Fantasy For Her G-Spot Stimulate-Her vs Lovense Vulse Side-By-Side Comparison
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Our Verdict
The Fantasy For Her G-spot Stimulate-Her is the best budget dual-stimulation wearable I’ve tested. Like most strong dual-stimulation wearables, it’s best in bed, but not good for wearing around.
Both motors are unusually powerful for the price: the G-spot motor reaches a 9.75 out of 10, and the clit motor reaches an 8.5. The internal vibrations are especially impressive – strong, stimulating, and fairly rumbly – and the two motors create a subtle wobbling effect that adds more rumbly depth on the lower and middle settings. Its remote connectivity is also excellent.
The trade-offs are mostly fit and control. It only has three steady vibration levels with no gentle warmup, so not much room to build gradually. It also doesn’t have an adjustable hinge like pricier dual-stim wearables, so clit contact is somewhat body-dependent and it’s not secure or comfortable enough for walking around. It also isn’t fully waterproof.
If you want a broader power range, more adjustable fit, and an IPX7 waterproof build, the Lovense Dolce is a better upgrade. And for wearing around you’re better off with an egg vibrator or panty vibrator. But for the price, the Stimulate-Her is the strongest budget wearable I’ve found for hands-free dual-stimulation in bed.
The Lovense Vulse is a good egg vibrator if you specifically want hands-free internal movement instead of powerful vibrations. Many people like how thrusting feels internally more than vibes – it’s a preference.
Its thrusting feels gentle but very enjoyable. As with all G-spot-only toys, I can’t orgasm from the Vulse alone, but when I pair it with clit stimulation, the thrusting enhances and extends my orgasms, makes them feel fuller, and helps me have back-to-back orgasms more quickly. Lovense’s excellent app also lets you control multiple toys together, so you can pair it with a clit vibrator like the Lovense Ferri for hands-free dual-stimulation.
While it’s best used in bed since it’s not that comfy to walk around with it in, the Vulse is the most secure motion-based wearable vibrator I’ve tested, so you could wear it around. It’s the only one I don’t feel like is going to fall out while I’m walking around.
The trade-offs are that the Vulse’s vibrations are weak and buzzy, the thrusting motor is loud, and its girthy straight shape and straight antenna are less comfortable than Lovense’s vibrating Lush eggs.
If you’re mainly looking for something you can wear around with strong, quiet vibrations, and better comfort as you move, a purely vibrating egg like the Lovense Lush 4 would be better. If you’re looking mainly for something to use in bed and enjoy motion internally, the Vulse is really fun.
The Fantasy For Her G-spot Stimulate-Her is not a wearable vibrator I’d choose for playing outside the bedroom.
While the stimulation is good in bed, it’s not very secure-fitting or comfortable when walking around with it in. When walking, the side flaps make the toy wobble and drift from my clit. During heavier movement, the stimulation point shifts enough that I have to keep readjusting it. Sitting or bending can also feel uncomfortable because the toy presses more firmly into my body. And its vibrations are louder than other wearables too.
Most powerful dual-stimulation toys either aren’t that secure when wearing them around or aren’t that comfortable. You’re usually better off pairing a panty vibrator with an egg vibrator for secure, comfortable dual-stimulation. My favorite combo is the Lovense Ferri and Lush Mini.
The Lovense Vulse is the best motion-based wearable I’ve tested for wearing around, but it still has significant trade-offs compared to vibration-only eggs.
Most toys with internal motion, like the Lovense Flexer, Lelo Ida Wave, Lelo Hula Beads and others, work better lying down because the motion mechanism causes them to shift or work their way out. The Vulse is the only one I’ve tested that stays securely in place as I move around – even during heavier movement like running and jumping.
You or a partner has excellent control of the Vulse through the Lovense app – the best app of any brand with easy-to-use controls and reliable connectivity.
However, it’s very noisy – much louder than eggs that just vibrate, like the Lovense Lush 4. It has a shorter battery life, and the straight antenna is not as comfortable as the newer Lovense Lush models. I also find the motion distracting if I’m walking around – whereas it feels good in bed.
So if wearing it around is your goal, you’re better off with a vibrating egg like the Lush 4 or Lush Mini. If you want a toy with motion mainly to use in bed that you could occasionally wear around, the Vulse is good.
The Fantasy For Her G-spot Stimulate-Her is the best budget wearable I’ve tested for hands-free dual-stimulation in bed.
