In the next sections, I’ll cover the Ida Wave’s clit vibration power and rumbliness.

Here’s the main conclusion:

The Ida Wave has one of the best clit motors of any dual-stim wearable. It’s got the most rumbly clit motor of the dual-stim wearables I’ve tested, and has great power. It’s strong enough for me to orgasm hands-free, and while some others have even more strength, the broad external arm helps the vibrations reach my clit more effectively than many stronger toys.

Like all egg vibrators, the We-Vibe Jive Lite only stimulates your G-spot – not your clit. For clit stimulation, a panty vibrator is the better type of wearable for you. See all our recommendations for the best panty vibrators here.

An egg vibrator is a good option if:

1. You enjoy internal vibrations, G-spot pressure, or fullness on its own. (Many people need clit stimulation to orgasm, but internal stimulation can still feel good and be great foreplay.)
2. You plan to pair it with clit stimulation from something else.

I can’t orgasm even with our strongest G-spot vibrator alone, but when I pair it with clitoral stimulation, it makes my orgasms feel more full.

The Ida Wave has strong clit vibrations – strong enough for me to orgasm hands-free. Its ten power levels span from a very gentle 1.0 up to 8.5 out of 10, with gradual steps for a comfortable, slow build.

The vibrations transfer really well to my clit too. With hands-free vibrators, the toy’s shape and fit have to naturally carry the motor’s strength to your body. The Ida Wave’s design does this very well: the tight angle of the internal arm pushes the clit arm firmly against my body, and the broad shape distributes this pressure evenly and consistently (and very comfortably).

Of the dual-stim wearables I’ve tested, the Lovense Dolce and Lovense Flexer reach higher raw top powers, but neither delivers their power to the clit as effectively as the Ida Wave.

We rate wearables with rumbly vibrations higher than buzzy ones because rumbly is what most people prefer. But it’s definitely a personal preference, so consider what you like.

The Ida Wave’s clit motor is one of the most rumbly of my dual-stimulation wearables. Its lowest power setting is extremely rumbly at 46 Hz, the middle of its range is moderately rumbly at 68 Hz, and its top setting reaches neutral at 84 Hz – it never crosses into buzzy territory. My other dual-stim wearables are buzzier: the Lovense Dolce starts rumbly on low (49 Hz) but climbs into extremely buzzy at its top, and the Lovense Flexer is extremely buzzy at every power level.

Rumbly vibrations travel deeper into your body and tend to feel less ticklish than buzzy ones, which is part of why many people prefer them. While I can orgasm just as well from buzzy wearables as rumbly ones, the Ida Wave will be best for those who prioritize rumbliness.

In the next sections, I’ll cover the Jive Lite’s G-spot power and rumbliness in detail.

Here’s the main conclusion:

The Jive Lite delivers good G-spot stimulation despite its moderate power since it’s rumbly. But better eggs are just as rumbly and have more power too. For more stimulating app-controlled eggs, consider the Lovense Lush 4 or Lush Mini. If you prefer a remote control, the Jive 2 and VeDO Kiwi are more stimulating.

The We-Vibe Jive Lite’s vibrations are impactful, but the top power lands at 5 out of 10 – softer than other leading G-spot eggs I’ve tested. The Lovense Lush 4 doubles its strength at 10, the Lush Mini reaches 9.5, the We-Vibe Jive 2 climbs to 9, and even the budget VeDO Kiwi hits 8.

What you’ll actually get with the Jive Lite in normal use is even softer than the 5 strength if you’re using the app. The We-Vibe app has a bug that caps the highest setting at about 4.25 out of 10 – roughly 15% short of what the on-toy button reaches. The power range starts gently around 0.7 and climbs continuously up, so you do get a comfortable warmup.

It’s slimmer and less bulbous than the Jive 2 or the Lush line, so it doesn’t press as precisely into my G-spot – and I don’t get that little squeeze sensation against my bladder (which feels more stimulating) that those eggs provide. But the vibrations feel rich and full because they’re rumbly, which I’ll discuss below. So if the app worked better, I would use this one more.

The We-Vibe Jive Lite has good rumbliness.

