I’ve had the We-Vibe Chorus for a couple of years and first wrote this review back in my early days of enjoying this C-shaped pal. It was the first couples’ vibrator I wore with my partner during sex!
But now that the Chorus and I have been together for a while… And now that I have a bunch more couples’ vibrators, I wanted to give this article an update to share more of my experience and provide greater context!
Before we get started, you should know that, even after trying many others, the Chorus remains my favorite couples’ vibrator.
Oh, and it brings me to orgasm completely hands-free during sex.
And to echo Julie Andrews – these are a few of my favorite things.
Whether you’re considering upgrading your older couples’ vibrator or jumping right into the world of during-sex wearables by starting with the Chorus… I’ll share my experience and answer questions like:
- Is the Chorus worth all the hype?
- Does it actually provide solid clit stimulation during sex?
- How comfortable is it during sex, and does it stay where you want it?
- How does it feel for your partner?
- How does the sound level compare to other wearable vibrators – can I use it easily in public?
- And one that sings from my soul: Can you get anything similar for cheaper?
We’ll chat about all this and more in this We-Vibe Chorus review. Let’s do it!
Compare to Other Hands-Free Couples Vibrators
Use During Sex
Play Outside The Bedroom
Vibrations & Stimulation (35%)
Fit & Comfort (35%)
Control Features (5%)
Battery Life (5%)
Discounts and Guarantees
The We-Vibe Chorus is the best overall (One of only two I orgasm with during sex) – it has the strongest vibes, and the two hinges allow you to customize the fit to your body better than any other.
The Sync is extremely close to the Chorus in performance for ~$50 less. It also has two adjustable hinges. Overall a great value – this is the only other one I orgasm with during sex.
- We-Vibe often runs a sale on the Sync. Very few shops still sell it now that the Chorus is out.
An older predecessor of the Sync and Chorus. It’s nearly as expensive as the Sync, but underperforms in comparison. I recommend the Sync or Chorus instead.
Lelo Tiani 3
Tiani 3’s slimmer internal arm is a good option for someone with a tight vagina or whose partner’s penis size is large. Most others will prefer the Sync’s or Chorus’ adjustable fit.
- 20% Off at Lelo with Discount Code PleasureBetter
Cheapest option that still can work okay. But fit is looser and vibes weaker than We-Vibe’s higher-end models. Recommend buying through Lovehoney so you can return if it doesn’t fit you.
A unique, beautiful design for hands-free clit stimulation during sex. Whether it will fit you highly depends on your own anatomy. Buy through Lovehoney so you can return if it doesn’t work for you.
Satisfyer Double Joy
I couldn’t get a good fit that stayed in contact with my clit. Shifts around a lot and the internal arm was too large to have both the toy and my partner in me.
Satisfyer Double Classic
The absolute cheapest at ~$25. Shifts around a lot and difficult to keep in contact with your clit during sex. Low risk if you want to try it, but don’t set your expectations high.
We-Vibe Chorus During Sex (Where This Sex Toy Shines):
Ok – let’s start with my favorite way to use the Chorus, and the main reason I think it’s a worthwhile toy:
You can comfortably wear this toy during sex for hands-free clit stimulation. This is HUGE because penetration alone NEVER cuts it for me.
I know I’m not alone in needing clit stimulation during sex to orgasm. And for those who resonate – the We-Vibe Chorus could be a game changer. Pairing sex with a strong handheld vibrator (like the Lelo Mona 2) is my usual go-to, but handheld toys limit what you can do.
Positions that don’t work while holding a vibrator wedged in-between your bodies are off the table. (Off the bed?) Plus, there’s extra effort involved in holding the toy, positioning it just right, leveraging it to press the vibes where you need them, and focusing on the toy’s buttons.
Now, I still believe handheld toys have their place and offer excellent stimulation during sex.
But using a handheld vibe can be distracting at times. And you’ll use your hands and some mental energy to control your toy, rather than engage with your partner. So sometimes I want consistent clitoral stimulation during sex - completely hands-free.
And the We-Vibe Chorus delivers that better than any other couples vibrator I’ve tried!
In fact, only the We-Vibe Chorus and its previous version (the We-Vibe Sync) bring me to orgasm hands-free while I’m with my partner.
Every other couples toy I’ve tried has been unable to take me all the way. The Dame Eva, Lelo Tiani 3, Satisfyer’s budget C-shaped line, and We-Vibe’s entry-level couples toys (the Unite and Match) - NONE of these give me the consistent clit stimulation I need during sex to orgasm.
With these other couples vibrators, I need to use my hands to keep them in place. So they don’t really provide a hands-free experience. And even while using my hands to press the toy against me, the stimulation still isn’t enough to bring me over the edge.
But the We-Vibe Chorus truly does free up my hands and take me all the way. I can adjust its shape to fit snugly on my clit and G-spot. And its deep, rumbly vibrations have the power I need to cross the finish line!
If you’re primarily looking for a toy to free up your hands during sex, and still give you the clit stimulation you need - the We-Vibe Chorus is my top recommendation.
The clit stimulation is wonderful paired with internal fullness from my partner. And though the Chorus’ G-spot vibes are quite soft, they feel lovely when combined with penetration.
As far as comfort goes – I was curious whether adding a little something extra would cause me any pain, but it didn’t! My partner is on the higher end of average-sized, and I’m usually fairly tight.
For us, the fit and size of the We-Vibe Chorus added a little extra tightness, but nothing crazy. It took a bit more work to fit him in, and you may have to try to find a good position for initial entry. But once he fit, it was easy to change positions and have him slide right in again.
And the extra pressure and vibes against my G-spot were worth it!
Positions facing each other feel great, as do any variation of penetration from behind. Positions from behind (like spooning) especially push the Chorus into my G-spot, and that quickly became my favorite!
I wondered if I might have trouble keeping the We-Vibe Chorus in place. When I first put it in, I felt like it might just fall out if I got aggressive with my walking.
But even with my enthusiastic gait, I’ve had no troubles. And more importantly – I’ve found the Chorus stays put during sex.
Like on the We-Vibe Sync, there are two different adjustment points on the Chorus (which I’ll discuss more later). So if you already have this toy and have not been as lucky as me at keeping it in place – make sure to adjust these hinge points so that it stays snug.
These hinges are a big reason the Chorus stands above its competitors. While other couples vibrators I’ve tried fit loosely and shift off my clit during sex - the Chorus stays exactly where I need it to deliver the vibes right to my clit.
Bottom Line: We-Vibe Chorus During Sex
If your main goal with this toy is to use it during sex, the Chorus is the best hands-free toy I’ve found. The We-Vibe Chorus and We-Vibe Sync are the only two wearable couples vibrators that stimulate my clit enough for me to orgasm hands-free during sex.
And the Chorus provides even better stimulation than the Sync and gets me there more easily.
We-Vibe Chorus Vibrations
Now let’s get into the details of how the Chorus compares to your other options!
If you’ve just begun to build your vibrator collection, you should know that not all vibes feel the same! I’m sure you seasoned experts can attest.
