
Remote Control N/A N/A
Noise 3.9 4.7
Secure Fit 6.2 9.6
Adjustability 0.0 N/A
Battery Life 7.8 6.0
Comfort 4.9 6.8
Cleaning 10.0 10.0

Clit Stimulation: Main Takeaways


Clit Stimulation 8.0 N/A
Max Power Rating 8.5 N/A
Power Range Rating 8.4 N/A
Vibration Transfer Effectiveness Rating 8.5 N/A
Rumbliness Rating 4.1 N/A
Stimulation from Motion N/A N/A

In the next sections, I’ll cover the Flexer’s clit vibration power and rumbliness in-depth.

Here’s the main conclusion: the Flexer provides some of the more-intense clit stimulation out of the dual-stim wearables I have tested, and I can orgasm with it hands-free. The vibrations are buzzy and the flexing motion on your clit can be overstimulating at times though.

If more consistent clit pressure and rumbliness matters most, go with the Lovense Dolce, which doesn’t have a movement motor. If you’re interested in the motion and enjoy buzzy vibes, stick with the Flexer.

Like all egg vibrators, the Lovense Vulse only stimulates your G-spot – not your clit. For clit stimulation, a panty vibrator is the better type of wearable for you. See all our recommendations for the best panty vibrators here.

An egg vibrator is a good option if:

  1. You enjoy internal vibrations, G-spot pressure, or fullness on its own. (Many people need clit stimulation to orgasm, but internal stimulation can still feel good and be great foreplay.)
  2. You plan to pair it with clit stimulation from something else.

I can’t orgasm even with our strongest G-spot vibrator alone, but when I pair it with clitoral stimulation, it makes my orgasms feel more full.


Clit Vibrations: Power, Range, and Transfer Effectiveness


Max Power Rating 8.5 N/A
Power Range Rating 8.4 N/A
Vibration Transfer Effectiveness Rating 8.5 N/A
Power vs Frequency Graph
How Strong Is Each Power? 

The Flexer’s clit motor is very strong, reaching 9.1 out of 10 on high – one of my strongest wearables. And it still starts gently enough that I can warm up before using the stronger settings.

The external arm moves around quite a bit when the flexing motion is activated.

With wearables, strong motors only matter if the toy keeps that motor in contact with your body. In bed, the Flexer does that well, but in a unique way: When the flexing motion is active, the external arm moves back and forth, varying the clit pressure. This makes the stimulation feel stronger and more interesting to me as the external arm presses those vibrations firmly into my clit.

The Flexer is a good fit if you like movement and intensity shifts, but some will prefer consistent contact instead. If you want a dual-stimulation toy that stays in one spot and a more controlled feel, go with the vibration-only Lovense Dolce. The Lelo Ida Wave’s clit stimulation is also more consistent and rumbly while also providing G-spot stimulation from motion.


Clit Vibrations: Frequency (Rumbliness)


Rumbliness Rating 4.1 N/A
Power vs Frequency Graph
Frequency on Low Power 139.6 Hz N/A
Median Frequency 214.2 Hz N/A
Frequency on High Power 244.5 Hz N/A
Rumbliness & Power Balance 4.0 N/A
Beat Sensation 6.0 N/A

We generally rate rumbly vibrations higher because most people enjoy them more, but buzzy versus rumbly is still a preference. The Flexer’s clit motor is for people who like strong, extremely buzzy intensity. It’s actually my buzziest dual-stimulation wearable.

The clit vibrations range from 139.59 Hz on low to 244.51 Hz on high – extremely buzzy throughout its entire range. The two vibration motors create a faint wobble sensation when they play off each other, which adds some complexity. But the Flexer is not at all rumbly.

The Dolce is less buzzy than the Flexer. Click on any motor to remove it from the graph for a clearer view.

If buzzy vibrations feel tickly or numb to you, the Lovense Dolce or Lelo Ida Wave are better.


G-spot Stimulation: Main Takeaways


G-spot Stimulation 7.5 7.5
Max Power Rating 7.0 5.8
Power Range Rating 5.3 5.1
Vibration Transfer Effectiveness Rating 9.8 4.0
Rumbliness Rating 4.1 4.2
Stimulation from Motion 7.5 7.5

In the next sections, I’ll cover the Flexer’s G-spot vibration power, rumbliness, and flexing motion.

Here’s the main conclusion: the Flexer’s G-spot stimulation is good for a dual-stim wearable, but the flexing motion contributes less than you’d expect. The external arm moves more than the internal arm with each flex, so you can feel some internal pressure, but it’s gentle.

Thankfully, the bulbous design transfers the vibrations well to the front wall. So the combination of internal vibes and gentle movement combines for an enjoyable experience.

Lovense Nora vs Flexer illustrating the difference in how they move
Handheld options provide you with more leverage so the internal motion is felt more. I also love the Nora’s rotation motion compared to the Flexer’s back and forth motion.

But handheld vibrators provide much firmer front-wall pressure since you can leverage the base with your hand. Two of my favorites are the We-Vibe Nova 2 and Lovense Nora.

In the next sections, I’ll cover the Vulse’s vibration power, rumbliness, and thrusting motion in detail.

