In the next two sections, I’ll cover the clit motor’s power and rumbliness in detail.

Here’s the main conclusion:

The Fantasy For Her G-spot Stimulate-Her is one of the few budget dual-stimulation wearables with genuinely strong clit vibrations. But it’s still somewhat fit-dependent. It has strong raw power, decent transfer, and some rumbly depth on the lower/middle settings. But it lacks very gentle settings and is extremely buzzy on high. For more reliable contact, range, or rumbliness, choose the pricier Lelo Ida Wave or Lovense Dolce.

In the next sections, I’ll cover the Ferri’s vibration power and rumbliness in-depth.

Here’s the main conclusion:

The Ferri is the most stimulating panty vibrator we’ve tested, and one I orgasm with hands-free the easiest.

It’s the strongest panty vibe I’ve tested and transfers more of its motor’s power to your clit than any other. Like most panty vibrators, the vibrations are buzzy rather than rumbly. If rumbly stimulation matters more to you, go with the VeDO Niki. If power matters more, go with the Ferri.

The Fantasy For Her G-spot Stimulate-Her has a strong clit motor power, especially for this price range. Some of that power gets lost since the clit arm doesn’t fit in tight contact with my body, but not too much.

Its clit motor reaches an 8.5 out of 10 on high, outperforming others, and matching much pricier dual-stimulation toys like the Lelo Ida Wave. But on my body, the clit arm presses a little too gently against me to deliver that full strength. The G-spot shaft is slightly too long for my anatomy, so I don’t get the firm, close contact from the clit arm that I prefer unless I press the toy in with my hand. And there’s no adjustable mechanism, so I can’t adjust it to fit my body better.

The stimulation is still enjoyable. The way the clit and G-spot vibrations interact with each other makes it feel a little more rumbly and helps the vibrations travel reasonably enough even without perfect pressure. And those who can handle longer shafts may get better clit contact and feel more of the motor’s full strength.

The power range is also somewhat narrow. The three levels jump from moderate (4.0) to strong (7.0) to very strong (8.5), so there’s no super gentle warmup. If you like a slow build, the Fantasy For Her won’t give you incremental control. The Lovense Dolce and Lelo Ida Wave each have broader power ranges with gradual steps between levels.

The Lovense Ferri reaches a top power of 9.35 out of 10 – the strongest of any panty vibrator we’ve tested, and it’s the one I orgasm with the easiest.

Other panty vibrators I recommend like the VeDO Niki and the NS Novelties Techno Lucy top out at 8.0 and 9.0. And the range available through the app is wide, from a very gentle 1.0 up to that 9.35, so there’s soft warmup levels and strong upper levels.

The Ferri also transfers that power to my clit better than any other panty vibrator I’ve tested. With a handheld toy you can position the toy where you want it and press harder for more intensity; but with wearables the toy’s shape and fit have to do all the work of delivering the motor’s strength to your body. The Ferri is one of the few panty vibrators that does an excellent job transferring vibrations to my clit. The slightly curved design hugs the body, and the short length prevents the toy from pivoting or getting knocked out of place with movement.

And the Ferri’s curve with a taller front also lets you apply more pressure when you want to without using your hands – something flat panty vibes can’t do. When you’re sitting, shifting your weight against the end opposite your clit tilts the toy and presses the clit-end more firmly into you, making the vibrations feel stronger. It’s the closest a hands-free wearable gets to the pressure control of a handheld.

The stimulation profile here is focused and precise rather than broad and blanketing. If you prefer broad stimulation that spreads the stimulation out, the VeDO Niki is also a good option, but not quite as strong.

We rate rumbly vibrations higher than buzzy ones because most people prefer rumbly. But it’s a personal preference, and some people enjoy buzzy vibrations more.

The Fantasy for Her Stimulate-Her’s clit motor leans buzzy, especially on high.

On its lowest setting, the clit motor is neutral – around 79 Hz, so it’s neither especially rumbly nor buzzy. But it becomes much buzzier as you increase power, reaching an extremely buzzy 139 Hz on the top setting.

However, the G-spot motor helps add some rumbly character from the cross-motor interaction. On the first and second levels, the two motors vibrating at different frequencies adds a wobbling sensation in the clit arm that you feel alongside the main vibrations. It makes the lower and middle settings feel more rumbly than they actually are. But that effect fades on high, so the top setting feels clearly buzzy.