Vibration power is going to be a big part of your decision. Since this toy is hands-free, you won’t be controlling the pressure with your hands. So you want something that gives you the vibration power range you need on its own!
And besides vibe-power, the feeling of a toy’s vibrations land somewhere on a spectrum between buzzy and rumbly. Where on this spectrum you like your vibes is largely personal preference (though most people prefer deeper, more rumbly vibrations.)
Here are my thoughts on how the We-Vibe Chorus handles each feature compared to other vibrators. Complete with some fab visuals, of course.
We-Vibe Chorus Vibration Power
This one’s important because it’ll dictate what you can… achieve. It’ll decide if the Chorus will just be fun during foreplay or whether it can take you entirely across the finish line.
There are two different motors on the We-Vibe Chorus: The larger part remains outside your body, vibing on your clit. The smaller end presses into your G-spot, packing a second punch. You can turn both motors on at varying levels together, or just one at a time!
Overall, when I turn both motors up to full power, the G-spot motor is actually pretty faint. It doesn’t do much on its own and needs the help of my partner inside me to hit me how I want.
But the external motor packs more power. Perfect for people like me who CRAVE clit vibes. (One of the reasons I spent months testing all the best vibrating panties.)
I was glad to find the We-Vibe Chorus was designed with the external piece as the main driving force since most women (myself included) orgasm more reliably from clitoral stimulation. It’s as if the world is finally starting to understand – GIVE US CLIT STIMULATION!
So the clit vibes are really satisfying on the Chorus - they pack the vibration strength to bring me to orgasm hands-free. It’s the strongest and most stimulating wearable couples vibrator I’ve tried.
But the vibrations are still softer than bigger handheld toys. And since you can maneuver and leverage a handheld vibrator to press the vibes exactly where/how you want them, handheld toys still provide more stimulation.
So if you typically need a ton of power and stimulation to orgasm, your experience with the Chorus may be different than mine. You’ll probably still want to keep a handheld toy like the Lelo Mona 2 or a wand vibrator nearby as well.
But the Chorus’ vibration strength is plenty for me to orgasm easily during sex.
Besides having a stronger clitoral motor than other hands-free couples vibrators, the We-Vibe Chorus also stays in contact with my clit better. Using the Chorus’ two hinges, I can adjust its shape to fit my body.
So the Chorus stays snug where I need it, and all the vibration strength actually translates into clit stimulation. Whereas flexible couples vibrators like the Lelo Tiani 3, the budget Satisfyer Double Joy, and others fit too loosely. So much of their power never even reaches my clit.
And the inner arm’s slight vibrations feel way more intense when my partner is in me and pressing the Chorus’ internal arm into my G-spot.
There’s only one other couples’ vibrator beside the Chorus that I can orgasm from during sex - the We-Vibe Sync.
The Sync has about the same power range as the Chorus, but the Chorus fits a little better. So the Chorus still gets me there quicker.
You can get more substantial power if you’re not looking for a toy you can wear during sex, but just want a vibrator for discreet play outside the bedroom. The Lovense Ferri and Lovense Lush 3 are about twice as strong as the Chorus, so I prefer them for sneaky public play.
And for dual-stimulation during solo play in the bedroom (not during sex), I like the Lovense Dolce (previously called Quake) and Lelo Ida Wave.
So if you’re primarily looking for a solo toy or a public play toy, those options above may suit you better.
But the We-Vibe Chorus is easily the best I’ve experienced for hands-free stimulation during sex.
It’s undoubtedly the strongest option for hands-free fun and was a game-changer for me! Even though it’s only mid-level compared to other kinds of wearable vibrators’ power, I found it enhanced sex for me and enabled me to orgasm without needing to hold a vibrator to my clit.
Bottom Line: We-Vibe Chorus Vibration Power
The We-Vibe Chorus is the strongest option I’ve found for hands-free fun during sex! Its motors are more powerful than other couples toys. And it fits better, so the vibrations go where they’re supposed to - unlike other loose-fitting couples vibrators I’ve tried.
Its vibrations are still softer than large handheld toys, so if you need a ton of power you may still consider a handheld option (see my favorite here). If you’re looking for hands-free stimulation during penetration, the Chorus is the best I’ve found. Its vibrations bring me to orgasm during sex while freeing my hands to engage with my partner.
We-Vibe Chorus Vibration Quality
If you’ve not seen this “rumbly/buzzy” lingo used, here’s my best verbal interpretation of something that you feel:
In practice, rumbly sex toys tend to affect a broader area for me, whereas buzzy ones are for more pinpoint precision and stay more surface-level. Rumbly vibes can also prevent toys from becoming overstimulating.
Rumbly vibes always feel deeper too.
For example, when I hold a rumbly sex toy in my hand, I feel the vibrations all down my arm. Squeezing it tightly in my hand doesn’t muffle the feel – instead, it sends the waves deeper into my arm.
When I’m holding buzzy toys in my hand, the tingling stays mostly in my fingers and starts to tickle a little. Squeezing it tigher muffles the feel for me. But a touch of buzziness can add a nice extra kick.
Which you enjoy is a personal preference. I usually like mine to be a mix. But most people prefer more rumbly vibrators.
Now that we have an idea of rumbly/buzzy – where does the We-Vibe Chorus fall?
Well the internal motor on this toy that sits against the G-spot is slightly buzzy! I found this unusual since We-Vibe has become well-known for their deep, rumbly toys.
But the clitoral motor revived We-Vibe’s rumbly reputation!
The Chorus’s clit-motor is VERY rumbly. So if you’re someone who does not want buzzy clit vibes, the Chorus is a great option.
It’s the most rumbly couples’ vibrator I’ve tried - beating out the slightly-older We-Vibe Sync by just a touch.
Bottom Line: We-Vibe Chorus Rumbly or Buzzy?
We-Vibe’s toys feel luxurious and rumbly, and the We-Vibe Chorus is no exception. The clit-vibes from this toy are some of the most rumbly you’ll find. If rumbly clit-vibes are your jam, this might be the one for you!
The G-spot vibes are buzzier. But when it’s paired with penetration, it still has a very intense feel because your partner’s penis or dildo presses the Chorus’ internal arm more firmly into your G-spot.
Chorus: Fit & Comfort
Comfort in sex toys, especially wearable toys, is very important to me.
If you want your toy to play nicely with a penis or dildo, or use it publicly while walking, dancing, and sitting, you need it to be comfy for many uses. And I’ve found the Chorus rises to the challenge.
This graphic shows how I rate the We-Vibe Chorus’ fit and comfort compared to other couples vibrators.
One of my favorite things about it is the silicone's velvety softness. It felt so luxurious holding it in my hand when I first opened the box that I felt pretty confident it would feel good nuzzled up against my favorite spots too – and the Chorus proved me right.
Besides a smooth texture, there’s some extra “squish” on the sides of the insertable portion for extra comfort.
During sex, it hits all the right places and stays in place well for me because I can customize the fit to my body. The adjustability from the Chorus’ two hinges enables me to get a much better fit than I can from its competitors.