Here’s the main conclusion: the Vulse delivers good, enjoyable G-spot stimulation through its thrusting motion, but the vibrations are weak and buzzy. Don’t buy the Vulse expecting it to feel like the much stronger Lush models – the Lovense Lush 4 is 4x stronger.

The Lovense Vulse’s thrusting motion and vibrations.

Instead, it’s a nice option for those who prefer internal movement. For me, the Vulse works best paired with a favorite external clit vibrator: it does not carry me to orgasm by itself, but it noticeably enhances one.


G-spot Vibrations: Power, Range, and Transfer Effectiveness


Max Power Rating 7.0 5.8
Power Range Rating 5.3 5.1
Vibration Transfer Effectiveness Rating 9.8 4.0
Power vs Frequency Graph
How Strong Is Each Power? 

The Flexer’s G-spot vibrations reach a moderate 4.9 out of 10 strength that enhances the experience when paired with the toy’s external vibes and flexing motion. I’m able to orgasm with the Flexer when the internal and external vibrations work together with the flexing motion.

But, the Lovense Dolce’s internal arm has nearly double the vibration strength of the Flexer. Both have an excellent, bulbous design that transfers the vibrations efficiently to the front wall.

If you find even gentle internal motion more stimulating than vibrations, the Flexer is a great option. If you don’t need motion, and feel stimulated from internal vibrations alone, the Dolce will feel the strongest to you.

The Vulse’s G-spot vibrations are weak for an egg vibrator. Its main feature is the thrusting motion, so the vibrations feel secondary: I rate its top power at 2.5 out of 10, with the low end starting at 0.8.

Lovense’s vibration-only eggs, like the Lovense Lush 4, Lush Mini, and Lush 3, are roughly 4x stronger. They also feel more G-spot focused since their bulbous, countoured shape angles and presses the vibrations into the front wall better than the Vulse’s straighter shape.

The Lush 4 has vibrations instead of motion, so the vibrations are much stronger.

With the Vulse, I barely notice the vibrations alongside the thrusting. If strong G-spot vibrations matter more to you than motion, go with the Lovense Lush 4 or Lush Mini instead.


G-spot Vibrations: Frequency (Rumbliness)


Rumbliness Rating 4.1 4.2
Power vs Frequency Graph
Frequency on Low Power 182.4 Hz 64.9 Hz
Median Frequency 239.8 Hz 131.3 Hz
Frequency on High Power 257.2 Hz 185.4 Hz
Rumbliness & Power Balance 4.0 4.2
Beat Sensation 6.0 N/A

We rate rumbly internal vibrations higher because they tend to feel deeper, though some people enjoy buzzy stimulation. The Flexer’s G-spot motor stays extremely buzzy across its entire range, from 182.44 Hz on low to 257.18 Hz on high.

Buzzy vibrations don’t travel as deep, so the buzzy vibrations at only a moderate strength on the Flexer definitely need the internal motion and external vibes to feel worthwhile.

If rumbliness is a priority, the Lovense Dolce is a much better pick.

We rate rumbly vibrations higher than buzzy ones because most people prefer deeper vibrations that travel through the body, though this is still a personal preference.

The Lovense Vulse is mostly buzzy. Though the vibrations start out moderately rumbly, the whole power range is too weak for any real impact. And by the time it’s reached the top power, its vibrating at 185 Hz – far into the extremely buzzy range. The Vulse’s vibrations need some deeper rumbliness to feel impactful at this strength.

The combination of weak and buzzy vibes means it is mostly the thrusting motion that drives the stimulation. If you prioritize rumbly vibrations over motion, go with the Lovense Lush 4 or VeDO Kiwi.


G-spot Stimulation from Motion


Stimulation from Motion Rating 7.5 7.5
Target Accuracy 5.0 7.4
Motion Under Load 10.0 10.0
Motion Type Oscillation (Front-to-Back Arc) Thrusting
Max Motion Amplitude N/A 0.28 in
Min Motion Amplitude N/A 0.28 in
Max Speed 63 CPM 104 CPM
Min Speed 34 CPM 55 CPM

The Flexer’s motion is enjoyable, but it feels more like subtle internal pressure changes than the firm G-spot fingering that’s advertised.

The internal arm moves in a front-to-back arc at 34 to 63 cycles per minute. The flexing hinge is very strong, and doesn’t “give” under pressure like the flexible Lelo Ida Wave’s internal arm does. However, because there’s no “anchoring” point for the Flexer, the external arm moves more than the internal arm, causing the G-spot pressure to feel gentle. You really feel most of the motion on your clit.

The Flexer’s external arm moves more than the internal arm, so internal stimulation and pressure is less than you’re expect.
Lelo Ida Wave showing broader clitoral arm than the Lovense Flexer
The Lelo Ida Wave’s broad external arm anchors it into place, so you feel more motion internally than the Flexer.

I can orgasm with the Flexer when the motion is paired with clit vibrations and internal vibes. But handheld toys provide firmer internal pressure if that’s a big priority to you. The We-Vibe Nova 2 is great if you want to leverage the pressure yourself. And the Lovense Nora is better if you want automatic internal motion.

The Lovense Vulse provides enjoyable, noticeable internal motion, that strengthens my orgasms, but its thrusting does not target my G-spot as directly as I’d like.