For G-spot stimulation, rumbly vibrations matter more than they do for clitoral. With clit vibrators, you’re placing the vibe directly on a highly sensitive area. But G-spot vibrations have to travel farther through tissue to reach more nerve-rich regions, and lower-frequency rumbly vibrations travel through your body much more effectively. I’ve found that even vibrators without a ton of power can feel impactful if they’re rumbly.

The Jive Lite’s lowest setting measures 28.82 Hz – in the extremely rumbly range. And at median power it stays extremely rumbly – around 52 Hz. Vibrations only cross into neutral territory at the motor’s top speed (only accessible from the on-toy button). The rumbliness keeps the vibrations feeling deep and impactful despite the moderate power.

However, other good egg vibrators like the Lovense Lush 4 and Lush Mini are just as rumbly on their low settings while carrying on to stronger top settings. Or if rumbliness is your top priority, the VeDO Kiwi (remote-controlled) is the most rumbly egg.

I really enjoy the Ida Wave’s G-spot motion and it hits my G-spot well, but it’s somewhat subtle – like gentle fingering. It adds depth to my orgasms driven by the clit motor, but isn’t the main event on its own.

This rotational motion is one of my favorites, because this angle can direct pressure against the front wall where my G-spot is. Of the motion-based wearables I’ve tested, the Ida Wave hits the G-spot best: the “fingering” motion of the Lovense Flexer actually creates more clit movement than internal movement. And in-and-out thrusting toys like the Lovense Vulse feel good but don’t press on my G-spot specifically. The Ida Wave’s motion is also more stimulating than the Lelo Hula Beads which have too little range of motion to reach my G-spot reliably.

The stimulation is on the gentle side because the internal arm is flexible, so the pressure is light. If you like substantial force on your G-spot, handheld G-spot toys like the We-Vibe Nova 2 or Lovense Nora allow for much more leveraging pressure. But what I enjoy about the Ida Wave is that it’s effortless.

I can let the clit vibrations bring me to orgasm hands-free while the G-spot motion makes the orgasm stronger and more full.

In the next sections, I’ll cover the Lelo app’s close-range features, long-distance features, and connectivity in detail.

Here’s the main conclusion: Lelo’s app is clean, easy to use, and reliable, but it’s basic compared with the best vibrator apps.

Close-range and long-distance controls works well for adjusting intensity, choosing preset patterns, or controlling power through your phone’s movement. But there’s no custom pattern creation, sound sync, multi-toy control, or independent control over each motor. Long-distance connections are reliable, but the experience is bare-bones with no video calling or photo sharing. Bluetooth connectivity is solid during normal use, though heavy body interference can cause dropouts.

If basic, reliable control is enough and you primarily want the Ida Wave for its comfortable motion and rumbly clit vibrations, the app works well. If a feature-rich app and engaging long-distance experience are priorities, go with a Lovense dual-stimulation wearable like the Lovense Dolce or the Lovense Flexer if you still want motion.

In the next sections, I’ll cover the We-Vibe app’s close-range features, long-distance features, and connectivity in detail.

Here’s the main takeaway: the We-Vibe app is buggy enough to be a dealbreaker for the Jive Lite. Unlike the Jive 2, there’s no physical remote to fall back on, so you’re stuck relying on a broken app.

The app is far behind Lovense, which has the best app-control experience. In close range, several We-Vibe products, including the Jive Lite, have bugs where the controls freeze and the app only reaches about 85% of the toy’s true top strength. Long-distance control also has a bug that can prevent you from connecting at all.

For better app control, choose the Lovense Lush Mini if you want a slim, comfortable egg, or the Lovense Lush 4 if you want something fuller-feeling and stronger.

The Lelo app’s close-range features are clean, easy to use, and work well – but they’re very basic. It’s essentially a glorified remote control which can be good if you like simplicity.

You can adjust intensity, choose preset patterns, and use Lelo’s unique motion-control feature like their physical remotes provide. But it lacks the advanced features better apps offer, like custom pattern creation, music/sound sync, separate control over each motor, and the ability to control multiple toys at once.

Manual mode is just a picture of Lelo’s remote and + / − buttons to raise or lower intensity. It works well, but with 10 power levels, it takes lots of repeated taps to reach high power. Better apps like Lovense’s feel smoother because you can tap or drag directly to the intensity you want instead of clicking a button several times.