The We-Vibe Chorus also has a tighter shape between the internal and external arms than other couples vibrators. When you flex these arms outward, the Chorus wants to spring back to the adjusted shape you set up. This desire for the Chorus to spring back keeps the Chorus pressed firmly on your clit during sex.
I love firm pressure from my vibes, so the way the Chorus holds the motor closer to my body is fantastic.
That’s why the Chorus is slightly more stimulating to me than the We-Vibe Sync. The We-Vibe Sync doesn’t want to spring back quite as much as the Chorus. So it contacts my clit just a touch more loosely, even though the Sync also has two hinges.
I also find that the wider internal G-spot arm keeps the toy from slipping out during sex. This is a needed upgrade from the previous We-Vibe couples’ toys, the Unite and Match. And the design of the G-spot arm allows my partner to slip in without too much of a stretch.
If you’re wearing this toy out and about, you notice it while walking. And even though I’ve never had it slip out, I still recommend wearing tight underwear or pants. Walking with C-shaped vibrators like the Chorus is not as easy as walking around with egg vibrators or panty vibrators.
That’s one reason those are better for playing outside the bedroom. Whereas the Chorus focuses on providing good stimulation during sex.
But the Chorus still fit securely enough for me to take it out comfortably when dressed right. Walking and dancing are probably when you’re going to be aware of it the most – but it wasn’t uncomfortable for me. When sitting or laying, you could just about forget it’s there after a while if it weren’t sending out delicious vibes.
Putting the We-Vibe Chorus in is no trouble either – just apply water-based lube to the G-spot arm, and it slides in easily.
Adjusting Your We-Vibe Chorus
The hinges are a big part of why the Chorus fits and performs better during sex than other couples vibrators. But I feel like the manual didn’t explain how to adjust the Chorus well.
So lemme give you a quick how-to:
First hinge is on top, where the larger portion narrows into the C-shaped loop. The second hinge is on the bottom where the smaller, insertable motor connects.
If you pinch on either side of the hinge and bend it, you’ll feel little clicks as you adjust it. When you set its shape, it will stay in that position securely. You won’t have any issues with it re-adjusting itself while wearing it.
It’s there to stay.
When I first picked mine up, I just loosely held the two arms and flexed them apart. This is NOT adjusting it. Adjusting the hinges involves really getting your fingers in there to press it into place. It’s not hard – you just have to know where to press.
If you’ve successfully found the hinge points, you should be able to get different orientations to find the best fit for you! Here’s the Chorus as extended as it can be just for illustration.
Getting the fit right is important for comfort, a secure fit, and for better directing the vibrations to your clit and G-spot. So play around. It took me some experimenting before I found the shape that stimulated me best.
When I FIRST put it in, I was trying to get it to fit in this first upright position shown on the left. I quickly learned that it’s supposed to be worn more like the image on the right, with the external arm a bit lower.
MUCH more comfortable and effective this way.
We-Vibe Chorus Visibility
I found the Chorus is pretty easy to conceal visually. There wasn’t any noticeable bump or flashing light to hide in my pants. Totally sneaky 🙂
One quick note is that this toy gets slightly warm during a long use. I am cold EVERY HOUR EVERY DAY, so I’m not gonna lie – I enjoyed my little crotch heater. It could be frustrating to some though. It was definitely a little surprise, but no complaints personally.
Bottom Line: We-Vibe Chorus Fit & Comfort
The We-Vibe Chorus fits more comfortably and securely during sex than any of my other couples vibrators. The Chorus’ excellent fit also makes it more stimulating than its competitors since it stays in contact with my clit even with movement during sex.
For play outside the bedroom, a better option is an egg vibrator (G-spot stimulation) or panty vibrator (clit stimulation). Those fit more securely while walking around. I can still wear the Chorus out if I wear tight pants. But it’s certainly better during sex - this is the Chorus’ main focus.
We-Connect App Quality: Close-Range Mode
As we cover the We-Vibe app, I’ll start by chatting about what control features are available to you in close-range and long-distance modes. Then I’ll discuss the We-Vibe Chorus’ connectivity with the app here.
While I’ve found a couple other brands (Lovense and Satisfyer) have more intuitive and feature-rich apps, the We-Vibe app still provides several good control options. You’ll likely find something that you enjoy and works well for you.
For a quick answer, this is the main way We-Vibe’s app differs from the Lovense and Satisfyer apps:
- We-Vibe focuses on providing you with a good selection of pre-designed patterns that you can adapt to your preferences. But their create-your-own pattern feature is weaker, and their app is less intuitive to navigate.
- Lovense and Satisfyer focus on providing you with in-depth control of your vibes. Creating your own patterns is easier. But We-Vibe gives you greater control over pre-designed patterns.
Though I prefer Satisfyer’s app to We-Vibe’s personally, Satisfyer’s couples vibrators are far worse than We-Vibe’s, so I don’t recommend them. And Lovense (who has my favorite app) doesn’t make a vibrator that you can wear during sex.
So We-Vibe has the best balance between high-quality couples toys and a good app experience.
I also typically control the We-Vibe Chorus with the physical remote control since I use the Chorus most during sex. And I find using the remote is less distracting during sex.
One other thing to be aware of with the Chorus is that it connects to the app through its remote, so you’ll need to bring the remote with you when you want to use the app. I’ll talk more about this when we discuss connectivity.
But let’s chat about what exactly your app experience will look like.
You have a few main ways to control the Chorus in the We-Vibe app: Preset Pattern/Vibes, Touch Mode, Beat Mode, and a Touch-sense feature.
There are 10 preset patterns available for you to use in the We-Vibe app. And you can adjust the intensity of each one. Finding a pattern you like won’t be difficult for most.
I enjoyed almost all of these patterns – but as usual, I tend to pick one or two of the wave patterns and stick mainly with that – just my personal preference.
You can control them one at a time in the Single Vibe screen. Or We-Vibe’s Multi-Vibe screen makes it easy for you to save your top favorite 4 and quickly jump between them.
You can also set your clit and G-spot motors to vibrate on two distinct patterns. You have individual control of each motor in the We-Vibe app (one of the advantages of using the app instead of the remote control).
This separate control can be great, especially if you prefer one of your motors to vibrate more powerfully than the other.
I can turn the internal motor down a bit when I’m not in the mood for internal stimulation. This can also help reduce my husband’s stimulation and extend our play during partnered sex. But I still get a lot of good clit stimulation.
And when I want to bring it home, I’ll turn both motors up to full blast!
The Chorus also has a create-your-own pattern feature too. On Lovense and Satisfyer toys, I often use the create-your-own modes, but the preset patterns are my usual go-to with the We-Vibe Chorus.
Mostly because drawing your own vibration pattern in We-Vibe’s app is not set up as well. It’s not as “in-the-moment” as I would like. To create your own pattern, you have to draw it ahead of time, save it, and then select it from your saved patterns.
I prefer Lovense’s and Satisfyer’s method where you can draw a pattern live and feel it instantly while drawing it.
