The Dame Com’s vibration power is relatively mild for a mid-sized wand, though it’s certainly much stronger than their bullet vibrator, the Dame Zee. The Com’s top strength is only slightly greater than mid-sized non-wand vibrators like the Lelo Mona 2 or Lovense Hyphy. But since the head is larger, the vibrations are more diffuse, which can make them feel even milder.

Starting at 1.1 out of 10 and gradually increasing through five levels up to 4.67 out of 10, the Dame Com is best for those sensitive to intense power or abrupt jumps between settings. This moderate stimulation offers an alternative for those who enjoy the broad, diffuse stimulation wands provide, but don’t enjoy the overwhelming power of other wands.

If you’d rather have extreme strength, consider the BMS PalmPower Extreme or Magic Wand Plus. For those content with the strength of their non-wand vibrators, the Dame Com is a great option.

The Romp Flip is one of my weakest wand vibrators. Its top strength is closer to the middle power levels of my best bullet vibrators. And all 6 intensity levels are so close together that they essentially feel the same.

The Romp Flip is only a good option for people who are very easily overstimulated.

But if you’re looking for power, like people considering wand vibrators usually are, you have a few options.

First – if you’re here because the Romp Flip is budget-friendly, you should check out the Romp Presto instead. This wand costs the same, but has more than 3x the vibration strength of the Romp Flip.

If you’ve got a bit more budget, you can find several wands under $100 (or less) that provide a more traditional wand vibrator feel.

If you prefer moderate power, the Magic Wand Mini or Dame Com are stronger than my non-wand vibrators (like G-spot vibes, rabbit vibrators, etc.). But they don’t have the extreme upper levels some wands reach. They’re great if you like some strength, but find too much power overwhelming.

And if you want those immense upper levels, the Magic Wand Plus is one of the strongest wand vibrators available, and it is the most powerful wand under $100.

Most people prefer rumbly vibrations, so we rate rumbly wands higher than buzzy wands.

The Dame Com delivers exceptionally rumbly vibrations at all power levels, staying below 60 Hz on high – a feat few wands accomplish. And it’s more rumbly than the Dame Pom (the brand’s palm vibrator that’s also designed for broad stimulation) and the Dame Min (the mini version of the Com).

The Dame Com’s deep, low-frequency vibrations help keep it from feeling overstimulating or numbing. Its rumbliness is part of what makes it great for those who like broad but milder stimulation.

If you’d rather have extremely rumbly vibrations with more power, also consider the Lovense Domi 2 or the Orion Grande Wand. But for an extremely rumbly mid-powered wand, the Dame Com is the best.

We rate wands with rumbly vibrations higher than wands with buzzy vibes. The frequency you enjoy is completely a personal preference… But most people prefer vibrations somewhere on the rumbly side of the spectrum, so we rate those higher.

The Romp Flip’s vibrations feel rumbly, but they are very weak.

Our rumbliness rating has two components. The first component considers what part of the frequency spectrum the wand’s power levels are in. All 6 of the Romp Flip’s power levels are in the low-frequency, extremely rumbly range.

But our second component takes into account how much power the wand has for its amount of rumbliness. And here the Romp Flip significantly underperforms. In other words, there are wands with a lot more power while remaining just as low-frequency (rumbly).

Most people will want one of these more powerful, rumbly wands.

For instance, the Dame Com’s frequencies range from 36 Hz (extremely rumbly) on low power to 56 Hz (extremely rumbly) on high power. This is nearly identical to the Romp Flip’s frequency range, but the Dame Com has about 3 times the vibration strength. It’s one of my favorite rumbly wand vibrators.

The Dame Com has a uniquely curved handle with a wave-like design, varying in thickness throughout. This shape helps me apply firmer pressure but can require adjustment depending on your personal grip preferences. I find its shape more awkward than helpful, though it’s not a huge deal.