For faster intensity changes, use the Screwing mode. This adjusts the toy’s power based on your phone’s tilt – level for gentle vibrations, closer to 90 degrees for stronger. This is also a great way to control your toy without staring at a screen.

Shaking changes intensity based on how hard you shake the phone, but I think it takes too much energy, so it’s not very useful.

On all 3 screens, you can select a pattern and control its intensity. The pattern names are vague like “Delighted” or “Overjoyed” instead of descriptive like “Waves” or “Pulses”. And the app shows small waveform icons for each motor, but you don’t see them until you’ve selected the pattern. So you have to select and try each pattern to know what it feels like.

It’s missing more advanced functionality other apps provide. There’s no custom pattern creation, no music or sound-reactive control, no multi-toy control, and no individual control over each motor. Each pattern in the Ida Wave’s app assigns a preset waveform to both motors, and some Modes give the clit and G-spot motors different patterns. But any intensity adjustment applies to both motors together, so you can’t turn up the clit vibrations while keeping the G-spot motion slow for example. Better apps like Lovense allow individual control of each motor.

One small annoyance: the app requires an account even for close-range solo use. It usually stays logged in, but it sometimes signs me out, which is frustrating when I’m ready to use the toy.

For simple, reliable close-range control, the Ida Wave’s app is good. But if you want more advanced app features, the Lovense Dolce is a good dual-stimulation wearable with a better app.

The We-Vibe app’s close-range features are frustrating because the app is so buggy. If everything worked properly, it would be decent for people who only want simple intensity control and preset patterns. But persistent bugs make it hard to recommend – especially because the Jive Lite doesn’t include a physical remote as backup.

The main controls are Single Vibe and Multi Vibe. Both let you drag a dot around to adjust intensity. In Multi Vibe, the screen is split into four corners, and each corner can hold a preset pattern. Dragging the dot into a corner switches to that pattern at the intensity you choose. In theory, it’s a clean way to move between steady vibration and presets without digging through menus. But oftentimes, it doesn’t play the correct pattern or freezes.

And on the Jive Lite, the app doesn’t reach the toy’s full power. Even when the control dot is at 100%, the toy only reaches about 85% of the strength you can get from the on-toy button. The strongest app settings still feel good, but the app can’t access the Jive Lite’s true top level.

There are 10 preset patterns you can choose from in Single or Multi Vibe mode, each with a name and waveform icon. Some are easy to understand, like Pulse and Wave, while others are less clear.

Custom pattern is very difficult. It takes several taps to reach, and doesn’t let you feel the pattern while drawing it. You have to draw the pattern, save and name it, go back to the control screen, select it, and then test how it feels.

The patterns are also limited by your screen width, so they come out short and choppy. My partner and I both tried creating patterns: his played, while mine crashed the app repeatedly until I gave up. For custom pattern creation, the Lovense Lush Mini and Lush 4 are much better.

There’s also a Playlist feature that lets you string presets together, but you can’t feel what you’re building as you make it, so it’s mostly guesswork.

The sound and music modes are okay. Sound Mode uses your phone’s mic to make the toy respond to nearby noise. Music Mode syncs the toy to songs saved locally on your phone, but it doesn’t work with Spotify or Apple Music. Both modes function, but the controls are poorly labeled, and there’s no minimum-volume threshold like Lovense offers.

I don’t use Touch Mode often, because it requires you to keep your fingers moving on the screen the whole time.

When the We-Vibe app fails, your only fallback is the on-toy button, which cycles through 4 power levels and 6 patterns. That’s hard to use when you’re wearing the toy and it’s under clothing.

For an app-controlled egg vibrator with much better close-range control, the Lovense Lush Mini or Lovense Lush 4 are stronger choices.

Lelo’s long-distance experience is very basic.

It works for offering a partner simple, reliable control of your toy from anywhere in the world, but it doesn’t have the communication features that make long-distance feel more like sharing an experience together: no video or voice calls, no saved partners, no photo or voice messaging, no custom pattern creation, and you can only send text messages when you’re both in an active session.

To start, you create a new Room and send your partner the code outside the app. That’s fine for one-off sessions, but you have to create a new room every time. There are no saved partner profiles, online status, auto-accept settings, or permissions. So with a regular partner, you have to start from scratch each time.