The Vulse moves in and out rather than pressing upward into the front vaginal wall. So the stimulation feels more like general internal movement and fullness than focused G-spot pressure. It still feels good, and it performs much better than similar motion-based egg vibrators like the Lelo Hula Beads which has too little range of motion to be stimulating.

For me, the Vulse works best as hands-free internal stimulation paired with a separate clit vibrator. I can’t orgasm from internal stimulation alone, but its movement and fullness make my orgasms from clit stimulation feel stronger, fuller, and more drawn-out.

The Vulse’s motion motor is good – it doesn’t stall or slow down under pressure. And you have good control over the thrusting speed through the Lovense app. You can change it gradually from 55 cycles per minute (CPM) to 104. How far the Vulse thrusts is fixed at about 0.28 inches. While it’s a fairly shallow motion, its enough for me to enjoy, but some people may want more depth.

Lovense Vulse and Flexer with Lelo Ida Wave
The Lovense Vulse (left) with motion-based dual-stimulation wearables: the Lovense Flexer (middle) and Lelo Ida Wave (right).

Compared with dual-stimulation motion wearables, the Vulse creates more noticeable internal movement than the Lovense Flexer, whose motor mainly moves the external clit arm. The Vulse’s internal motion feels about as stimulating as the Lelo Ida Wave, though the Vulse creates more fullness while the Ida Wave directs its rotating motion more toward the front wall. Both the Flexer and Ida Wave also provide built-in clit stimulation, so I can orgasm with them hands-free; the Vulse requires a separate clit vibrator.


App Control: Main Takeaways


App Control 9.5 9.6
Close-Range Features Rating 8.8 9.1
Long-Distance Features Rating 8.9 8.9
Close-Range Connectivity Rating 10.0 10.0
Long-Distance Connectivity Rating 9.8 9.8

In the next sections, I’ll cover the Lovense app’s close-range features, long-distance features, and connectivity in detail.

Here’s the main conclusion:

The Lovense app is by far the best of any brand. It provides the most control, is easiest to use, and has the most reliable connectivity. If an outstanding app is your top priority, stick to a Lovense toy.

In the next sections, I’ll cover the Lovense app’s close-range features, long-distance features, and connectivity in detail.

Here’s the main conclusion:

The Lovense app is by far the best of any brand. It provides the most control, is easiest to use, and has the most reliable connectivity. If an outstanding app is your top priority, stick to a Lovense toy.


App Control: Close-Range Features


Close-Range Features Rating 8.8 9.1
Core Control Depth & Customization 8.5 9.0
Constant Setting Control Strong Strong
Preset Pattern Control Strong Strong
Pattern Creation & Saving Strong Strong
Multi-Function Coverage & Independence Strong Basic
Multi-Toy Control & Independence Strong Strong
UX Clarity & Efficiency 9.5 9.5
Sound and Music Control 8.9 8.9
Music Sync Availability Streaming Supported Streaming Supported
Sound Reactive Control Strong Strong
Other Bonus Features 7.4 7.4
Noteworthy Bonus Modes Voice Control, Device-to-Device Voice Control, Device-to-Device

The Lovense Flexer’s app has the best close-range features of any brand.

On the main Remote screen, you drag the control dots up or down to adjust intensity of the vibrations and speed of the flexing motion.

Lovense Flexer Remote Screen
The Remote screen and control options in the Lovense app.

Tap Float to hold a steady power/speed, or Loop to draw a custom pattern that repeats. Since the toy reacts as you draw, you can feel the pattern in real time instead of creating it blindly and testing it later. If you like what you made, tap Record to save it to My Patterns.

Lovense Flexer and the app. Image highlights the fact that you cannot control the clitoral and G-spot motor independently.

Lovense typically allows separate control of each motor. Unfortunately, the two arms’ separate vibrating motors are tied together. Setting the vibration intensity of the internal arm does the same to the external arm. But the flexing motion is still controlled separately.

Lovense Flexer Saved Patterns
Preset patterns and any patterns you save are stored to your library.

For presets, the My Patterns screen includes Lovense’s default patterns, anything you’ve saved, and patterns downloaded from Lovense’s active community library.

Lovense’s sound-reactive mode is also the best I’ve used. You can set a minimum decibel threshold, so the toy stays still until the room gets loud enough, and adjust sensitivity to control how much of the toy’s power range it uses. The live decibel readout makes it easy to calibrate. Many other apps either combine these controls or don’t offer a threshold at all.

Lovense Lush Sound Mode Minimum Decibel
Sound Control allows you to set a minimum decibel for your Lovense toy to vibrate (shown here with the Lush 4).

The music-sync mode works with Spotify or local files and follows the music well enough for hands-free variation. You can cap the intensity to keep it in your comfortable range.

Lovense Voice Commands
Voice Control options.

Lovense also includes a few useful extras: Voice Control, device-to-device control with certain Lovense toys, and per-toy max intensity settings. The intensity cap is helpful if you want to limit noise or prevent a partner from setting the toy too strong.

Overall, the Lovense app’s close-range features are excellent – and the best of any brand I’ve tested.