Both motors are unusually strong for the price. The G-spot vibrations are especially impressive – strong, stimulating, and fairly rumbly internally. The clit motor delivers enjoyable stimulation too, even though it doesn’t press as firmly into my body as I’d ideally want. The two motors also create a subtle wobbling effect on the lower and middle settings, which makes the stimulation feel more rumbly.
It doesn’t have an adjustable hinge to change its shape to fit your body better like pricier options like the Lovense Dolce have, but it works really well for the price.
Using the Lovense Vulse in bed for hands-free internal stimulation is its best use. It’s a good option if you find movement more stimulating internally than strong G-spot vibrations.
I can’t orgasm from the Vulse alone, but its thrusting feels enjoyable and adds fullness when I pair it with clit stimulation. It enhances and extends my orgasms and helps me have back-to-back orgasms more quickly. You can use a handheld clit vibrator or pair it with the Lovense Ferri, which Lovense’s app lets you control alongside the Vulse for fully hands-free dual-stimulation.
Because its movement is in-and-out, it’s not as G-spot-focused as toys with an angled rotating head or shaft like the Lelo Ida Wave (a dual-stimulation wearable) or the Lovense Nora (a handheld rabbit) that target the front wall better. But it still feels good and filling. The motion and fullness is the stimulating part – the vibrations are much weaker and buzzier than vibration-only eggs like the Lovense Lush 4.
This product does not support long-distance play.
The Lovense Vulse is a good long-distance toy if you and your partner specifically want hands-free internal movement instead of powerful G-spot vibrations.
Lovense has the best long-distance app experience of any brand, with reliable connectivity, saved partners, in-app messaging and video calls, and detailed controls for changing the Vulse’s thrusting and vibrations. You can also connect multiple Lovense toys, so you can pair the Vulse with the Lovense Ferri for long-distance, hands-free dual-stimulation. And if your partner also has a Lovense toy, you can control their toy while they control yours.
The Vulse works best for long-distance sessions in bed, where its thrusting feels enjoyable and filling without becoming uncomfortable and distracting as it can when walking around. It stays securely in place while moving, so you can wear it outside the bedroom – but its louder, and its girthy shape and straight antenna are less comfortable than Lovense’s Lush eggs like the Lush 4 or Lush Mini for wearing around.
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Clit Stimulation: Main Takeaways
In the next two sections, I’ll cover the clit motor’s power and rumbliness in detail.
Here’s the main conclusion:
The Fantasy For Her G-spot Stimulate-Her is one of the few budget dual-stimulation wearables with genuinely strong clit vibrations. But it’s still somewhat fit-dependent. It has strong raw power, decent transfer, and some rumbly depth on the lower/middle settings. But it lacks very gentle settings and is extremely buzzy on high. For more reliable contact, range, or rumbliness, choose the pricier Lelo Ida Wave or Lovense Dolce.
Like all egg vibrators, the Lovense Vulse only stimulates your G-spot – not your clit. For clit stimulation, a panty vibrator is the better type of wearable for you. See all our recommendations for the best panty vibrators here.
An egg vibrator is a good option if:
- You enjoy internal vibrations, G-spot pressure, or fullness on its own. (Many people need clit stimulation to orgasm, but internal stimulation can still feel good and be great foreplay.)
- You plan to pair it with clit stimulation from something else.
I can’t orgasm even with our strongest G-spot vibrator alone, but when I pair it with clitoral stimulation, it makes my orgasms feel more full.
Clit Vibrations: Power, Range, and Transfer Effectiveness
The Fantasy For Her G-spot Stimulate-Her has a strong clit motor power, especially for this price range. Some of that power gets lost since the clit arm doesn’t fit in tight contact with my body, but not too much.
Its clit motor reaches an 8.5 out of 10 on high, outperforming others, and matching much pricier dual-stimulation toys like the Lelo Ida Wave. But on my body, the clit arm presses a little too gently against me to deliver that full strength. The G-spot shaft is slightly too long for my anatomy, so I don’t get the firm, close contact from the clit arm that I prefer unless I press the toy in with my hand. And there’s no adjustable mechanism, so I can’t adjust it to fit my body better.
The stimulation is still enjoyable. The way the clit and G-spot vibrations interact with each other makes it feel a little more rumbly and helps the vibrations travel reasonably enough even without perfect pressure. And those who can handle longer shafts may get better clit contact and feel more of the motor’s full strength.