If you can warm up and orgasm on the lower and middle levels, the Stimulate-Her may have enough of a rumbly quality for you. But if you need the highest setting to finish, you’ll mostly feel its extremely buzzy clit vibrations.

If rumbly clit stimulation is a priority, the Lelo Ida Wave and Lovense Dolce are better options.

We rate rumbly vibrations higher than buzzy ones because most people prefer them, but it’s a preference and some people enjoy buzzy vibrations more (I like them personally).

Like most panty vibrators, the Lovense Ferri’s rumbliness is mediocre. The Ferri’s vibrations are moderately buzzy at medium strength, and extremely buzzy at the top of its range. Although its lowest settings are rumbly, most people will use them mainly while warming up. Vibrations always become buzzier as you increase power, and by the time you reach the upper levels that you’ll likely need to orgasm, the vibrations are entirely in the buzzy range.

This buzzier feel is typical of most panty vibrators, including the We-Vibe Moxie+, NS Novelties Techno Lucy, Romp Party and others. The small motors that fit inside a panty vibe tend to need to spin faster (be buzzier) to produce the power larger motors can at slower (more rumbly) speeds.

If rumbly vibrations are a strong preference for you, the VeDO Niki has much deeper-feeling vibrations. I personally enjoy both the buzzy feel of the Ferri’s vibrations and the rumbliness of the Niki’s.

In the next two sections, I’ll cover the G-spot motor’s power and rumbliness in detail.

Here’s the main conclusion:

The Fantasy For Her G-spot Stimulate-Her has the best G-spot vibrations I’ve found in a budget dual-stimulation wearable. Its internal arm is slim and doesn’t press as firmly into my G-spot as pricier options like the Lovense Dolce, but the vibrations are still strong, stimulating, and fairly rumbly internally. The main downside is its narrow three-level range with no gentle warmup.

Like all panty vibrators, the Lovense Ferri only stimulates your clit – not your G-spot. Since most women need clit stimulation to orgasm, a panty vibrator is often the right type of wearable – that’s why I personally enjoy it more than the Lovense Lush 4 and Lush Mini. But if you’re interested in G-spot stimulation instead, see all our recommendations for the best egg vibrators here.

The Fantasy For Her G-spot Stimulate-Her has very strong G-spot vibrations, especially for a budget dual-stimulation wearable.

Its G-spot motor reaches a 9.75 out of 10 on high, slightly stronger than the pricier Lovense Dolce (9.4). But the slim internal arm doesn’t press as firmly into my G-spot the way bulkier dual-stimulation toys like the Dolce do. I still think it feels nice and stimulating.

The G-spot motor’s power range is narrow, just like the clit motor. There are only three levels, and the lowest is already strong at 6.75. The settings jump from 6.75 to 9.0 to 9.75, so there’s no gentle warmup and not much room to build gradually if that’s important to you. I find for internal stimulation, I don’t need quite as gentle lower levels personally.

If you’re on a budget and want a dual-stimulation wearable with strong G-spot vibes, this is the best option.

The Fantasy For Her G-spot Stimulate-Her’s internal arm has good rumbliness – better than its clit arm.

For G-spot stimulation, rumbly vibrations matter more than they do for clitoral. With clit vibrators, you’re placing the vibe directly on a highly sensitive area. But G-spot vibrations have to travel farther through tissue to reach more nerve-rich regions, and lower-frequency rumbly vibrations travel through your body much more effectively.

Its lowest setting is moderately rumbly at around 69 Hz – and this setting actually has good power, so you have a strong, rumbly setting to work with. The middle setting becomes moderately buzzy at around 102 Hz, and the top setting reaches the extremely buzzy range at around 114 Hz. But even as it gets buzzier, the vibrations have enough strength that they still feel impactful internally rather than turning into a shallow buzz.

The cross-motor interaction helps too. Since both motors run together at different frequencies, the clit and G-spot motors create a wobbling, beat-like sensation that makes the internal vibrations feel even more rumbly. I feel the effect even more internally than on my clit.

So while the Stimulate-Her gets buzzier as you increase power, you still get some good rumbliness internally.