With We-Vibe, you draw out a vibration pattern for each motor on the screen. But you can’t feel what you’re drawing as you design it. So it’s hard to tell if you’re creating a pattern you actually like. It’s just a clunky pattern-creation experience.
Fortunately, We-Vibe makes up for this by providing an ample selection of predesigned patterns to choose from and adapt to your preferences. People who prefer selecting patterns already designed for them to creating their own patterns will like We-Vibe’s app.
You can also line up several patterns to play back-to-back in the We-Connect app with the “Playlist” option. The We-Vibe Chorus will roll straight from one pattern to the next. I enjoy this feature for longer sessions to add more variety without needing to keep playing around with the app in the moment.
We-Connect Touch Mode
Next on my app-splorations was the “Touch Mode.”
I’ll be honest – this feature was a let-down for me. I’m used to Touch Modes giving lots of awesome options for a really customized experience that you can create right in the moment. This one is basically just a light-show.
All you do is swirl your finger around on the screen. The quicker you move your finger, the more intensely it will buzz. But there’s no correlation between your finger placement on the screen – it’s not like you’re drawing out the wave pattern.
And as soon as I lift my finger, the vibration stops. So it takes a lot of work and is exhausting since you need to keep your finger moving.
With the We-Vibe Chorus, I stick to modifying the preset patterns. The Multi-Vibe screen gives plenty of control and fits my needs better than Touch Mode.
We-Vibe Chorus Beat Mode
So We-Vibe updated their app and completely changed its setup in the summer of 2022. Currently, Beat Mode still shows as “Coming Soon”.
So I’ll tell you what it used to be since it will likely be fairly similar, but with an updated look.
Ok TWO main modes to this: Mic Mode or Music Mode.
By selecting Mic Mode, the Chorus’ vibration power will increase and decrease as the sound around you gets louder and softer. It’s picking up on the sound from your phone’s mic – so it’s helpful to have it out!
You can also choose whether each motor is responding to Base, Midrange, or Treble tones! This is a pretty interesting unique feature of the We-Connect app. Other apps don’t let you customize which range of sounds your toy responds to.
I would say Mic Mode is definitely for clubbier environments. Unless you have good speakers at home it’s hard to get very consistent vibes – more like little spikes here and there.
The second option is to play a song you have stored on your phone. As far as I can see – it only will pull music that you actually have STORED on your device – no streaming services like Spotify. But that may be coming in the update since other brands have started becoming compatible with Spotify.
Music control is a pretty common feature on app-controlled toys and I really enjoy it! It’s a fun way to keep a constant vibe going without really having to do anything. And it keeps things from getting repetitive. I don’t have to switch things up manually – the vibes keep changing with the song.
You can also choose to play a song and then turn your phone’s volume all the way down. But the vibrations will continue on to the song’s audio file. This is something I do quite a bit as a way to keep the vibrations unpredictable.
The thing that sets this music/beats feature apart from others is that again – you can control which motor is responding to which part of the music – treble, mid or base. I haven’t seen this with other toys and it was pretty interesting.
In the past, the song and vibes stop if you lock your phone during Beat Mode. But I’m not sure if this will still be true once this feature becomes available again.
Touch Sense Modes
Something unique that the Chorus has that the Sync does not - We-Vibe introduced the all new Touch Sense control. The Touch Sense modes can be activated in the app.
Once Touch Sense is activated, the idea is to let your natural body movements with your partner control the toy. Each time your partner’s body (or your fingers) bump the clitoral arm, the intensity will change.
That’s the idea anyway.
In practice, I find We-Vibe’s Touch Sense isn’t sensitive enough to work consistently. You almost have to focus too much on bumping the sensor. So ya, Touch Sense modes are meh for me.
Personally, that’s fine with me. I don’t think I’d use the Touch Sense modes very much – I don’t like the idea of the vibrations changing each time the toy gets pressed. I typically find a pattern or intensity I enjoy and let it roll.
Bottom Line: We-Vibe Chorus App Quality: Close Range Mode
The We-Connect app does take a bit of playing around to figure out the control system. Selecting and modifying preset patterns is super easy, but you don’t have as much in-depth control to create your own patterns in real time as you do with the Satisfyer’s couples toys.
Essentially We-Vibe has a good app, though its main competitors are slightly better in my opinion. But We-Vibe’s couples vibrators (especially the Chorus) are much better than their competitors.
And I find using the preset patterns in the Multi-Vibe screen provides enough control for me to enjoy using my Chorus with the app.
Long Distance Play With The Chorus
If you’re looking for a long-distance couples vibrator, this section’s for you! You can message your partner or video chat with them through the We-Vibe app while they control your We-Vibe Chorus.
I find the Chorus’s long-distance features are comparable to other long-distance apps I’ve tried. It has a few oddities to it, but overall pretty good and easy to use.
That initial connecting with a partner is fairly straightforward. You’ll each create a profile and add each other to your partners list. You can send them an invite via text, and it will give them a link to accept your connection invite.
Once you’re on each other’s saved partner list, you can connect directly in the We-Vibe app. You’ll be able to see your partner’s icon, and tell whether they’re online. Then just send them an invite in the app to control your Chorus.
You can also save more than one partner here - this is one addition that came with the 2022 app update.
In the We-Vibe app you can text, voice call, and video chat! You can also send photos.
And that’s all well and good, but the control-sharing is what REALLY matters.
Your partner can request control of your Chorus, and you’ll need to accept to get things rolling! You can video chat while they control your Chorus, or you can choose to leave your mic and video off if you prefer to remain more discreet.
Your long-distance partner will have access to the same Single-Vibe, Multi-Vibe, and Touch Mode control styles that you have in nearby Bluetooth mode.
While your partner is controlling your Chorus, you can’t change the vibration patterns or intensity yourself. But you’re free to take back control of your Chorus any time.
If you are in video mode, you can turn on or off the video or voice feature at any point. And if you’re video chatting while one of you is controlling the toy, you can minimize or maximize the control screen that hovers over your video call.
So you can easily switch between focusing on the controls or seeing each other better. I find We-Vibe’s app provides a better view of your partner than Satisfyer’s, which does not allow you to minimize the control screen.
You may want to communicate with your partner before you send a control invite because they need to have the long-distance screen pulled up to see your invite. Otherwise, they won’t get notified about the invite.
I used my toy solo once, and my partner sent invites I never saw, because I didn’t know he planned to be online.
So it can take a little pre-planning and isn’t the best if you want to take your partner by surprise. The Double Joy’s Satisfyer app is better about sending very obvious notifications.
If this sounds like it will be a big frustration to you, and you’re primarily buying this for long-distance use, I might recommend the Lovense Ferri, Lush or Dolce instead! These are not wearable during penetrative sex but have my favorite long-distance setup.
They all use the Lovense app, which makes connecting with a partner simpler. And there are more custom control options available to long-distance partners. For instance, you can set your partner’s permissions so that you don’t even need to confirm their toy control request!
So they can really take you by surprise.
Lovense’s app is the best for long-distance play, so if that’s your top priority, you may want to consider one of their toys.