Once connected, the controlling partner gets a version of the same Play screen used for close-range control: they will use the Manual mode, and the Screwing/Shaking motion modes to contol your toy. Lelo does add two useful long-distance controls: a drag-to-position dot for setting intensity quickly, and a voice-control mode that changes power based on sound picked up by the phone’s mic. Both make it quicker to set a specific intensity than tapping + / − repeatedly.

But it lacks lots of communication features that make most long-distance toys feel fun and connecting. There’s only text messaging, with no message history once the room ends, so you can’t go back and reread fun messages. Video or voice calls have to happen in another app, like FaceTime or Zoom. But if you each have a Lelo toy, you can each control the other’s toy.

If long-distance play is a priority, the Lovense Dolce or Lovense Flexer is the better dual-stim wearable. Lovense has in-app video, messaging, saved partners, permission settings, and detailed controls so your partner can make custom patterns. Lelo is fine for basic control-sharing, but Lovense is much stronger for ongoing partner play.

The We-Vibe app’s long-distance features are broken. They’re designed fine in theory, but persistent bugs make long-distance play unreliable enough that I can’t recommend the app for it at all. If you need long-distance play, get the Lovense Lush Mini or Lush 4.

In theory, the long-distance experience mirrors close-range. Your partner gets the same Single Vibe, Multi Vibe, and Touch screens to control your Jive Lite, and you get the same screens to control their toy. You can even take back control of your own toy mid-session without ending the call – a feature I wish more apps had, since sometimes you know what your body needs better than your partner does.

Unfortunately, the same bugs from close-range control carry over, including the power cap: your partner can’t reach the very top of the Jive Lite’s range from the app. And the control dot occasionally freezes or becomes unresponsive – drag the dot to raise your partner’s intensity, and nothing happens.

Worse, both partners frequently show up as “offline” to each other even when you’re both in the app, which prevents you from starting a session at all.

Even when long-distance does connect, getting into a video call takes four separate request-and-accepts (call, camera, control of your toy, control of theirs). And the in-app video feed is blurry and choppy in a way Lovense’s isn’t.

The chat messaging itself is decent as a basic messenger, with text, photos, voice notes, and video clips. We-Vibe also lets you save multiple partners, but doesn’t offer the anonymous one-time control links or the auto-accept settings for trusted partners that Lovense’s app does.

For long-distance play, the Lovense Lush Mini or Lush 4 are far better egg vibrators.

The Ida Wave’s close-range Bluetooth is good for solo use: pairing is reliable, commands consistently go through, and the range is strong – 215 feet in our test without any blockage. It can be sensitive to too much body tissue coming between the phone and toy, but this doesn’t happen much in normal use.

The first time you connect, you’ll add the toy to your list which takes a few clicks. After that first one-time pairing, I just tap the toy from the My Toy list, tap Play, and it connects within a few seconds.

The Ida Wave stays connected well when the phone and toy have a clear path, but Bluetooth struggles when a lot of body tissue sits between them. In our body-interference test, it handled light body interference but dropped at the two harder angles with more material blocking the signal.

For most people this won’t really be an issue with the Ida Wave. Our test runs harsher than real wear. The Ida Wave’s receiver is in the external arm and often will have a relatively clear shot – especially since this toy is best in bed rather than wearing around where your partner might be at an odd angle like controlling your toy from behind you.

If the connection drops between your phone and the toy, the app won’t automatically reconnect when the signal returns. You have to go back to the toy’s connection page, and press the physical button on the Ida Wave itself to re-pair. Since the button’s on the external arm, it’s not much trouble, but still takes effort.

Connecting in long-distance mode through a “room” is reliable because your partner’s phone isn’t talking directly to the toy. Your phone controls the Ida Wave over Bluetooth, and your partner’s phone connects to yours over Wi-Fi or cell data. As long as your phone stays near the toy and both internet connections are decent, the long-distance connection works well.

One small long-distance quirk: if the controlling partner locks their phone or leaves the app for more than about 30 seconds, they drop out of the Room and have to re-enter the code. The wearer’s connection doesn’t drop – control just pauses until they rejoin.

