Viben Sultry vs Dame Min Side-By-Side Comparison
Performance Ratings
Our Verdict
The Viben Sultry is one of my favorite wand vibrators under $100. It has excellent vibrations with the immense power you expect from a full-sized wand vibrator. And though it doesn’t offer truly gentle settings, I find its lower levels enjoyable without a warmup because they’re extremely rumbly. And they stay rumbly even on its highest power!
It’s also an especially comfortable full-sized wand. It’s lighter than other large wands with a slimmer, contoured handle, making maneuvering it easier solo or during sex. Though its controls require you to cycle through the vibration power levels and patterns in reverse order, which can be annoying.
Overall, I recommend it as long as you already have a gentler vibrator you can use as a warmup or don’t typically need very soft levels. This wand has great power, rumbliness, and comfort at a reasonable price.
The Dame Min is a decent mini wand vibrator, but it’s not the best value unless you specifically want the Dame brand or like its aesthetic. It delivers mild to moderate vibrations with very gradual power steps, making it a good fit if you’re sensitive to overstimulation or prefer neutral-feeling or buzzy vibrations.
However, it’s expensive for what it offers. It doesn’t include strong or extreme settings, and the only rumbly settings are its weakest. Other mini wands like the cheaper Romp Presto or comparably-priced Magic Wand Mini match or outperform it in strength, comfort, and rumbliness.
The Min has some design perks – like a waterproof build and a vibration-free handle – but also some drawbacks. Its short, curved handle and poorly placed buttons can make it slightly awkward to grip, and the buttons sometimes don’t respond. If you love the Dame aesthetic and don’t mind these quirks, it’s a decent mini wand. But most people will find better value elsewhere.
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Vibrations: Power And Range
Though not as overwhelming as a few wands like the Magic Wand Plus or PalmPower Extreme, the Viben Sultry has excellent power topping out at 7.3 out of 10 – significantly stronger than any of my non-wand vibrators.
Though it has 8 power levels, it begins with a fair amount of power – I can orgasm easily on any setting. The lowest level is 6.5 out of 10 – already close to its top power of 7.3. There’s nothing really soft.
Normally with a limited power range, I’d need to use a gentler toy to warm up before switching to a powerful wand. But for me, the Sultry just works! Its power range is at my ideal threshold – I find it intense, but comfortable. And I think the main reason it works for me is because of how the vibrations feel: the vibration frequency.
The Dame Min has moderate power, similar to many of my mid-sized non-wand vibrators. It’s strong enough for me – I usually only need to go up to the 3rd or 4th setting – but it won’t satisfy those who want the intense strength typically associated with wands.
It has 5 power settings with small, gradual steps between each one. This makes it great if you’re prone to overstimulation and prefer a gentle build and moderate intensity. But if you’re hoping for extremely powerful top settings, you’ll be disappointed.
The Dame Min is stronger than Dame’s bullets and palm vibrators like the Zee and Pom, and it actually matches the top strength of Dame’s larger wand, the Com. But its strength is significantly lower than full-sized wands like the Magic Wand Plus, which has nearly double the Min’s top intensity.
Vibrations: Frequency (Rumbliness)
The Viben Sultry is one of the most rumbly wand vibrators we’ve tested. Its entire power range is on the rumbly side of the spectrum, and it packs excellent strength while remaining rumbly.
The Sultry’s lowest 3 levels are extremely rumbly. This makes the wand’s powerful start feel impactful but not overwhelming. The rumbly vibrations are more widespread and comfortable while traveling deeper through your body.
The top 5 power levels remain moderately rumbly, with just a bit more zing that focuses the vibrations in a tighter area. Only a few other wands reach the Sultry’s top strength of 7.3 or higher (like the Orion Grande) while remaining rumbly.
If you enjoy moderate to strong power and love deep, rumbly vibrations the Viben Sultry will be a good fit.
Most people prefer rumbly vibrations, so we rate rumbly wands higher. But I often prefer buzzy or neutral-feeling vibrations – and you might too. So consider your own preferences here.
The Dame Min starts moderately rumbly on its lowest setting, but quickly shifts to neutral and then moderately buzzy on its higher settings. Personally, I find the buzzy top levels great for a precise, surface-level kick.
Since the rumbly setting is very gentle, most people will move beyond it quickly. So if you prefer rumbly vibrations, the Magic Wand Mini is a better mini wand for you. Or Dame’s larger wand, the Com, stays rumbly throughout its entire power range.