But the We-Vibe Chorus's best use is for hands-free stimulation during sex with your partner. So if you want to get the most from the Chorus, you’ll be in the same room.
Long-distance play with the Chorus is best thought of as a bonus use.
Bottom Line: Long Distance Play with the We-Vibe Chorus
The long-distance features on the Chorus provide a pretty enjoyable experience!
It’s easy to connect with a partner initially, and gives both of you great visuals and nice control options. The only issue is that you must be on a particular screen to see each other’s invites, so you’ll need to communicate ahead of time. If long-distance play is your primary goal, Lovense’s wearables tend to be more long-distance oriented.
But for a wearable toy during sex (so long-distance play is not its top priority), I was happy with the Chorus’s experience! It’s a fun bonus use.
We-Vibe Chorus Remote Control Features
The Chorus’ squeeze remote is one of the more feature-rich and luxurious-feeling remotes of my couples’ vibrators. Though it does add a clunky element to the connecting process (which I’ll cover when I discuss connectivity)
If you don’t want to read more, this is essentially what I think about the Squeeze Remote:
In my opinion, the bonus feature (squeeze control) doesn’t work that well. But the Chorus’ remote provides excellent basic control, and it’s a soft, comfortable texture to hold.
It’s the only remote control I have that’s made of comfy, squishy silicone. It feels lovely in your hand instead of the hard plastic other remotes use (though it is also a bit bulkier than others).
For the basic control, the Chorus’ remote uses a 4-button system (which I think should be standard for remote control vibrators, but sadly is not). This means you have two buttons to move forward and backward through patterns. And the other two buttons increase and decrease the vibration power of each pattern.
Unfortunately, many remote controls make you cycle through patterns and power levels. Often they don’t provide buttons to move backward or decrease the vibration intensity.
So if you accidentally turn the power higher than your body’s ready for, you have to cycle through even stronger levels to get back to a lower one, which can be a real mood-breaker.
Most of We-Vibe’s toys, including the Chorus, use the 4-button system, so you’ve got all the essential control you need to move forward and backward / up and down.
I also enjoy that you can gradually increase the power of the Chorus’s patterns with the remote. There are no large leaps. This is kind of a must for me. Especially if I’m using this toy during sex, I want that slow, gradual build.
The Chorus also has a squeeze remote, which allows you to control the Chorus by squeezing the soft, squishy silicone of the remote control. To activate squeeze control, just tap the top button on the remote. Then the harder you grip, the stronger the Chorus vibrates.
I’m sure some folks enjoy this feature, but I don’t think it was anything to write home about. You just have to squeeze way too hard for me to want to use it - it takes some hand strength for your squeeze to register.
And if you want the Chorus to keep vibrating at that intensity, you have to keep squeezing! If you stop, the vibes just stay on a very low rumble.
I think the Squeeze remote would have worked better if the Chorus’ vibration power gradually bumped up each time you squeezed it.
I don’t have the hand muscles to keep on constantly squeezing, so I typically stick with the remote control’s buttons or the We-Vibe app.
Another quick note - I find the Chorus remote a little bulky, which can be trickier for some to hold during sex. It depends on whether you prefer a more comfortable material (like the Chorus’ larger silicone remote) or a tinier size (like the We-Vibe Sync’s smaller, plastic remote).
And if you take the Chorus in public, you’ll want a bag or something with bigger pockets - the Chorus’ remote is not fitting discreetly into the tiny pockets of most women’s jeans.
If that’s important to you, the We-Vibe Sync also has the same 4-button control, without the squeeze functionality. But it’s much smaller, so it can be easier to keep in your hand or pocket.
Control-wise though, I’m a fan of the We-Vibe Chorus remote. It gives me all the main control I need during sex, solo-play, or in public! I just don’t use its bonus functionality.
We-Vibe Chorus Connectivity
When I first wrote this article a couple of years ago, We-Vibe’s app connectivity with most of their toys wasn’t as good. But I’ve seen improvements over the years - one of the reasons I thought an update to this review was necessary.
I often had issues getting We-Vibe toys paired to the app - especially the We-Vibe Moxie. There was a delay between app-activity and what the toy did, and several of my We-Vibe toys would often disconnect randomly. It also impacted whether or not my partner and I could get connected when playing long-distance.
Since the Chorus was a newer We-Vibe toy, it didn’t struggle as much as their older models. But it still lagged behind the excellent reliability of Lovense’s app-controlled toys.
Fortunately, as We-Vibe has continued to update their app, I have found that connectivity with their toys has improved over time. And even though the Chorus didn’t struggle as much as their other toys, its connectivity has also improved.
Here’s my experience now:
Pairing the We-Vibe Chorus to the app is a reliable (though still a bit clunky) process.
I rarely have difficulties getting the Chorus to connect to the app. I’d say it doesn’t connect quickly fewer than 1 in 10 times.
Something different about the We-Vibe Chorus compared to other app-control vibrators is that your phone pairs to the Chorus THROUGH the squeeze remote. Your phone does not pair directly to the We-Vibe Chorus.
This can be a bit annoying because you always need to have the remote with you – even if you only plan to use the app. So if you’re taking the Chorus out, you’ll have to bring the remote and a purse or pocket to store it.
For in-bedroom play, it’s not a big deal since you can just set the Chorus’ remote on a nightstand nearby.
It also makes the pairing process take a few seconds longer since it requires more button clicks than toys that connect directly to the app. You’ll need to press a button on the Chorus and the remote to connect.
Luckily, since the app update, it walks you through this process now. The app tells you exactly when to press each button to get the Chorus paired.
So I pretty much always get connected right away, but it takes additional steps than toys like the We-Vibe Sync, which connect directly to the We-Vibe app.
Maintaining Connection in Close-Range Mode: For Nearby Public Play or Playing at Home
Once you get connected, I’ve found that the We-Vibe Chorus stays connected well most of the time.
I can usually play for more than 30 minutes without experiencing a disconnection. And I can typically lock my phone or open other apps without the Chorus dropping connection.
I also wanted to see what distance/range the Chorus could maintain its connection with the app and remote. So I ran a few tests to see how far away you could be from the Chorus before it disconnected.
Here’s what I tried:
- Taking the toy and squeeze remote away from my phone
- Taking the squeeze remote and phone away from the toy
- Taking the phone and toy away from the squeeze remote
In all cases, when I tested in my house with many obstructions, the Chorus disconnected when I got a few rooms away, which was about 35 feet. My partner could control it from upstairs while I was downstairs. But the Chorus lost connection if he also moved to the other end of the house in addition to being on a different floor.
So you’ll need to keep the app and remote fairly close to the Chorus if there are a lot of obstructions. But you can still be a couple rooms apart.
If you’re sitting together at a restaurant or bar you shouldn’t have any worries since you’ll be nearby.
But if you want to control your partner from across the bar sneakily, you’ll just have to remember that you can’t sit too far from your partner. Or connect through long-distance mode if you’ll be farther away.