For most typical uses, the Ida Wave’s connection is solid. But if the best connectivity is important to you, the Lovense Dolce or Flexer is a better pick. They handle tougher body-blocking angles better, and are stronger overall for app-controlled play.

The We-Vibe app’s connectivity with the Jive Lite is poor in close-range and broken in long-distance – the cause is the software bugs, not the Bluetooth signal itself.

The Bluetooth hardware itself is fine: range is excellent, and body interference doesn’t disrupt the connection. But buggy app-side code causes unreliable reconnection, frequent command misses, and persistent bugs that make long-distance play unusable. Lovense has the most reliable app connectivity by a wide margin – consider the Lovense Lush Mini or Lush 4 if app control is a priority.

Initial pairing in close-range is straightforward – add the Jive Lite to the app’s toy carousel once, and from then on it’s two taps to connect with no on-toy action needed. For most people, who own one or two We-Vibe toys and use a single phone, this part works fine.

The breakdown happens if you own several We-Vibe toys and switch between them often, or if you regularly switch which phone is controlling the same toy (like you and your partner both connect occasionally). This causes the quick-connect routine to fail, and recovering often means deleting the toy from the app, forgetting it from your phone’s Bluetooth settings, and walking through the full pairing flow again – an annoying start to your play.

Reconnection during play is inconsistent. If you drop signal and get back in range within 10-20 seconds, the app typically reconnects automatically – but during that window the app doesn’t show that the connection has dropped, so your partner can be “controlling” the toy on screen while nothing is actually happening to your toy. Wait too long to come back in range and you’ll have to tap through the connection screens again, sometimes including holding the on-toy button until it vibrates twice – which can be hard while you’re wearing it.

Even when the connection holds, the app’s controls break. Command misses are frequent, especially on the Single Vibe and Multi Vibe screens – drag the dot up and the toy doesn’t respond, or pick a pulsing preset and a steady vibration plays instead. The misses are intermittent rather than constant, but they happen often enough that I don’t trust the app to keep up with what I’m asking it to do.

The Jive Lite handles body interference cleanly. Our body-interference test simulates partner-control at three progressively harder positions – angles where your body sits between a partner’s phone and the toy which can block the signal. The Jive Lite holds a stable connection at all three. Water-rich body tissue weakens Bluetooth signals more than walls or clothes, and many wearables drop the connection under body interference, but the Jive Lite doesn’t. The signal is strong, and the reliability problems are app-side. Bluetooth range is also excellent – the connection held at an excellent 195 feet in our open-air test.

Long-distance is where the app is fully broken. The problem is the two app-level bugs I covered in the Long Distance Features section above: both partners frequently show as “offline” to each other and can’t start a session at all, and when they do connect, control commands often stop reaching the toys. Both bugs happen regularly without a reliable way to fix it.

If reliable app connectivity is what you need – close-range or long-distance – go with the Lovense Lush Mini or Lush 4.

The Lelo Ida Wave doesn’t include a physical remote control. A remote lets you adjust the toy by feel – without pulling out your phone. Though there’s other downsides like less depth and no visual feedback to help your partner know what your toy’s doing. If you want to consider options with physical remotes, see our recommendations in these guides:

• best remote and app-controlled vibrators (all types of vibrators)
• best wearable vibrators (wearables only).

The We-Vibe Jive Lite doesn’t include a physical remote control. A remote lets you adjust the toy by feel – without pulling out your phone. Though there’s other downsides like less depth and no visual feedback to help your partner know what your toy’s doing. If you want to consider options with physical remotes, see our recommendations in these guides:

• best remote and app-controlled vibrators (all types of vibrators)
• best wearable vibrators (wearables only).

Like most wearables, the Ida Wave’s on-toy controls are limited by design – you’ll mostly control it through the app. The button is a single-button cycle for 7 vibration patterns, with only one vibration power level accessible on-toy. The rotating internal arm spins at one fixed speed regardless of which setting you select.

For the full 10 power settings and control over the arm’s speed, you have to use the app.

If you do have to use the on-toy button, the button placement is good. On most wearables, pressing the button often means pushing the toy uncomfortably against you or removing it completely first. But the Ida Wave’s button is on the side of the external arm.