The power range is also somewhat narrow. The three levels jump from moderate (4.0) to strong (7.0) to very strong (8.5), so there’s no super gentle warmup. If you like a slow build, the Fantasy For Her won’t give you incremental control. The Lovense Dolce and Lelo Ida Wave each have broader power ranges with gradual steps between levels.
Clit Vibrations: Frequency (Rumbliness)
We rate rumbly vibrations higher than buzzy ones because most people prefer rumbly. But it’s a personal preference, and some people enjoy buzzy vibrations more.
The Fantasy for Her Stimulate-Her’s clit motor leans buzzy, especially on high.
On its lowest setting, the clit motor is neutral – around 79 Hz, so it’s neither especially rumbly nor buzzy. But it becomes much buzzier as you increase power, reaching an extremely buzzy 139 Hz on the top setting.
However, the G-spot motor helps add some rumbly character from the cross-motor interaction. On the first and second levels, the two motors vibrating at different frequencies adds a wobbling sensation in the clit arm that you feel alongside the main vibrations. It makes the lower and middle settings feel more rumbly than they actually are. But that effect fades on high, so the top setting feels clearly buzzy.
If you can warm up and orgasm on the lower and middle levels, the Stimulate-Her may have enough of a rumbly quality for you. But if you need the highest setting to finish, you’ll mostly feel its extremely buzzy clit vibrations.
If rumbly clit stimulation is a priority, the Lelo Ida Wave and Lovense Dolce are better options.
G-spot Stimulation: Main Takeaways
In the next two sections, I’ll cover the G-spot motor’s power and rumbliness in detail.
Here’s the main conclusion:
The Fantasy For Her G-spot Stimulate-Her has the best G-spot vibrations I’ve found in a budget dual-stimulation wearable. Its internal arm is slim and doesn’t press as firmly into my G-spot as pricier options like the Lovense Dolce, but the vibrations are still strong, stimulating, and fairly rumbly internally. The main downside is its narrow three-level range with no gentle warmup.
In the next sections, I’ll cover the Vulse’s vibration power, rumbliness, and thrusting motion in detail.
Here’s the main conclusion: the Vulse delivers good, enjoyable G-spot stimulation through its thrusting motion, but the vibrations are weak and buzzy. Don’t buy the Vulse expecting it to feel like the much stronger Lush models – the Lovense Lush 4 is 4x stronger.
Instead, it’s a nice option for those who prefer internal movement. For me, the Vulse works best paired with a favorite external clit vibrator: it does not carry me to orgasm by itself, but it noticeably enhances one.
G-spot Vibrations: Power, Range, and Transfer Effectiveness
The Fantasy For Her G-spot Stimulate-Her has very strong G-spot vibrations, especially for a budget dual-stimulation wearable.
Its G-spot motor reaches a 9.75 out of 10 on high, slightly stronger than the pricier Lovense Dolce (9.4). But the slim internal arm doesn’t press as firmly into my G-spot the way bulkier dual-stimulation toys like the Dolce do. I still think it feels nice and stimulating.
The G-spot motor’s power range is narrow, just like the clit motor. There are only three levels, and the lowest is already strong at 6.75. The settings jump from 6.75 to 9.0 to 9.75, so there’s no gentle warmup and not much room to build gradually if that’s important to you. I find for internal stimulation, I don’t need quite as gentle lower levels personally.
If you’re on a budget and want a dual-stimulation wearable with strong G-spot vibes, this is the best option.
The Vulse’s G-spot vibrations are weak for an egg vibrator. Its main feature is the thrusting motion, so the vibrations feel secondary: I rate its top power at 2.5 out of 10, with the low end starting at 0.8.
Lovense’s vibration-only eggs, like the Lovense Lush 4, Lush Mini, and Lush 3, are roughly 4x stronger. They also feel more G-spot focused since their bulbous, countoured shape angles and presses the vibrations into the front wall better than the Vulse’s straighter shape.
With the Vulse, I barely notice the vibrations alongside the thrusting. If strong G-spot vibrations matter more to you than motion, go with the Lovense Lush 4 or Lush Mini instead.
G-spot Vibrations: Frequency (Rumbliness)
The Fantasy For Her G-spot Stimulate-Her’s internal arm has good rumbliness – better than its clit arm.
For G-spot stimulation, rumbly vibrations matter more than they do for clitoral. With clit vibrators, you’re placing the vibe directly on a highly sensitive area. But G-spot vibrations have to travel farther through tissue to reach more nerve-rich regions, and lower-frequency rumbly vibrations travel through your body much more effectively.