The Vulse’s app has the best close-range features of any brand.

On the main Remote screen, you drag a control dot up or down to adjust vibration intensity and speed of thrusting. Lovense typically provides control of separate motors in the app, but unfortunately the vibrations and thrusting are linked in the Vulse. So raising the vibration intensity increases the thrusting speed, and vice versa.

Lovense Vulse Remote Screen
The Remote screen and control options in the Lovense app.

Tap Float to hold a steady power level and thrusting speed, or Loop to draw a custom pattern that repeats. Since the toy reacts as you draw, you can feel the pattern in real time instead of creating it blindly and testing it later. If you like what you made, tap Record to save it to My Patterns.

You can also control multiple Lovense toys at once with each toy getting its own dots on the Remote screen. For example, you can pair both the Lovense Ferri (a clit vibrator) and the Vulse for simultaneous clit and G-spot stimulation. Or you can control your own toy and a nearby partner’s toy at once. We tested four toys simultaneously without issue.

Lovense Vulse and Ferri Controlled Together
You can control more than one toy at a time in the Lovense app.

For presets, the My Patterns screen includes Lovense’s default patterns, anything you’ve saved, and patterns downloaded from Lovense’s active community library.

Lovense’s sound-reactive mode is also the best I’ve used. You can set a minimum decibel threshold, so the toy stays still until the room gets loud enough, and adjust sensitivity to control how much of the toy’s power range it uses. The live decibel readout makes it easy to calibrate. Many other apps either combine these controls or don’t offer a threshold at all.

Lovense Lush Sound Mode Minimum Decibel
You can adjust the minimum decibel your toy reacts to in the Lovense app (shown here while controlling the Lush).

The music-sync mode works with Spotify or local files and follows the music well enough for hands-free variation. You can cap the intensity to keep it in your comfortable range.

Lovense Voice Commands
Voice control commands.

Lovense also includes a few useful extras: Voice Control, device-to-device control with certain Lovense toys, and per-toy max intensity settings. The intensity cap is helpful if you want to limit noise or prevent a partner from pushing the toy too high.

Overall, the Lovense app’s close-range features are excellent – and still the best of any brand I’ve tested.


App Control: Long-Distance Features


Long-Distance Features Rating 8.9 8.9
Core Control During Video/Voice Calls 7.7 7.9
Video/Voice Call Tools & Experience 9.0 9.0
Core Control During Messaging 8.7 8.9
Messaging Tools & Experience 10.0 10.0
UX Clarity & Efficiency (Long-Distance) 8.0 8.0
Mutual Partner Control Mutual Mutual
Partner Settings & Management 10.0 10.0
Saved Partners Multiple partners Multiple partners
Auto-Accept Control Requests Per-partner auto-accept Per-partner auto-accept
Hide Online Status Per-partner Per-partner
Partner Online Notifications Per-partner Per-partner
Anonymous & Social Experience 10.0 10.0
Anonymous Control Methods One‑time link or code One‑time link or code
Block / Report Tools Block and Report available Block and Report available
Group Control Support Yes Yes

Lovense also has the best long-distance experience of any brand, by a wide margin.

During messaging or video calls, your partner gets the same excellent Remote screen used for close-range control. They can set a steady intensity or flexing speed with Float or draw a repeating pattern with Loop, so long-distance control doesn’t feel stripped down. The only small downside is that you can’t control your own toy during a video call – only your partner can.

Lovense Flexer Partner Controls During Video Call
Your partner’s controls during a video call.

The video call tools are excellent. Incoming calls are easy to notice and accept, and once you’re in a call, the video feed is clear. You can mute, toggle your camera, switch between front and back cameras, cast audio to a speaker, or end the call. The controls stay out of the way until you tap the screen, and you can move your self-view so it doesn’t block your partner.

The app also handles normal phone use well. You can lock your screen or switch to another app without disrupting the session.

Messaging is equally strong. The thread is easy to follow, and you can send voice notes, photos, and videos from your camera or camera roll. There’s also an optional “burn after reading” feature for one-time viewing that prevents screenshots, and it works as intended.

Lovense Partner Settings
You have lots of options to adjust each partner’s settings.

Lovense gives you helpful partner settings too. You can let a trusted partner auto-accept control requests, get a notification when they come online, or hide your online status from specific people. Each partner can have different settings.

Lovense also offers the broadest anonymous and group control options. You can send a one-time control link or create a group link for up to 10 people. When the time runs out, they lose access and can’t request control again.

If long-distance play is the main reason you’re buying a wearable vibrator, Lovense is the best choice.

Lovense also has the best long-distance experience of any brand, by a wide margin.

During messaging or video calls, your partner gets the same excellent Remote screen used for close-range control. They can set a steady intensity/speed with Float or draw a repeating pattern with Loop, so long-distance control doesn’t feel stripped down. The only small downside is that you can’t control your own toy during a video call – only your partner can.

Lovense Vulse Partner Controls During Video Call in App
Your partner’s control options during a video call.

The video call tools are excellent. Incoming calls are easy to notice and accept, and once you’re in a call, the video feed is clear. You can mute, toggle your camera, switch between front and back cameras, cast audio to a speaker, or end the call. The controls stay out of the way until you tap the screen, and you can move your self-view so it doesn’t block your partner.