It’s comfortable and easy to press, and doesn’t push the toy uncomfortably against your body, making it decent as a backup if you don’t feel like using the app.

Like most wearables, the Jive Lite’s on-toy controls are limited by design: a single button on the antenna cycles through four steady power levels and six vibration patterns in one loop, with no way to step backward without cycling through everything in between.

The button itself is well-designed. It sits on the end of the antenna, so I don’t have to remove the egg to press it, and the broad raised texture is easy to feel without looking. It takes more force than the Lovense eggs’ buttons, but it’s still comfortable to press.

Unlike most wearables, though, this button isn’t just a backup. Because of power-range bug in the We-Vibe app, the on-toy button is the only way to reach the Jive Lite’s true max setting – so if you want full power, you’re using the button.

The Ida Wave is the least secure-fitting dual-stim wearable I’ve tested. I still really enjoy this toy, but you can’t wear it around. And even in bed, I have to make occasional adjustments.

The rotating internal arm is small and flexible while the external arm is broad and heavy, so the toy’s own weight slowly works the internal arm out. It’s flexible, but not adjustable, so there are no hinges to actually re-shape the toy to make it more secure.

In bed, the Ida Wave stays workable but never feels fully reliably anchored. I can roll, shift positions, even kneel, but I find myself adjusting it or pushing the internal arm back in a few times per session. The clit vibrations are stimulating, but for the best experience, plan to use your hand every so often to re-position it. If you’ll find that annoying, dual-stimulation toys without motion like the Lovense Dolce are much more secure.

The Ida Wave is not designed to be worn around. When I walked around with it in, I had to keep pushing it back into position; only my underwear stopped it from falling all the way out. It also bumps against the inside of my legs, making walking awkward. With any sort of heavier activity like running or jumping the Ida Wave pulls most of the way out.

If walking around or moving with the toy in is part of what you want from a wearable, the Ida Wave isn’t built for it – and really none of my strong dual-stimulation wearables are easy to wear around. A panty vibrator like the Lovense Ferri or egg vibrator like the Lovense Lush 4 are much more secure. You can even wear both of these at the same time and control them through the Lovense app.

Like most egg vibrators, the Jive Lite fits exceptionally securely whether you’re in bed, walking around, or doing heavier activity. It stays exactly where I put it and doesn’t budge. The especially secure fit is an advantage of egg vibrators over other kinds of wearable vibrators – once inserted, an egg’s bulbous shape tends to hold it easily in place without the need for any adjustable mechanism.

There’s no real adjustability on the Jive Lite either – the egg body is fixed and the only flexible part is the antenna, which sits naturally along your body.

The Ida Wave is much more comfortable in bed than it is for walking around. Lying down, the slim internal arm is pretty comfortable, and the broad external arm distributes pressure evenly. But once I’m standing or walking, the toy starts to pull out, which can make it pinch uncomfortably.

In bed, the internal arm is slim enough that it doesn’t limit my movement as much as more bulbous internal arms. The external arm is broad enough that I can’t fully close my legs around it, but my legs help to keep it in place. And this breadth helps spread the pressure out instead of pinching, like the narrower Lovense Flexer can.

Walking around is the weak point. As the internal arm slowly works its way out, it can press uncomfortably against my pubic bone. So if mobile comfort is your priority, try a panty vibrator like the Lovense Ferri or egg vibrator like the Lovense Lush Mini instead. Or try wearing them both at the same time for dual-stimulation that’s more comfy to wear around.

The Ida Wave is best treated as an in-bed wearable.

The Jive Lite is a comfortable egg whether in bed or wearing it around – slimmer and less bulbous than some eggs.

The slim shape means that while there’s a stretch when I insert it, there’s no uncomfortable internal pressure once it’s in. I don’t get the squeeze against my bladder that I do with the We-Vibe Jive 2 or the bigger Lush eggs like the Lush 4 and Lush 3. That reduced pressure makes it more comfortable for longer periods, but also slightly less stimulating.

The antenna jostles around a bit since its somewhat floppy, but it still lays against my body pretty comfortably. Just with rolling from one side to the other you may feel the antenna lightly tap against your clit. But I find it more comfortable than stiff antennas like the old Lush 2’s.