Its lowest setting is moderately rumbly at around 69 Hz – and this setting actually has good power, so you have a strong, rumbly setting to work with. The middle setting becomes moderately buzzy at around 102 Hz, and the top setting reaches the extremely buzzy range at around 114 Hz. But even as it gets buzzier, the vibrations have enough strength that they still feel impactful internally rather than turning into a shallow buzz.
The cross-motor interaction helps too. Since both motors run together at different frequencies, the clit and G-spot motors create a wobbling, beat-like sensation that makes the internal vibrations feel even more rumbly. I feel the effect even more internally than on my clit.
So while the Stimulate-Her gets buzzier as you increase power, you still get some good rumbliness internally.
We rate rumbly vibrations higher than buzzy ones because most people prefer deeper vibrations that travel through the body, though this is still a personal preference.
The Lovense Vulse is mostly buzzy. Though the vibrations start out moderately rumbly, the whole power range is too weak for any real impact. And by the time it’s reached the top power, its vibrating at 185 Hz – far into the extremely buzzy range. The Vulse’s vibrations need some deeper rumbliness to feel impactful at this strength.
The combination of weak and buzzy vibes means it is mostly the thrusting motion that drives the stimulation. If you prioritize rumbly vibrations over motion, go with the Lovense Lush 4 or VeDO Kiwi.
G-spot Stimulation from Motion
The Lovense Vulse provides enjoyable, noticeable internal motion, that strengthens my orgasms, but its thrusting does not target my G-spot as directly as I’d like.
The Vulse moves in and out rather than pressing upward into the front vaginal wall. So the stimulation feels more like general internal movement and fullness than focused G-spot pressure. It still feels good, and it performs much better than similar motion-based egg vibrators like the Lelo Hula Beads which has too little range of motion to be stimulating.
For me, the Vulse works best as hands-free internal stimulation paired with a separate clit vibrator. I can’t orgasm from internal stimulation alone, but its movement and fullness make my orgasms from clit stimulation feel stronger, fuller, and more drawn-out.
The Vulse’s motion motor is good – it doesn’t stall or slow down under pressure. And you have good control over the thrusting speed through the Lovense app. You can change it gradually from 55 cycles per minute (CPM) to 104. How far the Vulse thrusts is fixed at about 0.28 inches. While it’s a fairly shallow motion, its enough for me to enjoy, but some people may want more depth.
Compared with dual-stimulation motion wearables, the Vulse creates more noticeable internal movement than the Lovense Flexer, whose motor mainly moves the external clit arm. The Vulse’s internal motion feels about as stimulating as the Lelo Ida Wave, though the Vulse creates more fullness while the Ida Wave directs its rotating motion more toward the front wall. Both the Flexer and Ida Wave also provide built-in clit stimulation, so I can orgasm with them hands-free; the Vulse requires a separate clit vibrator.
App Control: Main Takeaways
The Fantasy For Her G-Spot Stimulate-Her isn’t controlled through an app. App control lets you create custom patterns, control multiple motors or toys, play long-distance, and lets a controlling partner see exactly what your toy is doing. If that matters to you, see our app-controlled recommendations in these guides:
- best remote and app-controlled vibrators (all types of vibrators)
- best wearable vibrators (wearables only).
In the next sections, I’ll cover the Lovense app’s close-range features, long-distance features, and connectivity in detail.
Here’s the main conclusion:
The Lovense app is by far the best of any brand. It provides the most control, is easiest to use, and has the most reliable connectivity. If an outstanding app is your top priority, stick to a Lovense toy.
App Control: Close-Range Features
The Vulse’s app has the best close-range features of any brand.
On the main Remote screen, you drag a control dot up or down to adjust vibration intensity and speed of thrusting. Lovense typically provides control of separate motors in the app, but unfortunately the vibrations and thrusting are linked in the Vulse. So raising the vibration intensity increases the thrusting speed, and vice versa.
Tap Float to hold a steady power level and thrusting speed, or Loop to draw a custom pattern that repeats. Since the toy reacts as you draw, you can feel the pattern in real time instead of creating it blindly and testing it later. If you like what you made, tap Record to save it to My Patterns.
You can also control multiple Lovense toys at once with each toy getting its own dots on the Remote screen. For example, you can pair both the Lovense Ferri (a clit vibrator) and the Vulse for simultaneous clit and G-spot stimulation. Or you can control your own toy and a nearby partner’s toy at once. We tested four toys simultaneously without issue.