I find gripping this wand close to the head most natural, but this causes vibrations in my hand, which can be distracting. Holding it farther away minimizes this effect, but you’ll need to experiment to find a comfy grip. The smooth silicone material feels luxurious and comfortable though.

The head is firmer than I typically prefer. But the slightly flexible neck keeps the pressure comfortable. And the semi-rigid design helps leverage the wand better.

The buttons are located near the base of the handle, which keeps them from interfering with my grip, but I do need to adjust my hold to press them. The controls are excellent with separate buttons to increase and decrease power, and a third to cycle through patterns. You can also change the intensity of the vibration patterns which many wands do not allow.

And the Dame Com is fully waterproof, so it’s really easy to clean.

While the Romp Flip isn’t uncomfortable, it’s not as easy to use as many of my wand vibrators.

It only has a one-button to control the vibrations. This means you’ll need to cycle through the vibration power levels – you cannot move up and down. The button is also positioned in a way that I need to shift my hand when I want to adjust the power.

And I just find it a little awkward to hold due to the tapering handle. The material is less grippy than I usually like, and the handle is surprisingly wide for how short the wand is. Overall it just makes it feel strange in my hand.

But the small head size and flexible neck help the Romp Flip feel comfortable against my body. However, since the neck is so flexible, it also diminishes the pressure you can apply. And since the vibes are weak, I need to press this wand firmly to my vulva.

If you like the size of the Romp Flip, the Romp Presto is more comfortable, easy to maneuver, and has better controls, at the same price.

If you’ve got a bit more budget, the Magic Wand Mini is another compact wand and one of my personal favorites. It has a better power range, good rumbliness, and is very comfy and easy to use.

The Dame Com is one of the easiest wands to use during sex. Its mid-sized head can still fit into fairly tight places, but still gives the broad stimulation of a larger wand. And I appreciate its handle shape more during sex. The curve helps leverage the wand for firm pressure, even in more limited space.

I don’t need to change my body positioning to fit its mid-sized head near my clit as I do with larger wands which sometimes require me to lean back in Cowgirl or angle my leg out while Spooning to create more space for the wand.

The handle’s length and curve also make finding the right angle in Doggystyle easy.

In Modified Missionary, I feel the vibrations in my hand more since I grip it close to the head – the groove between the handle and head is a useful finger-hold for support. But if you want to limit those vibrations, you can shift your grip lower.

Even though the Romp Flip is small, I don’t enjoy it during sex – mostly because it’s so weak.

A wand with this little power becomes an inconvenience during sex. I hardly notice the vibrations, so I’m stuck holding a wand with none of the benefits. And since the Flip’s neck is so flexible, the vibrations feel even less impactful without the ability to apply pressure.

Again – the Romp Presto is a more powerful, inexpensive wand that’s very easy to use during sex. It’s a better option if you need to stick in the Romp Flip’s price range.

But if you can increase your budget a bit, the Magic Wand Mini is only about $30 more and works extremely well during sex. It’s small in size to easily fit in tight spaces. It has a plush head to avoid uncomfortable pressure on your pubic bone. And it has power buttons that allow you to toggle up or down!

For a mid-powered wand, the Dame Com isn’t that quiet. Its decibel levels are low – however, it can make a louder rattling sound when it’s not pressed against your body making it more noticeable (you can hear this in the video above).

Because I’ve read reviews touting the Dame Com as the quietest wand vibrator, I actually bought a second Com to see if the rattling sound was just a fluke. But both wands made this sound when not pressed to my body.

During our testing, its lower levels were completely inaudible from the other side of a closed bedroom door, but my partner heard its middle and upper levels.

Turning on a box fan or playing music successfully masked the Dame Com’s noise on all power levels. So you can still use the Com if you live with others. You’ll just need to mask the noise with a fan.

But if low noise is a top priority, there are better alternatives like the We-Vibe Wand 2, which offers more power and remains inaudible at every level.

The Romp Flip is one of our quietest wands. But it’s so quiet because its vibrations are weak.