I also found that if you’re in an open space with no obstructions, the Chorus and app stayed connected up to about 175 feet! Which is one of the greatest distances compared to other couples’ vibrators.
For the above graphic, I tested all my couples vibrators in an alley outside my house. So it was a wide open space with no obstructions, just so that we could see how these couples toys’ range compared to each other. And the Chorus was one of the longest.
If the Chorus disconnects - either a random disconnection or because you went out of range - it typically reconnects on its own. Most of the time, if you pull open the We-Vibe app again or walk back within range, the Chorus will reconnect.
But occasionally, it doesn’t automatically re-pair, and then you’ll need to go through the initial pairing process again. This requires pressing the pairing button on the Chorus and the squeeze remote.
If you’re in public, this can be tricky since you’re wearing the Chours - so you’ll need to take a trip to the restroom.
So far, disconnections have been infrequent enough that I don’t face too many disruptions during public play. If you want the smoothest experience though, I’ve found the Lovense Ferri and Lush 3 reconnect very easily.
They don’t require a trip to the restroom to reconnect, so may be better options if playing outside the bedroom is the main reason you’re considering the Chorus.
But especially for use during sex (which is the best use of the We-Vibe Chorus), disconnections are never really an issue.
Long Distance Connectivity
Sharing control with a long-distance partner has also become a smoother experience as We-Vibe has updated their app.
When I first wrote this We-Vibe Chorus review, we experienced an issue where the We-Vibe app sometimes wouldn’t show my partner that I was online. So he couldn’t request to control my toy. Back then, it would occasionally take several minutes of opening and closing the app to get it to work.
In previous app updates, we saw this issue decrease. And since a 2022 app update, we haven’t experienced this issue at all anymore.
Sharing control of my Chorus in long-distance mode has become a consistent and reliable process.
However, you still need to be on the long-distance screen to see a partner’s control request. So you may want to communicate with your partner ahead of time. That way you can tell them to watch for your invite.
Bottom Line: Connectivity
The Chorus’s connectivity has become reliable with small app updates over time, and a major overhaul of the app in 2022.
It pairs reliably and I can typically play more than half an hour without experiencing a disconnection. It also has a very reliable remote.
Getting connected takes additional steps since the Chorus connects to the app through the remote control. So you’ll always have to bring the remote, which can be a bit annoying when playing outside the bedroom.
If you’re primarily looking to wear the Chorus out, a Lovense toy may be better since their connection is simpler and doesn’t require a trip to the bathroom in case of a disconnect. For clitoral stimulation I’d recommend the Lovense Ferri. Or for G-spot stimulation, I’d recommend the Lovense Lush.
But the Chorus still holds up quite well. And especially during sex (the main way and best way to use the Chorus), we never experience issues with connectivity since the toy and remote/app are nearby.
We-Vibe Chorus Noise Level
The Chorus is one of the quieter couples vibrators out there. Here’s how it stacks up to other couples’ vibrators:
It definitely cannot be heard behind a closed door at home. So you’ll have no issues with someone hearing the Chorus during sex.
But I was also curious how it held up for public play. Good news: not only is the Chorus pretty comfortable to wear out: it’s also inaudible in most locations!
This was a surprise to me initially since part of the We-Vibe Chorus is external. So my body can’t help dampen the clitoral motor. But it didn’t need any help. It’s very quiet all by itself!
Sound level is a big deal! To venture out wearing one of these guys, I really have to feel confident that no one will hear me. So I’ve DOUBLE tested the levels to make sure I can’t hear it AND my partner can’t hear it.
Here is my testing journey:
I took the We-Vibe Chorus to a quiet local restaurant to kick things off. I started out controlling the vibes so I could establish my comfort level. I started at the lowest powers and slowly raised to the highest level.
Even at the top power, I couldn’t hear the Chorus myself. And I confirmed with my partner he couldn’t hear it either – silent indeed!
We tested a couple of the pulsing patterns to see if the quick bursts of vibes would be noticeable, but still – nothing to be detected!
I wore the Chorus in our car with NO MUSIC on. Just the sounds of the road beneath us and our car's engine humming away. Still NOTHING. No audible sounds to my husband or me.
I was 2/2 for the Chorus and couldn’t think of a much quieter public place, so I created my own two-person house party.
My very own home – good for complete silence (we don’t have kids).
Well it turns out that’s where the buck stops. If you don’t have ANY ambient sounds, you can still hear it. Seated in our silent house on the couch together, both of us could hear it. Even when the clit motor was on low power levels.
But all you need is a TINY bit of sound, and it’s completely drowned out. If you want something that might work for an absolutely silent location, some egg vibrators like the We-Vibe Jive or VeDO Kiwi have some low levels we couldn’t hear. But even those two (which are especially quiet) we could hear on the mid-power and higher levels.
You'll be fine if you're mainly considering the Chorus to use during sex. No one can hear it on the other side of a bedroom door.
Bottom Line: We-Vibe Chorus Noise Level
The Chorus is a very quiet option that won’t give you any issues behind closed doors or in most public locations!
We-Vibe Chorus Aesthetic
Aesthetic is not normally one of my huge talking points on sex toys. I’m mostly about what the toy DOES to me, not how much I enjoy gazing at it.
BUT I LOVE GAZING AT THIS ONE. At least the color that I got. The blue is such a lovely pale blue that I rarely see on sex toys. It was a great break from the neon pink and purple options I’ve become accustomed to.
It also has this MAGIC little holding case for the toy and squeeze remote. It holds the toy upright with the little charging magnets and just charges it IN THE CASE – I just can’t get over it. It’s such a nice and organized design.
It also comes in cosmic pink, cosmic blue, purple. Or a lovely light coral color!
Bottom Line: Really mesmerizing design – 10 thumbs up from me.
We-Vibe Chorus Battery Life
This section will be short and sweet. The We-Vibe Chorus lasts about an hour for me. I tend to keep a medium/high level vibration going most of the time. To get the 90 minutes advertised, I’d have to play on the lower levels more often.
This is enough for the intended use during sex. But if you plan on using it out, be conscious you can’t make a whole evening of it. Unless you give it some breaks and let it hum along on the low powers occasionally.
You can check the battery levels on the app to keep track of this!
I wanted to see how this compared to other couples’ vibrators you can wear during sex. So I set up a little testing station. I fully charged all of my couples toys batteries, and let them vibrate on their highest power until they each ran out.
I checked on them every ten minutes to see which ones were still going.
The 65 minutes on high power I got from the Chorus was pretty average for couples vibrators. A few like the Match and Unite lasted 115 minutes or more. But these are lower powered to begin with. So it’s not any extra power-per-charge than the Chorus.
Bottom Line: Battery Life
Fun for about 1-hour if you like to stay around the highest power levels. About 90 minutes if you enjoy the lower intensities. So it’s a great amount for bedroom fun!
We-Vibe Chorus Review Results
The We-Vibe Chorus is easily my favorite wearable vibrator for hands-free stimulation during sex.
The Chorus is one of only two toys I can orgasm with hands-free during sex (the We-Vibe Sync is the other). So I think it’s one of the only two wearable couples vibrators worth considering.