During light activity – walking, stairs, everyday chores – I’m more aware of the internal fullness from the egg, even though it’s slim. But it doesn’t prevent me from bending over or make me change how I walk. And the antenna actually lays even more comfortably against my body when I’m wearing it around since my clothing presses it flat against me.

While the Jive Lite is comfy, the Lovense Lush Mini is even more comfortable and better overall.

The Lelo Ida Wave is very discreet – especially surprising since toys with motion are typically loud.

When held in the open air, the decibel readings are somewhat loud on paper – about 45 dBA on low and 56 dBA on high. But once you’re actually wearing the toy, the body dampens both the vibration and the motion noise substantially.

The Ida Wave was fully masked at every power level in our Background Noise Masking subtest. In this part of the test, I wear the toy while my partner listens from three feet away and we play pink noise through a speaker at quiet, moderate, and loud volumes (56, 62, and 68 dBA). He couldn’t hear the Ida Wave at any strength under any of our three tested background volumes – and even when he stepped right next to me to check the sound, he could only pick up the vibrations, not the rotating motion at all.

Behind a closed bedroom door, the Ida Wave was also inaudible. For this part of the test, my partner listens directly outside our bedroom door while I use the toy in bed. I use it like a handheld toy since wearing dampens sound, and some people want the flexibility to safely re-position wearables or use some of them handheld. Holding the toy instead of wearing it gives us the most conservative results. He couldn’t hear the Ida Wave at any setting from behind the door.

The Ida Wave is the quietest of my strong dual-stimulation wearables.

The Jive Lite is in the most discreet tier of wearables I’ve tested.

Decibel readings on low and high power were too quiet for our Sound Level Meter to pick up. The ambient room noise was 35 dBA, and the Jive Lite never measured higher than this on either setting.

For our Background Masking Noise subtest, I wear the toy while my partner listens from three feet away and we play pink noise through a speaker at quiet, moderate, and loud volumes (56, 62, and 68 dBA). He couldn’t hear the Jive Lite at any vibration strength under any of our three tested volumes. It’s also worth noting that every wearable I’ve tested, including the Jive Lite, is audible in a fully silent room (no pink noise playing) – no matter how gentle and quiet the vibrations are.

For the closed-bedroom-door part of our test, my partner listens directly outside our bedroom door while I use the toy in bed. For this part of the test, I use it like a handheld toy since wearing dampens sound, and some people want to use it clitorally. Holding the toy instead of wearing it gives us the most conservative results. He couldn’t hear it on any power level.

One thing worth knowing is that most insertable eggs I’ve tested are quiet, including the We-Vibe Jive 2, Lovense Lush 4, and Lush Mini which are all better options.

The Lelo Ida Wave lasted 135 minutes at top power in our testing – the longest battery life of any dual-stimulation wearable I’ve tested. And since you’ll spend plenty of time on lower and middle settings too, real-world runtime is typically longer. That’s plenty of time, even if you sometimes forget to charge between uses.

During our test, the Jive Lite lasted 125 minutes vibrating continuously on its top setting – about average for a G-spot egg, and longer than most other wearables I’ve tested.

But better eggs also lasted long. The Lovense Lush 4 lasted about 120 minutes, essentially the same as the Jive Lite, and the We-Vibe Jive 2 lasted 40 minutes longer than the Lite.

The Lelo Ida Wave is very easy to clean. It’s IPX7 waterproof, so you can rinse it under a running faucet or fully submerge it in soapy water without worrying about water damage.

The Jive Lite is very easy to clean. It’s IPX7 waterproof, so you can rinse it under a running faucet or fully submerge it in soapy water without worrying about water damage.

The Ida Wave’s build quality is excellent. I’ve owned my Ida Wave since 2022, and it’s continued to operate as expected. The silicone is smooth, the shiny plastic top has stayed scratch-free with normal use, and the seams between materials are tight. The flex point between the internal and external arms feels solidly built, with no loosening or signs of strain.

The Jive Lite feels well-built – a smooth silicone coating over a firm core, almost identical to the original We-Vibe Jive. The silicone is body-safe and non-porous, and nothing about the toy felt loose or fragile through testing – I have no durability concerns – we bought our original Jive in 2022 and it’s still working.