The app also handles normal phone use well. You can lock your screen or switch to another app without disrupting the session.

Lovense Burn After Reading Feature
The Lovense app provides great chat features, including a “Burn After Reading” feature you can activate on photos. After the initial view, the photo will appear as this pixelated white square.

Messaging is equally strong. The thread is easy to follow, and you can send voice notes, photos, and videos from your camera or camera roll. There’s also an optional “burn after reading” feature for one-time viewing that prevents screenshots and it works as intended.

Lovense Partner Settings
You have lots of options to adjust each partner’s settings.

Lovense gives you helpful partner settings too. You can let a trusted partner auto-accept control requests, get a notification when they come online, or hide your online status from specific people. Each partner can have different settings.

Lovense Anonymous Control Screen in App
You can generate an anonymous control link to send out.

Lovense also offers the broadest anonymous and group control options. You can send a one-time control link or create a group link for up to 10 people. When the time runs out, they lose access and can’t request control again.

If long-distance play is the main reason you’re buying a wearable vibrator, Lovense is the best choice.


App Control: Connectivity


Close-Range Connectivity Rating 10.0 10.0
Long-Distance Connectivity Rating 9.8 9.8
Bluetooth Connection & Response Reliability 10.0 10.0
Body Interference Signal Robustness 10.0 10.0
Light Interference Position Stable Stable
Moderate Interference Position Stable Stable
Heavy Interference Position Stable Stable
Control Reliability with No Interference 10.0 10.0
Connection Reliability General Experience Commands typically take effect reliably Commands typically take effect reliably
Bluetooth Pairing Ease 10.0 10.0
Typical Pairing Workflow Auto‑connect (0 in‑app actions) Auto‑connect (0 in‑app actions)
Typical Pairing Success Rate 10.0 10.0
Bluetooth Reconnection Ease 10.0 10.0
Perceived Delay Feels instant Feels instant
Max Bluetooth Range 315 ft 240 ft
Long-Distance
Long-Distance Session Start Ease & Reliability 10.0 10.0
Long-Distance Connection & Response Reliability 9.5 9.5

The Flexer’s connectivity is excellent. Lovense has the most reliable app connection of any brand I’ve tested, both for nearby Bluetooth control and long-distance play.

Pairing is quick: the very first time you connect, just tap Add Toy, turn the Flexer on, and it appears in the app within seconds. After that first setup, it auto-connects as soon as you turn it on with the app open.

Lovense Add Toy
Click the “+” icon in the upper right corner to add a new toy for the first time. After this, turning the toy on will automatically pair the toy and app.

Once paired, the Flexer stays connected through normal phone use, including locking your screen, switching apps, or leaving the app idle.

It also handles body interference very well. Body tissue can weaken Bluetooth more than walls or clothing, which is why some wearable vibrators work fine for solo control but drop connection when a partner controls them from certain angles. In our body-interference test, the Flexer stayed connected through all three positions, including the hardest one.

Bluetooth range was excellent too, reaching about 315 feet in our clear line-of-sight test. That’s one of the longest ranges we’ve measured for a wearable and far more than most people will need. Though walls and other interference will shorten real-world range.

Lovense Flexer Reconnecting Message
You are alerted with a “reconnecting” message if your toy loses connection.

If the it does disconnect, the app reconnects automatically once the signal is clear. A red “Reconnecting…” message also tells the controlling partner that control has paused. You can choose whether the toy stops vibrating during a disconnect with Auto-Stop, or keeps vibrating at the last intensity level until it reconnects.

Long-distance connectivity is also excellent. The toy connects to your phone over Bluetooth, and your phone connects to your partner’s phone over Wi-Fi or cell data. Since the Bluetooth connection is strong, long-distance play works well as long as your internet connection is decent. Sessions stay stable, commands go through reliably, and locking your phone or switching apps doesn’t disrupt control.

One quirk: if you start a session on Wi-Fi and then switch to cell data, the first switch can drop control and require a quick re-invite. After that, switching works normally. To avoid this, start the session on cellular data – then you can switch freely between the two.

The Vulse’s connectivity is excellent. Lovense has the most reliable app connection of any brand I’ve tested, both for nearby Bluetooth control and long-distance play.

Pairing is quick: the very fist time, just tap Add Toy, turn the Vulse on, and it appears in the app within seconds. After that first setup, it auto-connects as soon as you turn it on with the app open.

Lovense Add Toy
Tap “add toy” to pair for the first time, after this, simply turning the toy on will auto-pair it with the app.

Once paired, the Vulse stays connected through normal phone use, including locking your screen, switching apps, or leaving the app idle.

It also handles body interference very well. Body tissue can weaken Bluetooth more than walls or clothing, which is why some egg vibrators work fine for solo control but drop connection when a partner controls them from certain angles. In our body-interference test, the Vulse stayed connected through all three positions, including the hardest one. Other eggs, like the Satisfyer Ribbed Petal lost connection at certain angles.

Bluetooth range was excellent too, reaching about 240 feet in our clear line-of-sight test. That’s far more than most people will need, though the newer Lovense Lush 4 reached an even farther 365 feet. Keep in mind, walls and other interference will shorten real-world range.