The Fantasy For Her G-Spot Stimulate-Her isn’t controlled through an app. App control lets you create custom patterns, control multiple motors or toys, play long-distance, and lets a controlling partner see exactly what your toy is doing. If that matters to you, see our app-controlled recommendations in these guides:

• best remote and app-controlled vibrators (all types of vibrators)
• best wearable vibrators (wearables only).

In the next sections, I’ll cover the Lovense Remote app’s close-range and long-distance features in depth, plus the Ferri’s connectivity in both modes.

Here’s the main conclusion: Lovense’s app is the best of any brand’s I’ve tested, by a wide margin.

I have many remote and app-controlled toys, and Lovense’s app provides the most control, is easiest to use, and has the most reliable connectivity.

If app control matters a lot to you in a panty vibrator, the Ferri is the best choice.

The Ferri’s app has the best close-range features of any panty vibrator I’ve tested.

From the main remote screen, you’ll control the Ferri by dragging its control dot up and down to adjust the power. Tap “Float” to keep the power constant or click “Loop” to quickly repeat a pattern you draw on-screen. This makes it easy to set your Ferri exactly to your preferred intensity or quickly create your own vibration patterns from the same screen.

The vibrations play as you draw, so you can feel whether you actually like the pattern – some apps make you draw a waveform blindly, save it, then play it back to feel what it does. Tapping “Record” also saves the pattern to “My Patterns” for re-use if you enjoyed it.

You can also connect and control multiple Lovense toys at once with each motor getting its own dot on the Remote screen. So if you have both a Lovense Lush 4 and a Ferri, you can control them together for simultaneous clit and G-spot stimulation (which I personally prefer over using the dual-stimulation Lovense Dolce). Or you can control your own toy and a nearby partner’s toy at once. We tested four toys simultaneously without issue.

For preset patterns, you can use the “My Patterns” screen which has four defaults to choose from, plus anything you’ve drawn and saved, and any patterns you’ve downloaded from Lovense’s community library. Lovense has an active community creating and sharing patterns to browse and download.

Sound-reactive control is also excellent and the most practical I’ve used in any app. You set a minimum decibel threshold – the toy stays silent when the sound around you is below the threshold. And you set a sensitivity – how much of the toy’s power range will be used when the sound is above the threshold. There’s also a live decibel readout to calibrate against the room you’re in. Many other apps try to combine these settings or don’t even have a threshold control.

The music-sync mode is pretty good: it follows what’s playing on Spotify or your local files, but the only real control is capping the maximum intensity. It works fine as a way to get changing vibrations without having to control anything yourself.

Lovense has a few niche extra control features and settings that can be helpful – Voice Control if your fingers are otherwise occupied, and Device-to-Device control where another Lovense toy (the Max 2, Nora, or Solace) drives the Ferri’s vibrations through the controller’s own movements. You can also set a max-intensity setting for each toy to cap how high the vibrations can go – this can be useful both for keeping the toy below a noise threshold and for limiting how high a partner can push it if you’re sensitive to overstimulation.

Overall, the Lovense app’s close-range features are excellent and the best of any brand.

Lovense’s long-distance experience is also the best of any panty vibrator I’ve tested, by a wide margin.

When messaging or video calling, my partner gets the same great Remote screen with the Float and Loop controls, so they can set a constant intensity or draw a looping pattern easily. The long-distance core controls aren’t stripped down like many apps do. One minor downside is that you can’t control your own toy during a video call; only your partner can. Most of the time that’s fine, but occasionally I’d like to take over for a moment to set my own intensity.

The video call tools are excellent and make for a seamless experience with your partner.

Getting into a call is easy – when your partner sends a video call request, there’s a clear screen on your phone with a green accept button or red reject button. Some apps send the request to a particular screen and your partner has to go there to find it, which makes calls easy to miss, but requests in Lovense’s app are noticeable.

When you’re in a video call, you can mute, toggle your camera off/on, flip video to front or back, cast the audio to a speaker, or end the call.

It’s easy to see your partner and access the controls – the video feed is clear by default. Just tap the screen to bring up the control panel. You can also reposition your self-view anywhere on the screen to see your partner more clearly. Some apps keep annoying controls permanently covering the view of your partner.

You can both lock your phone screen or use other apps without issue. The in-app messaging is alo excellent and very easy to use with a thread that’s easy to follow – it looks just like any other message thread. You can send all the important media types you might want to: voice notes, photos, and videos from your camera or camera roll. And there’s an effective, optional “burn after reading” feature for single-time viewing and preventing screenshots.