For presets, the My Patterns screen includes Lovense’s default patterns, anything you’ve saved, and patterns downloaded from Lovense’s active community library.
Lovense’s sound-reactive mode is also the best I’ve used. You can set a minimum decibel threshold, so the toy stays still until the room gets loud enough, and adjust sensitivity to control how much of the toy’s power range it uses. The live decibel readout makes it easy to calibrate. Many other apps either combine these controls or don’t offer a threshold at all.
The music-sync mode works with Spotify or local files and follows the music well enough for hands-free variation. You can cap the intensity to keep it in your comfortable range.
Lovense also includes a few useful extras: Voice Control, device-to-device control with certain Lovense toys, and per-toy max intensity settings. The intensity cap is helpful if you want to limit noise or prevent a partner from pushing the toy too high.
Overall, the Lovense app’s close-range features are excellent – and still the best of any brand I’ve tested.
App Control: Long-Distance Features
Lovense also has the best long-distance experience of any brand, by a wide margin.
During messaging or video calls, your partner gets the same excellent Remote screen used for close-range control. They can set a steady intensity/speed with Float or draw a repeating pattern with Loop, so long-distance control doesn’t feel stripped down. The only small downside is that you can’t control your own toy during a video call – only your partner can.
The video call tools are excellent. Incoming calls are easy to notice and accept, and once you’re in a call, the video feed is clear. You can mute, toggle your camera, switch between front and back cameras, cast audio to a speaker, or end the call. The controls stay out of the way until you tap the screen, and you can move your self-view so it doesn’t block your partner.
The app also handles normal phone use well. You can lock your screen or switch to another app without disrupting the session.
Messaging is equally strong. The thread is easy to follow, and you can send voice notes, photos, and videos from your camera or camera roll. There’s also an optional “burn after reading” feature for one-time viewing that prevents screenshots and it works as intended.
Lovense gives you helpful partner settings too. You can let a trusted partner auto-accept control requests, get a notification when they come online, or hide your online status from specific people. Each partner can have different settings.
Lovense also offers the broadest anonymous and group control options. You can send a one-time control link or create a group link for up to 10 people. When the time runs out, they lose access and can’t request control again.
If long-distance play is the main reason you’re buying a wearable vibrator, Lovense is the best choice.
App Control: Connectivity
The Vulse’s connectivity is excellent. Lovense has the most reliable app connection of any brand I’ve tested, both for nearby Bluetooth control and long-distance play.
Pairing is quick: the very fist time, just tap Add Toy, turn the Vulse on, and it appears in the app within seconds. After that first setup, it auto-connects as soon as you turn it on with the app open.
Once paired, the Vulse stays connected through normal phone use, including locking your screen, switching apps, or leaving the app idle.
It also handles body interference very well. Body tissue can weaken Bluetooth more than walls or clothing, which is why some egg vibrators work fine for solo control but drop connection when a partner controls them from certain angles. In our body-interference test, the Vulse stayed connected through all three positions, including the hardest one. Other eggs, like the Satisfyer Ribbed Petal lost connection at certain angles.
Bluetooth range was excellent too, reaching about 240 feet in our clear line-of-sight test. That’s far more than most people will need, though the newer Lovense Lush 4 reached an even farther 365 feet. Keep in mind, walls and other interference will shorten real-world range.
If the Vulse does disconnect, the app reconnects automatically once the signal is clear. A red “Reconnecting…” message also tells the controlling partner that control has paused. You can choose whether the toy stops vibrating during a disconnect with Auto-Stop, or keeps vibrating at the last intensity level until it reconnects.
Long-distance connectivity is also excellent. The toy connects to your phone over Bluetooth, and your phone connects to your partner’s phone over Wi-Fi or cell data. Since the Bluetooth connection is strong, long-distance play works well as long as your internet connection is decent. Sessions stay stable, commands go through reliably, and locking your phone or switching apps doesn’t disrupt control.
One quirk: if you start a session on Wi-Fi and then switch to cell data, the first switch can drop control and require a quick re-invite. After that, switching works normally. To avoid this, start the session on cellular data and then you can switch freely between the two.
Remote Control: Main Takeaways
In the next two sections, I’ll cover the G-spot Stimulate-Her’s remote features and connectivity in detail.