Comfort & Ease of Use
The Viben Sultry is an especially comfortable full-sized wand, but the controls are poor.
It weighs less than other large wands and has a slim, contoured silicone handle that’s very comfy to grip. These features make it easier to maneuver and leverage the Sultry for firm pressure – it doesn’t feel like you’re holding a bulky wand vibrator. The slightly flexible neck also keeps the pressure comfortable without flexing so much that applying pressure becomes difficult.
The tall head provides lovely, broad stimulation. But you can also use the slight lip formed near the top of the head to apply more focused stimulation.
The Sultry’s controls are its only downside. It does not have separate buttons to increase and decrease power. You need to cycle through intensity levels using a single button, and they’re in reverse order (most powerful to least). While this is mildly annoying, the power levels are so close together that I can live with it. It’s still one of the wands I reach for the most.
What’s more frustrating is that if you accidentally press the vibration pattern button, you must cycle through all 19 patterns to return to the constant setting. Simply turning the wand off and back on again does not work because the wand resumes on the same setting. The Maia Nala is a comparably-priced wand with better controls if that’s your priority.
It’s also fully IPX7 waterproof, so it’s quick and easy to clean.
The Dame Min is comfortable and easy to use, but the handle and buttons take some getting used to.
As Dame promises, there are no distracting vibrations in the handle. And the curve helps you leverage the wand easily to apply firm pressure, while the moderately flexible neck moves with you, keeping that pressure comfortable.
However, the short handle makes it harder to grip. My thumb naturally rests near the buttons, and I sometimes press them by accident. I find that I need to adjust my grip to avoid this – either by sliding my thumb to the side or holding the wand closer to the middle – and while it’s not completely intuitive, it’s manageable once you get used to it.
The buttons also have responsiveness issues. I often need to press them multiple times before the power changes, which gets frustrating in the middle of use. If you typically stay on one or two settings, this might not be a problem. But if you like to make frequent adjustments, it can be disruptive. If so, the Magic Wand Mini has more reliable buttons at a similar price point.
That said, the control setup is solid when it works. You can increase or decrease power and cycle through all the vibration patterns, adjusting the intensity of each one.
The Min’s small head is also great for targeting a specific area, and you can press it firmly against you comfortably. I also love the grippy silicone material, which feels luxurious in my hand. It’s fully waterproof and easy to clean. If you prefer smaller wands and are willing to adjust to the buttons, the Min could be a good fit.
Use During Sex
The Viben Sultry also works well during sex. Its tall head is still relatively slim, so it fits into tight spaces better than other full-sized wands. You also don’t need to position it very precisely because its strong, rumbly vibrations travel deep and feel impactful, even when the head is not placed right near your clit.
Its light weight is even more helpful during sex since you’re more often in positions where you’re holding the wand up, like in Doggystyle or Spooning. So it doesn’t get tiring like heavier wands. Since the Sultry is fairly long, you can also rest the base of its handle on the bed during Doggystyle to further support its weight.
Though the head is firmer than the plush silicone of the Magic Wand Rechargeable or Plus, its flexible neck keeps it comfortable during sex.
If you enjoy the broad, powerful stimulation of full-sized wands, and want something easy to use during sex, this is one of the best options.
The Dame Min is a great wand to use during sex. Its small head fits easily into tight spaces, which helps you get direct clitoral contact – especially important when working with gentle or moderate vibrations like these.
The head is firm and could get pressed uncomfortably with aggressive movement, but its smaller size makes it easier to control exactly where pressure is applied – unlike larger heads, which press across a wider area and are harder to reposition precisely. The moderately flexible neck also helps it move with your body, keeping things comfortable during use.
The short, curved handle is easy to leverage without hitting your partner or the bed. During doggy-style, the handle is too short to rest against the bed for support, but it’s light enough that I can hold it for extended periods without tiring.
Noise
The Viben Sultry is one of the quietest wands with this much power – it’s a good option for people who want something strong and discreet. From behind a closed door, my partner can easily hear most wand vibrators this strong.
But I can often use the Sultry on its highest power level without my partner hearing it. We have retested this wand multiple times because it’s right on the border between audible and inaudible on its max setting. Some days my partner can just barely discern the sound of the Sultry’s vibrations on high. But the house has to be completely silent, and he has to try hard to listen for it. Other days he can’t hear it at all.