You can adjust your partner’s settings to auto-accept their control requests so they can take control of your toy by surprise, get a push notification when they come online, or hide your online status from them specifically. And each partner’s controls can be set differently.

Anonymous and group play is broader than any other app-controlled brand. You can send a one-time control link to someone or create a group link for up to 10 people to control your toy. When time’s up they lose control and can’t request it again.

If long-distance play is the main reason you’re buying a panty vibrator, the Ferri is the best choice.

The Ferri’s connectivity is excellent and the most reliable of any panty vibrator I’ve tested, in both nearby Bluetooth and long-distance modes.

Pairing is fast and easy. The very first time is fast but takes a couple steps: tap “Add Toy,” turn the Ferri on, and it appears in the toy list to be added in seconds. After that one-time setup, the Ferri auto-connects immediately when you turn it on with the app open.

Once paired, the Ferri stays connected through normal phone behavior – locking the screen, switching to another app, or leaving Lovense Remote idle for long stretches doesn’t drop the connection.

It also stays connected through body interference like happens when a partner is controlling your toy from an angle or behind you. Water-rich materials like body tissue dampen Bluetooth signals more than walls or clothing, which is why some panty vibrators that handle solo app control fine still drop the connection during partner control.

Our body-interference test simulates this at three progressively harder positions, and the Ferri holds a stable connection at all three – including the most severe angle. Other panty vibrators like the Satisfyer Sexy Secret and NS Novelties Techno Lucy lose the connection at that worst-case angle. So if a partner controlling your toy with a lot of your body in the way is part of how you’ll use a panty vibe, the Ferri’s connectivity is excellent.

Bluetooth range came in around 190 feet in our open-air test (measured with a clear line-of-sight) before the connection dropped – well past the distance you’d likely cover during typical wearable use. Your own results may vary depending on walls and interference.

When a disconnect does happen (like if you walk out of range, or something briefly blocks the signal), the app reconnects automatically as soon as the signal is clear, and a red “Reconnecting…” indicator on screen shows the controlling partner that control has paused rather than pretending it’s still working.

Two settings also give you control over what the vibrations do during a disconnect: Auto-Stop pauses the Ferri until reconnection – useful for making sure the toy stays silent – or you can set it to keep the last vibration level running so stimulation isn’t interrupted.

The long-distance connectivity is also excellent. The long-distance connection works in two parts: the Ferri talks to your phone over Bluetooth (the same as during nearby play), and your phone talks to your partner’s phone over Wi-Fi or cell data. So as long as your cell signal or Wi-Fi is decent, the long-distance connection works well. Sessions don’t drop unexpectedly, commands consistently take effect, and the connection survives normal phone behavior on either end (locking the screen, switching apps, backgrounding Lovense Remote).

It can be spotty if you’re continually switching from wifi to cell data. So if you’re in this situation, it’s best to start the call on cell data, which prevents the call from dropping.

In the next two sections, I’ll cover the G-spot Stimulate-Her’s remote features and connectivity in detail.

Here’s the main conclusion:

The G-spot Stimulate-Her’s remote has great connectivity and good, basic controls. It stays connected through body interference, responds instantly to a button press, and has excellent range. But heat is controlled from the on-toy button only, pattern navigation is clunky, and the buttons sometimes need a deliberate press to register.

The Lovense Ferri doesn’t include a physical remote control. A remote lets you adjust the toy by feel – without pulling out your phone. Though there’s other downsides like less depth and no visual feedback to help your partner know what your toy’s doing. If you want to consider options with physical remotes, see our recommendations in these guides:

• best remote and app-controlled vibrators (all types of vibrators)
• best wearable vibrators (wearables only).

The Fantasy For Her G-spot Stimulate-Her’s remote works for basic vibration control, but it has a few limitations.

The biggest gap is that the remote does not control the warming function. Heat has to be turned on or off from the toy itself, which is inconvenient for a product you’re wearing. You’ll have to reach down and find the heating button on the base of the toy by feel without seeing it. Or turn it on beforehand.