Here’s the main conclusion:
The G-spot Stimulate-Her’s remote has great connectivity and good, basic controls. It stays connected through body interference, responds instantly to a button press, and has excellent range. But heat is controlled from the on-toy button only, pattern navigation is clunky, and the buttons sometimes need a deliberate press to register.
The Lovense Vulse doesn’t include a physical remote control. A remote lets you adjust the toy by feel – without pulling out your phone. Though there’s other downsides like less depth and no visual feedback to help your partner know what your toy’s doing. If you want to consider options with physical remotes, see our recommendations in these guides:
- best remote and app-controlled vibrators (all types of vibrators)
- best wearable vibrators (wearables only).
Remote Control: Features
The Fantasy For Her G-spot Stimulate-Her’s remote works for basic vibration control, but it has a few limitations.
The biggest gap is that the remote does not control the warming function. Heat has to be turned on or off from the toy itself, which is inconvenient for a product you’re wearing. You’ll have to reach down and find the heating button on the base of the toy by feel without seeing it. Or turn it on beforehand.
Vibration intensity control is good, but pattern control is more limited. The + and − buttons move forward and backward through the 3 steady intensity levels first. But once you reach the end of those levels, the same buttons start moving through the toy’s 17 patterns. Since there are so many patterns, getting back to a steady vibration can take a lot of clicks if you’re in the middle of the pattern cycle.
The easiest reset is to hold the remote’s power button to turn the toy off, then click it back on. This restarts the toy at the lowest steady intensity level. That workaround helps, but it’s still less convenient than having separate power and pattern controls. And since the +/− buttons are used to change the pattern, you can’t adjust each pattern’s intensity.
The remote is comfortable to hold, but the buttons are not raised enough to distinguish from each other by touch, so I usually have to look down to make sure I’m pressing the right one. They also occasionally need a more deliberate press or a short pause between clicks to register. The indicator light blinks when you press a button, but it can blink even when the toy does not actually change settings, which might confuse your partner if they’re controlling your toy.
Remote Control: Connectivity
The Fantasy For Her G-spot Stimulate-Her’s remote connectivity is great.
Its biggest strength is connection reliability through body interference. Body tissue between the remote and toy is what most often disrupts a remote’s signal during partner control. Your body sits in the signal path, and water-rich materials (like your body) can meaningfully affect RF signals. Our body-interference test simulates this at three progressively challenging angles, and the G-spot Stimulate-Her stayed connected through all of them. Many wearable remotes I’ve tested – including some pricier ones like the We-Vibe Moxie+ – drop connection in at least one position, so this is a plus for the Stimulate-Her.
When a press registers, the toy responds instantly, with no noticeable delay between pressing the remote and feeling the toy react. In our 50-click test, 2 presses did not change the toy’s setting – but this seemed like a slight button design issue rather than a connection issue. The buttons sometimes need a firmer press or a brief pause between clicks to register reliably.
There is also no reconnection routine when starting to play – the remote is always connected.
The remote reached about 135 feet in our open-air range test, measured with clear line-of-sight and no body interference. Real-world range will be shorter once walls, objects, and body interference come in, but this is still on the long end for wearable remotes I’ve tested. It has more than enough range for most ways people would realistically use a physical remote.
On-Toy Controls
Like most wearable vibrators, the Stimulate-Her’s on-toy controls are limited. Since buttons are hard to reach, you’ll mainly use the remote.
The toy has a single button that cycles forward through 3 power levels and 17 patterns in one shared loop. There’s no way to step backward, so if you overshoot your setting, you have to keep cycling through the remaining options.
The button itself is easy to feel and comfortable to press. Pressing it pushes the toy into your body slightly, but the broad shape distributes the pressure evenly, so it does not dig in uncomfortably. The main friction is reaching the button while wearing the toy.
The on-toy button is also the only way to control the heating function, since the remote does not handle heat. So if you want to use the heating function, turn it on before inserting the toy.
For everything else, the remote is the main way you’ll control the Stimulate-Her.
While the app is the main way to control the Vulse, the toy does have a single externally accessible button on the antenna. This is much better than egg vibrators with a button on the body of the egg, which you have to remove to access.
The single button cycles through three power levels and four patterns on the same loop. You cannot step backward, so dropping to a gentler/slower level means clicking through the remaining settings first. Seven total settings is not terrible for backup control, but I would rather Lovense leave patterns out of the on-toy cycle.