Lovense Vulse Reconnecting Message
You are alerted with a “reconnecting” message if your toy loses connection.

If the Vulse does disconnect, the app reconnects automatically once the signal is clear. A red “Reconnecting…” message also tells the controlling partner that control has paused. You can choose whether the toy stops vibrating during a disconnect with Auto-Stop, or keeps vibrating at the last intensity level until it reconnects.

Long-distance connectivity is also excellent. The toy connects to your phone over Bluetooth, and your phone connects to your partner’s phone over Wi-Fi or cell data. Since the Bluetooth connection is strong, long-distance play works well as long as your internet connection is decent. Sessions stay stable, commands go through reliably, and locking your phone or switching apps doesn’t disrupt control.

One quirk: if you start a session on Wi-Fi and then switch to cell data, the first switch can drop control and require a quick re-invite. After that, switching works normally. To avoid this, start the session on cellular data and then you can switch freely between the two.


Remote Control: Main Takeaways


Remote Control N/A N/A

The Lovense Flexer doesn’t include a physical remote control. A remote lets you adjust the toy by feel – without pulling out your phone. Though there’s other downsides like less depth and no visual feedback to help your partner know what your toy’s doing. If you want to consider options with physical remotes, see our recommendations in these guides:

The Lovense Vulse doesn’t include a physical remote control. A remote lets you adjust the toy by feel – without pulling out your phone. Though there’s other downsides like less depth and no visual feedback to help your partner know what your toy’s doing. If you want to consider options with physical remotes, see our recommendations in these guides:


On-Toy Controls


On-Toy Controls Rating 6.5 7.2
Lovense Flexer On-Toy Controls Photo
Lovense Vulse On-Toy Controls Photo
Control Interface 6.2 6.2
Vibration Power Control Method Single Button Cycle Loop (Shared) Single Button Cycle Loop (Shared)
Vibration Pattern Control Method Single Button Cycle Loop (Shared) Single Button Cycle Loop (Shared)
Motion Intensity Control Method Single Button Cycle Loop (Shared) Single Button Cycle Loop (Shared)
Motion Pattern Control Method Single Button Cycle Loop (Shared) Single Button Cycle Loop (Shared)
Same Arm Vibration & Motion Control Independence Linked Linked
Different Arm Control Independence Linked N/A
Can Adjust Pattern Intensity? No No
On-Toy Control Comfort 7.5 10.0

The Flexer’s on-toy controls work as a backup, but the app is the main way to use this toy. A single button cycles through three power levels and four patterns on the same loop, with the vibration and motion functions linked together.

Adjust Button Preset Powers in Lovense App
You can adjust the strength of the buttons’ 3 settings through the app.

Lovense lets you customize the three on-toy preset power levels in the app so the button provides access to the levels you like. This can be useful if you don’t want to mess with the app for quick, immediate interaction.

However, the button sits far enough back on the toy that it’s annoying to reach while using. So the app is really what you should count on in typical use.

While the app is the main way to control the Vulse, the toy does have a single externally accessible button on the antenna. This is much better than egg vibrators with a button on the body of the egg, which you have to remove to access.

The single button cycles through three power levels and four patterns on the same loop. You cannot step backward, so dropping to a gentler/slower level means clicking through the remaining settings first. Seven total settings is not terrible for backup control, but I would rather Lovense leave patterns out of the on-toy cycle.

Adjust Button Preset Powers in Lovense App
You can adjust what power levels are programmed into the on-toy button in the app.

If you do plan to use the on-toy button, Lovense allows you to set the 3 on-toy preset powers to whatever intensity you want through the app. That way, you can customize it to settings you’ll actually use.


Secure Fit & Adjustability


Secure Fit Rating 6.2 9.6
Adjustability Rating 0.0 N/A
Lovense Flexer No Adjustability Demo Photo - Completely Rigid
Lovense Vulse Antenna Flexibility Demo Photo 1
Lovense Vulse Antenna Flexibility Demo Photo 2
Secure Fit (In Bed) 6.5 10.0
Secure Fit (Light Activity) 6.0 9.0
Secure Fit (Heavy Activity) 6.0 10.0
Adjustment Type None None
Shape Degrees of Freedom 0 0

The Flexer’s fit is workable when using it hands-free in bed, but it moves around a lot and does not feel secure when walking. Some of that movement is intentional – the flexing arm presses both internally and externally. But it also makes the stimulation feel a bit chaotic and less secure.

Lovense Dolce Adjustability Range
The Lovense Dolce is adjustable so you can get a better fit.

The bigger issue is that the Flexer is rigid and not adjustable. If the shape lines up well with your anatomy, it can be very stimulating. If it doesn’t, there’s not much you can do to improve the fit. That makes it a riskier pick than adjustable dual-stim toys like the Lovense Dolce, which stays in place better and has a good adjustable spine to help you get a better fit for your individual anatomy.

The Flexer feels least secure when the flexing motion is on. With vibrations alone, it’s more stable, but still has a “half in” feeling that makes me less confident moving around. During light activity, especially bending or squatting, I worry it could work its way out. And it’s not comfortable to wear when moving around anyway.