Vibration intensity control is good, but pattern control is more limited. The + and − buttons move forward and backward through the 3 steady intensity levels first. But once you reach the end of those levels, the same buttons start moving through the toy’s 17 patterns. Since there are so many patterns, getting back to a steady vibration can take a lot of clicks if you’re in the middle of the pattern cycle.

The easiest reset is to hold the remote’s power button to turn the toy off, then click it back on. This restarts the toy at the lowest steady intensity level. That workaround helps, but it’s still less convenient than having separate power and pattern controls. And since the +/− buttons are used to change the pattern, you can’t adjust each pattern’s intensity.

The remote is comfortable to hold, but the buttons are not raised enough to distinguish from each other by touch, so I usually have to look down to make sure I’m pressing the right one. They also occasionally need a more deliberate press or a short pause between clicks to register. The indicator light blinks when you press a button, but it can blink even when the toy does not actually change settings, which might confuse your partner if they’re controlling your toy.

The Fantasy For Her G-spot Stimulate-Her’s remote connectivity is great.

Its biggest strength is connection reliability through body interference. Body tissue between the remote and toy is what most often disrupts a remote’s signal during partner control. Your body sits in the signal path, and water-rich materials (like your body) can meaningfully affect RF signals. Our body-interference test simulates this at three progressively challenging angles, and the G-spot Stimulate-Her stayed connected through all of them. Many wearable remotes I’ve tested – including some pricier ones like the We-Vibe Moxie+ – drop connection in at least one position, so this is a plus for the Stimulate-Her.

When a press registers, the toy responds instantly, with no noticeable delay between pressing the remote and feeling the toy react. In our 50-click test, 2 presses did not change the toy’s setting – but this seemed like a slight button design issue rather than a connection issue. The buttons sometimes need a firmer press or a brief pause between clicks to register reliably.

There is also no reconnection routine when starting to play – the remote is always connected.

The remote reached about 135 feet in our open-air range test, measured with clear line-of-sight and no body interference. Real-world range will be shorter once walls, objects, and body interference come in, but this is still on the long end for wearable remotes I’ve tested. It has more than enough range for most ways people would realistically use a physical remote.

Like most wearable vibrators, the Stimulate-Her’s on-toy controls are limited. Since buttons are hard to reach, you’ll mainly use the remote.

The toy has a single button that cycles forward through 3 power levels and 17 patterns in one shared loop. There’s no way to step backward, so if you overshoot your setting, you have to keep cycling through the remaining options.

The button itself is easy to feel and comfortable to press. Pressing it pushes the toy into your body slightly, but the broad shape distributes the pressure evenly, so it does not dig in uncomfortably. The main friction is reaching the button while wearing the toy.

The on-toy button is also the only way to control the heating function, since the remote does not handle heat. So if you want to use the heating function, turn it on before inserting the toy.

For everything else, the remote is the main way you’ll control the Stimulate-Her.

Like most panty vibrators, the Ferri’s on-toy controls are limited by design – the toy sits inside your underwear during use, so you’ll typically rely on the app.

A single button cycles forward through three power presets and four vibration patterns; there’s no backward step, and the full power range is only available through the app. The three presets are programmable from the app’s “Adjust Levels” screen, so you can set them to whatever levels you like. I’d rather the patterns weren’t on the cycle – most people don’t use them, and they add more clicks when you’re cycling through power levels.

The button is easy to feel and press without looking. Pressing pushes the Ferri against your body, but the button sits further back from the clit-end than on most panty vibrators, so the pressure lands in a plusher, more comfortable spot than a lot of panty vibrators.

In practice, the on-toy button is mostly for turning the Ferri on and off – the app handles everything else.

The Stimulate-Her fits securely enough for dual-stimulation in bed, but it loosens when moving, so it’s not the best to wear around. And there’s no adjustable mechanism to make it fit more tightly to your individual body.

The internal G-spot arm helps anchor the toy, while the flexible side flaps sit between your inner thighs. In bed, that setup works well enough. The fit is a little loose – when I roll from my side onto my stomach, my legs pull the toy slightly away from my clit and I have to nudge it back – but it never feels like it will fall out. And when you’re not shifting positions, you can keep it in a good spot.

During light activity, the side flaps start working against the fit. When walking, my legs push the flaps making the toy wobble and drift slightly from my clit. It stays inserted, and I have no concerns of it falling out but the contact is less steady than when I’m lying still.