Turning on a box fan in the bedroom will ensure the Viben Sultry can’t be heard on any power level.
For even more discretion, the We-Vibe Wand 2 is better overall and remains inaudible on every setting, but it’s also more expensive.
The Dame Min is quiet. In our tests, all power levels were inaudible from behind a closed door, which is typical for moderately powerful mini wands like this.
However, we began noticing a faint rattling sound, exclusively on the lowest setting. It’s not loud enough to hear through a door, but it might be distracting in quiet environments. But most people will likely move past the lowest level quickly.
It’s also worth noting that we only began hearing the rattling sound after performing our Battery Life Test, where we run the wand continuously on its highest setting until it dies. So it’s possible the sound developed from being overworked during testing, and may not appear with typical use.
Attachment Compatibility
The Viben Sultry’s slim head which makes it comfortable and easy to use during sex limits its compatibility with wand attachments. Some attachments designed for full-sized wands like the Magic Wand Rechargeable also fit the Viben Sultry, while others are too loose.
You can still find compatible attachments for a variety of stimulation including penis, anal, G-spot, prostate, and clitoral. But your selection is more limited. See our full wand attachment compatibility table for information on all the attachments we tested for compatibility.
The Dame Min has poor attachment compatibility. Most wand attachments are made for larger heads and won’t fit.
Two of my small-head attachments fit securely. Three others designed for the PalmPower Rechargeable fit with friction, but didn’t lock into place like they do for the PalmPower. If you want a mini wand with more compatible attachments, the Magic Wand Mini is a better choice.
Mount Compatibility
I test my wands with Liberator’s wand mounts – the Axis and Wanda. The Sultry works well with both!
The Axis holds the Sultry at a slight upward angle between my legs, as I lie face down along the mount. I can simply lie on the mount and cruise to orgasm solo or have my partner enter me from behind.
Despite its slimmer handle compared to other full-sized wands, the Axis firmly and securely grips the Sultry, preventing any unwanted movement. The Sultry’s tall head provides plenty of surface area for good contact and comfort. With its considerable height, the head applies pressure without requiring me to adjust my body much. Though angled wands like the BMS PalmPower Extreme provide even better contact.
When using the Wanda mount, the Sultry rests upright, allowing me to press against it while kneeling. I find the Sultry’s rounded slim head especially effective in the Wanda. Since it’s slim, I get a bit more focused stimulation, and the subtle rounded shape is very comfortable.
I test all my wands with the Liberator Axis and Wanda mounts. The Dame Min works decently with both – better than most mini wands I’ve tested.
In the Axis, you can lie over the mount on your stomach, and the Min is held between your legs at a slightly upward angle.
The upward curve of the Min’s head helps provide more pressure than a straight wand of this size. But a larger head would stay in contact with your body more easily and provide better pressure.
The Wanda holds the Min upright while you straddle or sit on the mount for hands-free stimulation. The surface area to press against is small since the head is small, so you have to position yourself carefully, but it is doable.
If you’re using this with a partner penetrating from behind, you can achieve decent contact if you sink down low to reach the Min’s head.
A wand with a larger head typically provides better pressure and more even contact. So if you prioritize mount-use, I’d recommend the Magic Wand Plus. But the Min is great if you’re set on a mini wand.
Battery Life
The Viben Sultry is rechargeable and lasted just over 2 hours continuously running on its max power during our testing. This is above-average performance and will be plenty for most people.
The Dame Min lasted 105 minutes on high in our test, which is good. If you want something with an even longer battery life, the Magic Wand Mini lasted twice as long.
Build Quality
This wand feels solid and comfortable! The neck has some flex but doesn’t feel flimsy at all, so I’m not afraid to apply firm pressure. I love the silicone head and handle, which makes for a comfortable hold and feels luxurious.
The Dame Min feels luxurious and reasonably durable. The silicone body is smooth, and the flexible neck holds up well to pressure. The buttons feel fine in terms of physical quality, though they suffer from some responsiveness issues.
We did notice a slight rattling sound that developed on the lowest setting after performing our Battery Life Test, where we ran the wand continuously on high until it died. While the rattling is minor and doesn’t affect performance, it could be a sign of wear under prolonged or intensive use. We haven’t observe any decline in strength, so we still consider the Min to be fairly well-built overall, but it may not hold up quite as well over time as sturdier wands.