Lovense Flexer with the Lush 4 and Ferri
The Lush 4 (middle) and Ferri (right) are much better suited for walking around.

I’d treat the Flexer as an in-bed toy, not something for walking around. For dual-stimulation you can wear around more easily, try pairing the Lovense Ferri with the Lovense Lush 4 or Lush Mini.

The Lovense Vulse fits very securely – it’s the most secure of any of my wearable vibrators with motion. It was surprisingly comparable to eggs that only vibrate.

In bed, it stays exactly where I put it, even while the thrusting motion is running. When I walk around, the antenna can occasionally twist slightly causing the toy to rotate a bit to one side, but this doesn’t change the stimulation at all, and it stayed fully inserted – I’m not worried about it falling out at all.

Most of my other motion-based wearables are only safe for use in bed because the moving mechanism causes the toy to work its way out, but this is not an issue for the Vulse.

Like all egg vibrators, it’s not adjustable, because it simply slides into place. There are no hinges or bendable arms – eggs are more of a one-size-fits-all design.


Comfort


Comfort Rating 4.9 6.8
In Bed 5.5 7.0
Light Activity 4.3 6.6

The Flexer can be an uncomfortable dual-stimulation wearable, and takes some warmup and unique preferences to enjoy. It is rigid, girthy, and the flexing motion can pinch against my pubic bone.

It’s best for those who prefer a fuller internal feel, and don’t mind firm pressure on your clit.

I find it most comfortable lying in bed. Sitting up or bending forward makes it feel too tight. Walking around is worse – my movement feels restricted in normal activities like walking, stairs, standing, or sitting.

Lovense Flexer and Fantasy For Her G-Spot Stimulate-Her
The Fantasy For Her G-spot Stimulate-Her (right) is more comfortable than the Flexer (left) in bed.

This might be fine for those who value the strong, unique stimulation it provides. But if comfort is a priority, the Fantasy For Her G-spot Stimulate-Her is one of my most comfortable dual-stimulation wearables in bed. Or, egg and panty vibrators are more comfortable to wear around.

The Vulse is comfortable in bed as long as you like some girth. Though it has some oddities you have to get used to.

Lovense Vulse and Lelo Hula Beads
The Lelo Hula Beads (right) have an odd shape that does not fit comfortably for me. But the size of the Vulse (left) fits well and stays in place.

In bed, it feels more natural than the Lelo Hula Beads for me: it settles into the right spot, and importantly – it slides up high enough that it does not press uncomfortably against my vaginal opening.

It still provides a bit of a stretch and bladder pressure like other eggs of this size, so it’s best for those who enjoy some girth, or prefer shorter sessions.

Lovense Vulse and Lush 4 Antenna Comparison
The curved antenna of the newer Lush models, like the Lush 4 (right) is more comfortable than the straight antenna of the Vulse (left).

When moving around, the straight (but flexible) antenna can be annoying, especially when walking or lying on my stomach. I prefer the curved, form-fitting antennas of the newer Lush models like the Lush 4, because they don’t tap unpredictably against my clit or stick out as much. And I personally find the thrusting motion more ditracting than enjoyable when walking around so I still prefer vibration-only eggs for that.

If you prioritize comfort, the Lovense Lush Mini is my favorite egg because it’s smaller and doesn’t press as much against my bladder. And the curved antenna fits snug against my body.

But if you want a motion-based toy, the Lovense Vulse is reasonably comfortable in bed and while moving.


Noise


Noise Rating 3.9 4.7
Decibels on Low Power 49.7 dBA 56.0 dBA
Decibels on High Power 54.7 dBA 62.9 dBA
Audibility - Background Noise Masking 3.0 4.0
Quiet (56 dBA) - Low Power Audible Inaudible
Quiet (56 dBA) - Middle Power Audible Audible
Quiet (56 dBA) - High Power Audible Audible
Moderate (62 dBA) - Low Power Audible Inaudible
Moderate (62 dBA) - Middle Power Audible Audible
Moderate (62 dBA) - High Power Audible Audible
Loud (68 dBA) - Low Power Audible Inaudible
Loud (68 dBA) - Middle Power Audible Inaudible
Loud (68 dBA) - High Power Audible Audible
Audibility Behind Closed Door 4.0 6.0
Low Power Inaudible Inaudible
Middle Power Audible Inaudible
High Power Audible Audible
High Power with Box Fan Audible Audible
High Power with Music Inaudible Inaudible

The Flexer is very loud. The vibrations are high-pitched and buzzy, and the flex motor adds a distinct non-constant mechanical sound that draws attention.

Decibel readings were 49.7 dBA on low and 54.7 dBA on high. Those numbers are not extreme, but the high-pitched, uneven sound makes it easier to hear.

In our background noise masking test, I wear the toy while my partner listens from three feet away and we play pink noise through a speaker at quiet, moderate, and loud volumes. Even with our loudest background audio playing all the Flexer’s settings were audible – low power was barely noticeable, but middle and high were still unmistakable.

We also check whether my partner can hear me use it behind our closed bedroom door. The middle and high powers were audible. A box fan helped enough that high power was barely audible and probably would not be noticed in normal use. To be completely masked, I had to play music in the bedroom.