Heavy activity shifts it a lot. It still doesn’t fall out, but the stimulation point moves around enough that you have to constantly re-adjust it.

Most dual-stimulation wearables are not designed well for use outside the bedroom. Even in toys with an adjustable hinge like the Lovense Dolce stay securely in place, but are uncomfortable when worn under clothes or outside the bedroom.

The Lovense Ferri stays securely in place.

The magnet allows you to position the Ferri in the best spot on your underwear for you and secure it in place. The Ferri’s magnet is very strong, and the Ferri’s body is lightweight, so there isn’t much weight working against the anchor. The magnet is strong enough to hold the Ferri through my hand. I can place the toy anywhere in my underwear it stays there.

When using the Ferri in bed, it doesn’t budge from where I magnet it. Leg movement when shifting between sitting, lying back, and rolling onto my side nudges the toy a little, but I never feel it slipping off my clit – any small repositioning is just to optimize the spot.

When wearing it around while walking, it wiggles side-to-side a bit, but the magnet holds securely – and this movement actually makes it feel more stimulating.

Heavy activity like running, squats, dancing, and jumping jacks is where the Ferri shifts the most. It bounces around a little with gravity on landings, but always snaps back to its original spot, never falls out, and stays in a stimulating place throughout.

The Stimulate-Her is one of the more comfortable dual-stimulation wearables in-bed. But like most strong dual-stimulation wearables, it’s somewhat uncomfortable to wear around.

The materials are smooth, and it contours well to my body. It’s slimmer shape, while not applying as much G-spot pressure, makes it much more comfortable than bulkier options like the Lovense Dolce. All of these factors make it comfortable to use lying in bed in most positions.

Comfort is more mixed once I’m moving around. When walking around the side flaps make the toy wobble side-to-side a little. It’s not painful, but it can be distracting. I find sitting on it or bending at the waist is somewhat uncomfortable because the toy presses more firmly into my body.

Most dual-stimulation wearables that have both a strong clit motor and G-spot motor are somewhat uncomfortable to wear around since both arms have a fair size – they’re mainly for in bed use. If comfort while moving around is a big priority, a panty vibrator (clit stimulation) or egg vibrator (G-spot stimulation) is usually more comfortable. Or you can wear both at the same time – my favorite combo is the Lovense Ferri with the Lush Mini.

The Ferri is comfortable to wear in bed and during light activity, but its firm body and focused contact surface keep it just behind the most comfortable panty vibrators I’ve tested.

When walking or going up and down stairs, the Ferri shifts a small amount side-to-side, and that movement translates into a little extra clit stimulation, but also a little less comfort. The toy is small enough that I never have to adjust my walk, and the slight wiggle doesn’t bother me personally. But it’s noticeable, and it isn’t something you can really control.

In bed, it’s very comfortable. There are no sharp seams, and the slight curve lays the toy along my pubic area so it doesn’t pull off or tap uncomfortably as I shift around. The Ferri has no flex or squish, though, and the contact area is small. When I roll onto my side, I feel some pressure as my legs push the firm toy into my body. It’s not painful, just something I notice. And the firm, focused shape is what allows the vibes to transfer so well.

If comfort is the priority, both the NS Novelties Techno Lucy (app-controlled) and the VeDO Niki (remote-controlled) are more comfortable options. Just be aware, the Lucy’s app is much worse, and the Niki isn’t quite as strong as the Ferri.

The Fantasy For Her G-spot Stimulate-Her is reasonably quiet behind a closed bedroom door, but just did okay in our Background Noise Masking part of the test. Though it is a little quieter than the Lovense Dolce, its main pricier competitor.

In open air, it measured about 41 dBA on low and 46 dBA on high, both pretty quiet.

It did worse than many wearables in our Background Noise Masking subtest – I wear the toy while my partner listens from three feet away and we play pink noise through a speaker at quiet, moderate, and loud volumes. The lowest vibration strength was masked by our quietest background noise we played. But on its middle and high strengths, my partner could just barely hear the vibrations as a subtle hum. Many wearables, including some powerful options like the Lush 4, were completely masked by the quietest background audio. At moderate background noise and above, every level was fully masked.