If you do plan to use the on-toy button, Lovense allows you to set the 3 on-toy preset powers to whatever intensity you want through the app. That way, you can customize it to settings you’ll actually use.
Secure Fit & Adjustability
The Stimulate-Her fits securely enough for dual-stimulation in bed, but it loosens when moving, so it’s not the best to wear around. And there’s no adjustable mechanism to make it fit more tightly to your individual body.
The internal G-spot arm helps anchor the toy, while the flexible side flaps sit between your inner thighs. In bed, that setup works well enough. The fit is a little loose – when I roll from my side onto my stomach, my legs pull the toy slightly away from my clit and I have to nudge it back – but it never feels like it will fall out. And when you’re not shifting positions, you can keep it in a good spot.
During light activity, the side flaps start working against the fit. When walking, my legs push the flaps making the toy wobble and drift slightly from my clit. It stays inserted, and I have no concerns of it falling out but the contact is less steady than when I’m lying still.
Heavy activity shifts it a lot. It still doesn’t fall out, but the stimulation point moves around enough that you have to constantly re-adjust it.
Most dual-stimulation wearables are not designed well for use outside the bedroom. Even in toys with an adjustable hinge like the Lovense Dolce stay securely in place, but are uncomfortable when worn under clothes or outside the bedroom.
The Lovense Vulse fits very securely – it’s the most secure of any of my wearable vibrators with motion. It was surprisingly comparable to eggs that only vibrate.
In bed, it stays exactly where I put it, even while the thrusting motion is running. When I walk around, the antenna can occasionally twist slightly causing the toy to rotate a bit to one side, but this doesn’t change the stimulation at all, and it stayed fully inserted – I’m not worried about it falling out at all.
Most of my other motion-based wearables are only safe for use in bed because the moving mechanism causes the toy to work its way out, but this is not an issue for the Vulse.
Like all egg vibrators, it’s not adjustable, because it simply slides into place. There are no hinges or bendable arms – eggs are more of a one-size-fits-all design.
Comfort
The Stimulate-Her is one of the more comfortable dual-stimulation wearables in-bed. But like most strong dual-stimulation wearables, it’s somewhat uncomfortable to wear around.
The materials are smooth, and it contours well to my body. It’s slimmer shape, while not applying as much G-spot pressure, makes it much more comfortable than bulkier options like the Lovense Dolce. All of these factors make it comfortable to use lying in bed in most positions.
Comfort is more mixed once I’m moving around. When walking around the side flaps make the toy wobble side-to-side a little. It’s not painful, but it can be distracting. I find sitting on it or bending at the waist is somewhat uncomfortable because the toy presses more firmly into my body.
Most dual-stimulation wearables that have both a strong clit motor and G-spot motor are somewhat uncomfortable to wear around since both arms have a fair size – they’re mainly for in bed use. If comfort while moving around is a big priority, a panty vibrator (clit stimulation) or egg vibrator (G-spot stimulation) is usually more comfortable. Or you can wear both at the same time – my favorite combo is the Lovense Ferri with the Lush Mini.
The Vulse is comfortable in bed as long as you like some girth. Though it has some oddities you have to get used to.
In bed, it feels more natural than the Lelo Hula Beads for me: it settles into the right spot, and importantly – it slides up high enough that it does not press uncomfortably against my vaginal opening.
It still provides a bit of a stretch and bladder pressure like other eggs of this size, so it’s best for those who enjoy some girth, or prefer shorter sessions.
When moving around, the straight (but flexible) antenna can be annoying, especially when walking or lying on my stomach. I prefer the curved, form-fitting antennas of the newer Lush models like the Lush 4, because they don’t tap unpredictably against my clit or stick out as much. And I personally find the thrusting motion more ditracting than enjoyable when walking around so I still prefer vibration-only eggs for that.
If you prioritize comfort, the Lovense Lush Mini is my favorite egg because it’s smaller and doesn’t press as much against my bladder. And the curved antenna fits snug against my body.
But if you want a motion-based toy, the Lovense Vulse is reasonably comfortable in bed and while moving.
Noise
The Fantasy For Her G-spot Stimulate-Her is reasonably quiet behind a closed bedroom door, but just did okay in our Background Noise Masking part of the test. Though it is a little quieter than the Lovense Dolce, its main pricier competitor.
In open air, it measured about 41 dBA on low and 46 dBA on high, both pretty quiet.