It fits more securely and vibrates more powerfully than other couples toys. The adjustable hinges are essential for one of these C-shaped vibrators to get a good fit. They’re a huge part of the reason the Chorus stays in good contact with my clit, so I get the stimulation I need to orgasm during sex.
During-sex-wearables are not as strong as larger handheld vibrators. So if you typically need a lot of power, you may still need the greater strength of a handheld vibe. But I love how the Chorus frees my hands so I can fully engage with my partner during sex - and it still gives me the stimulation I need to finish.
It provides hands-free stimulation during sex better than any other toy I’ve tried.
The remote and app work well and maintain good connectivity with the Chorus.
It’s a higher price point than other couples vibrators. But I’ve tested more budget-friendly couples’ toys like the Satisfyer Double Joy, Satisfyer Partner Classic, and other mid-level toys. Unfortunately, so far I haven’t found any cheap couples vibrators that actually work.
If you’re on a tighter budget, consider the We-Vibe Sync (my second favorite). It’s a touch cheaper than the Chorus. But if your budget is less than that, you’d be better off going with a handheld toy instead of a cheap hands-free vibrator.
For the best stimulation during sex from a hands-free couples vibrator - go with the Chorus. I recommend buying the Chorus through Lovehoney since it’s a more expensive toy. And Lovehoney has a happiness guarantee - they’ll refund you if you don’t end up enjoying your toy.
So that way, you’re not out money if you don’t end up loving the Chorus.
I think the We Vibe Chorus is a great toy if you:
- Are primarily looking for a hands-free toy that you can wear during sex to get the stimulation you need to orgasm (without needing to hold a toy to your vulva or use your hands)
- Want the strongest wearable couples vibrator, but understand that you won’t get the extreme power that a handheld toy provides - I orgasm hands-free from the Chorus personally, but people who need a ton of strength may not
- Value a wide range of power from low to high
- Enjoy deep, rumbly vibrations
- Want a comfortable option for during sex use, and public play
- Would like both remote-control and app-control capabilities
- Value a reliable connection and don’t want too much troubleshooting
- Are looking for something very quiet
- Are ok with 60-90 minutes of battery life
- Have the budget for the best hands-free couples vibrator
I think an alternative bluetooth vibrator may be better if you:
- Need the major vibration strength of a large handheld toy to orgasm
- Mostly want a toy for public play and don’t care about wearing this during penetration (there are stronger options that are more secure for public play - the Chorus’ best use is during sex for hands-free stimulation)
- Want to be able to leave the remote control at home if you’re using the toy in public with the app (the Sync is very similar and allows this. But the Chorus connects to the app through the remote - so you’ll need to bring the remote with you)
- Want something with a longer battery life (greater than 90 minutes - a reason the Lovense Ferri and Lush 3 are better public play options)
We-Vibe Chorus Alternatives
The amount I recommend the Chorus differs based on your priorities. Here’s a quick Low, Medium, and High rated scale based on some features that could be your main goal:
- For Use During Sex: High – it gives the best hands-free stimulation during sex I’ve experienced from a toy.
- For Public Use: Medium – one of the quieter options I’ve tried, and has good connectivity. But other options fit more securely for walking around and have longer battery life
- For Solo G-Spot Stimulation: Low
- For Solo Clit Stimulation: Medium
- Budget Buy: Low
If you’re missing a “High” on the most important use to YOU, here are some fab alternatives!
Other Toys to Use During Sex
Less Expensive Hands-Free Vibrator: We-Vibe Sync
The We-Vibe Sync is a very similar design to the Chorus and is made by the same brand. It uses the same app and has the same raw vibration strength. And it’s about $50 cheaper than the Chorus.
A few key differences are that the Chorus has a slightly better fit, so it sits more firmly against my body. This makes the clit stimulation feel more intense, so I enjoy the Chorus a bit more.
But it’s only a slight difference in stimulation, and the We-Vibe Sync can save you around $50.
It also has a different remote. The Chorus’s remote has a squeeze-activated setting, and the Sync’s does not. However, for $50 less, this may be worth it to you.
The Sync’s remote also is not necessary to use the app. So you can leave it at home, whereas with the Chorus you need to bring the remote with you.
The Sync is the only other couples’ vibrator I can orgasm from hands-free. While it’s not cheap, it’s the least expensive one that I still highly recommend.
If your budget is lower than that - I would not recommend a hands-free vibrator. I think you should go with a handheld toy at that point. The cheap wearable couples vibrators just don’t work well.
A Budget Alternative I Wouldn’t Recommend: We-Vibe Unite
The We-Vibe Unite is meant to serve the same purpose as the We-Vibe Sync and Chorus at a much lower cost. It looks almost the same AND can be used during sex just like the Chorus.
But it performs much worse.
The Unite is NOT adjustable like the We-Vibe Chorus and We-Vibe Sync (so you’re less likely to find a good fit for your body). I found that it falls out very easily and does not stay in place to stimulate me well.
So it was more of a distraction than anything else.
It also has a one-button remote, which means you must cycle through all the patterns to find the one you want. And there’s no adjusting the intensity of the patterns. So you’re limited.
It’s also a bit less powerful. So it just didn’t do much for me. It is less than half the price of the Chorus. But if there’s one thing I’ve found in testing couples’ vibrators: you want quality.
I’d rather spend on a toy that I enjoy using during sex.
Handheld Clitoral Vibrators During Sex
If I’m not set on hands-free fun with my partner, I’ll grab a handheld vibrator. I find these are great for stimulating clitorally during sex in certain positions.
And if you grab the right one, you have a lot of positions still open to you!
The Lelo Mona and Lovense Hyphy are two of my top picks. These are marketed as G-spot vibrators, but I use them clitorally. Their longer, curved handles make it super easy to slip them between my legs without much effort.
Since the toys are slim, the vibrator doesn’t take up much space between our bodies. And since they have a long handle, my hands are also out of the way.
And the Lovense Ambi is another great pick if you’re on a budget!
It’s smaller and requires that you reach down there a bit more. But the shape naturally angles the blunt head of the vibrator between your legs. And I love the pressure I can get from this toy without it taking up much space!
And if you enjoy the deep, rumbly motors of We-Vibe’s toys: the We-Vibe Tango X is another option people enjoy using during sex. It’s a powerful, slim bullet vibrator that easily fits between your bodies. Your hands will need to be in the action a bit though. So I prefer the other toys I mentioned personally.
These can all give you more clitoral stimulation than the Chorus because they just have stronger motors - but you will need to hold the vibrator. That’s the trade-off.
We recommend a handheld toy over the We-Vibe Chorus if:
- You just want stimulation during sex and don’t care that you need to hold a vibrator
- You need stronger power than you can typically get from a wearable vibrator
- You are looking for a cheaper option that still works well
Better Public Play Options
Clit-Focused: Lovense Ferri
The Lovense Ferri is my favorite vibrator for public play.
It’s a clitoral vibe that magnetically secures to any pair of panties to deliver strong vibes right to your clit.