 

For the closed-door subtest, my partner stands on the other side of our bedroom door while I use the toy in bed. I use it handheld for this part, since wearing dampens sound so this gives the more conservative result. My partner couldn’t hear the Stimulate-Her on its low or middle settings. On high it was technically audible but just barely – this was his note in our testing spreadsheet: “I have to try hard to hear it while listening from behind the door and I don’t think anyone would hear in normal use.” Turning on a box fan in the bedroom was enough to cover the high setting.

If you want a quieter dual-stim wearable, the Lelo Ida Wave was fully masked at our quietest background-noise level on every setting. But it’s a much pricier option.

While the Lovense Ferri isn’t the quietest panty vibrator I’ve tested, it’s reasonably discreet.

It was just below the most-discreet tier of wearables in our Background Noise Masking subtest. In this subtest, I wear the vibrator and my partner listens from three feet away while we play pink noise through a speaker at preset volumes (56, 62, and 68 dBA). One of the Ferri’s oddities is that the lower settings have harsher, more uneven sound. Whereas the higher settings vibrate more cleanly and are less noticeable – even though their decibel readings are nearly identical at around 43 dBA each. So the Ferri’s middle and high vibration strengths were masked by our quietest background audio (56 dBA of pink noise). But to mask the lowest vibration setting, we had to increase the pink noise to our moderate level (62 dBA).

The Ferri had a similar pattern behind a closed bedroom door. For this part of the noise test, my partner listens from the other side of the bedroom door while I use the toy in bed. I use it like a handheld toy since wearing dampens sound, and some people want the flexibility to safely re-position the toy or move it around. Holding the toy instead of wearing it gives us the most conservative results.

My partner couldn’t hear it on low or high power. But he heard the middle setting – really only when I was moving the toy so the sound was changing. The middle has that more jarring quality and enough strength that it draws your ear; high power settles into a cleaner, consistent pitch – which is why high power is actually more discreet than the middle behind a closed door.

If you want a more discreet panty vibrator without giving up much power, the VeDO Niki (remote-controlled) is meaningfully quieter and is another one of the strongest panty vibrators I’ve tested.

The G-spot Stimulate-Her ran for 85 minutes in our battery test with both motors on max power (warming feature off). That’s good for a strong dual-stimulation wearable, where powering two motors at once usually shortens runtime.

It lasted nearly twice as long as the Lovense Dolce, which ran for 45 minutes on max in our test. The Lelo Ida Wave lasted longer at 135 minutes, but the Stimulate-Her still has plenty of headroom for most use. Since you’ll likely spend some time below max power, real-world runtime will often last longer than our 85-minute test result.

The Lovense Ferri lasted 168 minutes during our test continuously vibrating on its top power level – the longest of any panty vibrator. Plus, in actual use you’ll likely use the lower and middle settings too which will extend the battery life.

Cleaning the Fantasy For Her G-spot Stimulate-Her is straightforward in practice, but our rating is conservative because the brand does not provide an IPX rating. I emailed Pipedream, the brand behind Fantasy For Her, and they said the toy is water-resistant but would not provide a specific IPX rating. So we rate it as having no verified IPX rating, which means we do not assume it is officially safe to rinse under a faucet or submerge.

In practice, I do carefully rinse the main silicone-covered areas under water while keeping water away from the charging port. Then I wipe the rest with a damp cloth. There also aren’t tight crevices that collect residue, so cleaning is fairly easy.

While it’s manageable to clean, the lack of IPX rating is less reassuring than fully waterproof wearables like the Lovense Dolce and Lelo Ida Wave, which are IPX7-rated and safe to fully submerge.

The Lovense Ferri is easy to clean. It’s IPX7 waterproof, so you can rinse it under a running faucet or fully submerge it in soapy water without worry.

The Stimulate-Her feels solid overall, especially for a budget wearable.

The toy itself is mostly smooth silicone with a firm plastic ring at the base. There are seams around the base, but they look tight and don’t make the toy feel flimsy. The internal arm, perineum piece, and side flaps are all flexible, but sturdy, which makes them feel less likely to snap or strain with normal use.

The remote feels lighter and cheaper than the toy itself, but it works fine.

The Ferri’s build quality is excellent – I’ve had mine since 2020 and it’s still working exactly as expected. The toy is smooth, firm silicone on the side in contact with your body, with some plastic and magnetic portions on the other side. The magnet that anchors the toy is small but very strong. The seams are all tight, and the single button has a satisfying press without needing much pressure to activate.