It did worse than many wearables in our Background Noise Masking subtest – I wear the toy while my partner listens from three feet away and we play pink noise through a speaker at quiet, moderate, and loud volumes. The lowest vibration strength was masked by our quietest background noise we played. But on its middle and high strengths, my partner could just barely hear the vibrations as a subtle hum. Many wearables, including some powerful options like the Lush 4, were completely masked by the quietest background audio. At moderate background noise and above, every level was fully masked.
For the closed-door subtest, my partner stands on the other side of our bedroom door while I use the toy in bed. I use it handheld for this part, since wearing dampens sound so this gives the more conservative result. My partner couldn’t hear the Stimulate-Her on its low or middle settings. On high it was technically audible but just barely – this was his note in our testing spreadsheet: “I have to try hard to hear it while listening from behind the door and I don’t think anyone would hear in normal use.” Turning on a box fan in the bedroom was enough to cover the high setting.
If you want a quieter dual-stim wearable, the Lelo Ida Wave was fully masked at our quietest background-noise level on every setting. But it’s a much pricier option.
The Lovense Vulse is louder than any of my other egg vibrators, so it’s not a great option if discretion is important to you.
The issue is the high-pitched thrusting motor. The back and forth motion creates an inconsistent sound that’s much more noticeable than the consistent, lower-pitched hum of vibration-only eggs like the Lovense Lush 4.
In our Background Noise Masking testing, I wore the Vulse while my partner listened from three feet away with pink noise playing at quiet, moderate, and loud volumes. The Vulse’s low power was masked in every condition, but middle power was still audible with quiet and moderate background noise, and high power stayed audible even with our loudest masking audio.
I also have my partner listen from behind a closed bedroom door, while I use the vibrator in bed. My partner could hear the Vulse’s high power, and could still barely hear it when I turned a box fan on in the bedroom. Music was the only thing that masked it.
The Vulse’s noise is quieter than the demo video above once worn, but certainly still loud. If you’re easily annoyed by sound or need something quiet, the Lovense Lush 4 is the better option.
Battery Life
The G-spot Stimulate-Her ran for 85 minutes in our battery test with both motors on max power (warming feature off). That’s good for a strong dual-stimulation wearable, where powering two motors at once usually shortens runtime.
It lasted nearly twice as long as the Lovense Dolce, which ran for 45 minutes on max in our test. The Lelo Ida Wave lasted longer at 135 minutes, but the Stimulate-Her still has plenty of headroom for most use. Since you’ll likely spend some time below max power, real-world runtime will often last longer than our 85-minute test result.
The Vulse has a sub-par battery life of about 60 minutes at max power in our testing. That is enough for most use in the bedroom, but short if you plan to wear it around. Egg vibrators designed to wear around typically last longer.
If you prioritize extended wear or often forget to charge between uses, the Lovense Lush 4 lasts twice as long.
Cleaning
Cleaning the Fantasy For Her G-spot Stimulate-Her is straightforward in practice, but our rating is conservative because the brand does not provide an IPX rating. I emailed Pipedream, the brand behind Fantasy For Her, and they said the toy is water-resistant but would not provide a specific IPX rating. So we rate it as having no verified IPX rating, which means we do not assume it is officially safe to rinse under a faucet or submerge.
In practice, I do carefully rinse the main silicone-covered areas under water while keeping water away from the charging port. Then I wipe the rest with a damp cloth. There also aren’t tight crevices that collect residue, so cleaning is fairly easy.
While it’s manageable to clean, the lack of IPX rating is less reassuring than fully waterproof wearables like the Lovense Dolce and Lelo Ida Wave, which are IPX7-rated and safe to fully submerge.
The Vulse is very easy to clean because it is IPX7 waterproof. You can rinse it under running water or fully submerge it while scrubbing with soap and water.
Build Quality
The Stimulate-Her feels solid overall, especially for a budget wearable.
The toy itself is mostly smooth silicone with a firm plastic ring at the base. There are seams around the base, but they look tight and don’t make the toy feel flimsy. The internal arm, perineum piece, and side flaps are all flexible, but sturdy, which makes them feel less likely to snap or strain with normal use.
The remote feels lighter and cheaper than the toy itself, but it works fine.
The Vulse feels well built. It is covered in smooth silicone, the antenna feels sturdy, and the thrusting motor holds up to pressure without slowing or stalling.
The high-pitch of the thrusting motor can be annoying and doesn’t necessarily sound high-quality. But I’ve owned this toy since 2023, and it continues to operate as expected.