This one is clit-only, and it’s not wearable during penetrative sex. But the clit stimulation is more powerful, and I prefer the Lovense app over the We-Vibe app! I orgasm more easily from the Lovense Ferri’s more powerful vibrations. (Again - during solo use or public play. Not during sex like the Chorus)
I find it just as comfortable as the Chorus. And you’ll find it more comfortable if you don’t enjoy penetration, since the Ferri is purely external. This one’s about half the cost too.
Downsides: It is a bit louder – always a give and take when balancing power and volume. But I can still use it in most restaurants without drawing suspicion.
And again - It’s also not for use during sex.
We’ve also found the Lovense Ferri connects easily, quickly, and stays connected to the app. It’s one of the best for a reliable connection.
For more info, check out our Lovense Ferri review.
We recommend the Lovense Ferri over the We Vibe Chorus if:
- You don’t need a wearable that’s for use during penetrative sex, and instead want something mainly for public play
- You prefer clitoral stimulation over vaginal stimulation
- You are looking for a more powerful option
- You want something a little more budget-friendly
- You want the best app experience
G-spot Focused: Lovense Lush 3
Another that is not wearable during sex, but provides stronger G-spot stimulation.
This one is internal only – so NO external vibes. It’s got MUCH more powerful G-spot vibes and is just a smidge louder than the Chorus. But your body dampens the sound of internal vibrations really well.
I can also use the Lush in our car without music, and my husband won’t hear it vibing away between my legs.
It’s not quite as comfortable as the We-Vibe Chorus since it’s more filling – unless you’re used to a bit of a stretch. But it gives much more substantial G-spot stimulation.
The Lush is SUPER easy to control with the app, and connectivity is VERY reliable.
It’s not quite as high of a price point as the Chorus. This one is not made to use during sex though. But it’s a great public play option for people who want strong internal vibrations and a reliable connection.
Both the Lush 3 and it’s less expensive predecessor – the Lush 2 – are excellent options. They provide similar stimulation, but the Lush 3’s antenna is more comfortable.
We recommend the Lovense Lush 3 over the We Vibe Chorus if:
- You’re looking primarily for a toy to wear outside the bedroom - not a toy to wear during sex
- You prefer stronger G-spot stimulations and don’t care as much about clitoral stimulation
- You are looking for a more reliable connection
How Does the Chorus Feel For The Penetrating Partner?
Her partner here!
The We-Vibe Chorus is a fairly neutral experience for the penetrating partner. The Chorus’ G-spot arm is much softer than the clitoral arm. So while I do feel it slightly, it’s not very stimulating.
So while the Chorus probably won’t add much to the penetrating partner’s experience, I was happy it wasn’t overstimulating. My main concern was that it would cause me to orgasm earlier, but the stimulation on my penis is not strong enough for that to be the case.
My partner’s vagina does feel tighter with the Chorus in. Again - this is a pretty neutral experience for me. It doesn’t affect me positively or negatively during sex. Though initially entering my partner takes more time.
We’ve found entering from behind works best. And it’s best for her to be warmed up already. After I’ve entered once, it’s easy to switch positions and slide in again.
Orgasms with the Chorus - Does it take you there?
It’s Kate again!
As is evident at this point in the review - yes, I orgasm with the We-Vibe Chorus. But obviously, it differs based on the person.
I’ll give you my experience.
Quick orgasm bio for myself: I typically can only orgasm if there is clit stimulation involved, and I enjoy the high power levels of my toys when I’m teetering on the edge of my O.
My environment and freedom to control muscle movements is also important to me. I like to grind my body a bit into my toys for more pressure.
At home with my partner, I can orgasm with the Chorus! This one and the We-Vibe Sync are the only two wearable couples vibrators that take me there during sex!
And completely hands-free I might add.
I was pleasantly surprised because the Chorus is lower-powered than I typically like.
Before the Chorus, I was used to larger handheld vibrators that provide even more power - like the Lelo Mona 2. However, I’m not someone who needs the extreme power of huge wand vibrators to orgasm. So if that’s you, you may find the Chorus too soft for your preferences.
In public when my body movement is limited (so I can’t grind), and it’s not paired with penetration, I’ve not been able to orgasm with this sex toy. I need a bit more power to finish if I’m not in a location I can grind a bit on the toy.
I still really enjoy the Chorus as a tease and buildup before we get home – and by then I am WORKED UP after basically having been on the edge of orgasm for the past hour.
So during sex is where it really shines! And it’s my absolute FAVORITE way to use the We-Vibe Chorus:
The Chorus couples vibrator makes hands-free orgasms during sex really easy and oh so good.
How to Use the We-Vibe Chorus
The G-spot arm leaves enough room so that you can enjoy penetration while wearing the toy.
Adjust the toy to get the right fit for you beforehand! Adjusting the two hinges is essential for getting a secure fit that stimulates your clit well.
How to Adjust We-Vibe Chorus
To adjust the Chorus, hold the hinge section of the toy, and pull back both the clit end and G-spot end. You’ll hear clicks, and the toy will hold the new shape if you’ve adjusted it successfully.
Holding the toy and flexing it loosely from the two arms does not adjust the toy. If you don’t feel the hinge moving, you’re likely just flexing the toy.
How to Connect the We-Vibe Chorus to Phone App
The We-Vibe app walks you through how to connect each toy to the app.
For the Chorus, it involves opening the app, selecting the Chorus from your toy list, and then following the on-screen prompts that let you know which buttons to press on the Chorus and the squeeze remote.
How to Charge We-Vibe Chorus
The Chorus charges in its charging/storage case. The case has a magnetic support that attaches to the magnet on the Chorus. Simply set the Chorus and remote in the case to charge.
The We-Vibe Chorus’ charge time is 120 minutes.
We-Vibe Chorus Review Final Thoughts
The We-Vibe Chorus is a fun toy for out-and-about sessions, but it shines during penetrative sex.
It’s one of the only couples’ vibrators I can orgasm from hands-free, so it was a game-changer for me. When I wear my Chorus, my partner and I can have sex however we want, while I get the stimulation I need.
And if you’re using it in public, it’s also a fun tease. Who knew I could have clit-vibes, G-spot vibes, and the filling feeling of my partner all at once – oh AND all hands-free!
I find it comfortable to wear – especially for an insertable toy! Its connectivity is much better, thanks to the recent app update. And it’s whisper quiet.
If a hands-free toy you can wear during sex is on your list, the Chorus is the best.
Where to Buy [With Refunds and Happiness Guarentees]
I recommend buying the We-Vibe Chorus through Lovehoney since they will refund you if you don’t end up enjoying your toy. Since the Chorus is on the pricey side, I think having the option to return it if it doesn’t work for you is a good idea.
You can use the code PleasureBetter15 for 15% off your order at Lovehoney.
I also enjoy shopping through PeepShowToys. They have a great, curated selection of vibrators (but they do not offer a happiness guarentee like Lovehoney). You can use the code PleasureBetter for 10% off at PeepShowToys.