The Lelo Ida Wave is much quieter than the Flexer.

If you want dual-stimulation from motion that’s quieter, consider the Lelo Ida Wave.

The Lovense Vulse is louder than any of my other egg vibrators, so it’s not a great option if discretion is important to you.

The issue is the high-pitched thrusting motor. The back and forth motion creates an inconsistent sound that’s much more noticeable than the consistent, lower-pitched hum of vibration-only eggs like the Lovense Lush 4.

In our Background Noise Masking testing, I wore the Vulse while my partner listened from three feet away with pink noise playing at quiet, moderate, and loud volumes. The Vulse’s low power was masked in every condition, but middle power was still audible with quiet and moderate background noise, and high power stayed audible even with our loudest masking audio.

I also have my partner listen from behind a closed bedroom door, while I use the vibrator in bed. My partner could hear the Vulse’s high power, and could still barely hear it when I turned a box fan on in the bedroom. Music was the only thing that masked it.

The Lovense Lush 4 is quieter than the Vulse.

The Vulse’s noise is quieter than the demo video above once worn, but certainly still loud. If you’re easily annoyed by sound or need something quiet, the Lovense Lush 4 is the better option.


Battery Life


Battery Life Rating 7.8 6.0
Lovense Flexer Charging Cable Photo
Lovense Vulse Charging Cable Photo
Power Source Rechargeable Rechargeable
Battery Life on High Power 95 minutes 60 minutes
Charging Cable Magnetic Magnetic

The Lovense Flexer has a great battery life, lasting 95 minutes on high in our test. That’s comparable with or better than other dual-stimulation wearables, and plenty for most in-bed or long-distance sessions.

The Vulse has a sub-par battery life of about 60 minutes at max power in our testing. That is enough for most use in the bedroom, but short if you plan to wear it around. Egg vibrators designed to wear around typically last longer.

If you prioritize extended wear or often forget to charge between uses, the Lovense Lush 4 lasts twice as long.


Cleaning


Cleaning Rating 10.0 10.0
Lovense Flexer Waterproof Rating Demonstration
Lovense Vulse Waterproof Rating Demonstration
Waterproof Rating IPX7 IPX7

The Flexer is IPX7 waterproof and easy to clean with soap and water. You can rinse it thoroughly after use, including at the hinge, where the internal and external arms meet.

The Vulse is very easy to clean because it is IPX7 waterproof. You can rinse it under running water or fully submerge it while scrubbing with soap and water.


Build Quality


Build Quality Rating 9.5 9.0

The Flexer feels sturdy and well-built. I’ve had mine since 2022 and it’s still working how it did when I first got it.

It is covered in smooth, firm silicone, and the connecting arm between the internal and external sections is very strong. The flexing movement comes from the motor, not from the toy feeling floppy or manually bendable.

That rigidity contributes to the comfort problems, but it also makes the toy feel durable.

My main frustration with the build has to do with noise. The flex motor can be especially high-pitched in a cheap-sounding way. It’s not as quiet as premium options like the Lelo Ida Wave.

The Vulse feels well built. It is covered in smooth silicone, the antenna feels sturdy, and the thrusting motor holds up to pressure without slowing or stalling.

The high-pitch of the thrusting motor can be annoying and doesn’t necessarily sound high-quality. But I’ve owned this toy since 2023, and it continues to operate as expected.


General Design and Specs


Internal Arm Dimensions and Design:
Lovense Flexer Dimensions Photo - Product Set On Graph Paper With Carpenter Square to See Size
Lovense Vulse Dimensions Photo - Product Set On Graph Paper With Carpenter Square to See Size
Insertable Length 3.4 inches 3.3 inches
Lovense Flexer Internal Arm Max Width Measurement Photo
Lovense Vulse Max Width Measurement Photo
Max Width 1.2 inches 1.3 inches
Lovense Flexer Internal Arm Max Thickness Measurement Photo
Lovense Vulse Max Thickness Measurement Photo
Max Thickness 1.4 inches 1.5 inches
Lovense Flexer Internal Arm Cross-Section View Photo
Lovense Vulse Cross-Section View Photo
Cross-Section Profile G-Spot Contoured G-Spot Contoured
Lovense Flexer Internal Arm Longitudinal Shape View Photo
Lovense Vulse Longitudinal Shape View Photo
Longitudinal Shape Bulbous G-Spot Section Rounded Cylindrical
External Arm Dimensions and Design:
Lovense Flexer Dimensions Photo - Product Set On Graph Paper With Carpenter Square to See Size
Length 2.0 inches N/A
Lovense Flexer External Arm Max Width Measurement Photo
Max Width at Clit Region 0.9 inches N/A
Lovense Flexer External Arm Max Thickness Measurement Photo
Max Thickness 0.7 inches N/A
Lovense Flexer External Arm Contact Surface Precision Photo
Contact Surface Precision Focused N/A
Lovense Flexer External Arm Lengthwise Curvature Photo
Lengthwise Curvature Body-Contoured / Concave Curved N/A
Overall Specs:
Lovense Flexer Weight Measurement Photo
Lovense Vulse Weight Measurement Photo
Weight 3.4 ounces 2.8 ounces
Material Silicone Silicone

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