The Romp Presto has over 3x the power and is also very discreet. My partner can’t hear its vibrations from the other side of the bedroom door. And even some of the extremely powerful wands like the Viben Sultry remain inaudible behind a closed door.

The Dame Com has fair compatibility with wand attachments. Its head is mid-sized, so it’s not compatible with the majority of attachments designed for full-sized wands like the Magic Wand Rechargeable. But some attachments designed for other brands’ comparable wands also fit the Dame Com.

Lovense Domi’s attachments fit – offering penis, clit, G-spot, anal, and prostate stimulation. Attachments designed for the Le Wand Petite and PalmPower Extreme also fit the Dame Com. So you have some variety available, though your overall selection is more limited than full-sized wands.

See our wand attachment compatibility table for all the attachments we’ve tested for compatibility with our wands.

The Romp Flip has limited compatibility with attachments.

Its head is about the same size as the Lovense Domi 2. So both the Domi’s attachments fit the Romp Flip as well. These two attachments cover a decent range of stimulation (G-spot, prostate, anal, penis, and clitoral texture). But you have few options beyond that.
If you value a broad range of attachment compatibility, your best options are full-sized wands like the Magic Wand Rechargeable or Magic Wand Plus among others.

I test all my wands with the Liberator Axis and Wanda mounts, and the Dame Com is one of my favorite hands-free wands.

Using the Axis mount, I lie on my stomach, and the mount holds the wand slightly upward between my legs. The Com’s mid-sized head comfortably disperses the vibrations, but they’re still somewhat direct (which I need more when playing hands-free). The curved handle positions the head closer to my clit than straight wands, for better contact and firmer pressure.

Because its vibrations are extremely rumbly I can enjoy them longer before I orgasm, without feeling overstimulated. This makes the Dame Com and Axis Mount a great combo to use during sex.

This wand also does well with the Wanda mount. This mount holds the wand upright, and you can straddle the mount on your knees. Leaning forward or backward varies the pressure and gives you control over the stimulation. You can also sit directly on the mount and receive stimulation if you situate the wand deeper into the mount’s slot.

I test my wands with my two wand-compatible mounts from Liberator – the Axis and Wanda.

The Wanda is designed to be straddled. It holds the wand upright at a slight angle. You can sit on the mount and lean in for stimulation. Or you can bend over the top of it.

The Romp Flip fits pretty well in this mount. Though, the low power means it still provides minimal stimulation.

And unfortunately, it does not really work at all with the Axis mount.

The Axis is designed for you to lie across the mount on your stomach. It holds the wand out to the side at a slight upward angle between your legs. But the Romp Flip’s is too small and too weak for it. I don’t get any clit stimulation when it’s held in the Liberator Axis.

If mount use is important to you, it’s best to get a medium-sized wand. And you may have to increase your budget a bit.

One of my favorites to use with a mount is the Dame Com. This wand is a bit more expensive than the Romp Flip, but still below $100. It’s one of the most cost-effective wands that performs really well with mounts.

The Dame Come’s battery lasted 75 minutes continuously vibrating on high during our testing. This is near the average rechargeable wand performance and is likely enough for most people.

But if you tend to forget to charge your wand, there are longer-lasting options like the Magic Wand Mini (210 minutes).

The Romp lasts for about 75 minutes continuously running on high power. This is one of the shortest battery lives of the wands we’ve tested. And it’s especially short considering the Romp Flip’s soft vibrations don’t use as much power as stronger wands.

If you can spend about $30 more, the Magic Wand Mini lasts for 3.5 hours on high with substantial power!

The Dame Com has an entirely silicone body, which feels very high-quality and luxurious. The buttons feel well-made, and the plastic casing beneath the silicone feels solid and durable. I feel like I can apply very firm pressure without worrying about the neck breaking.

It’s not perfect though: the motor can rattle when the wand is held in open air. But it doesn’t happen when the wand’s in contact with your body.

This wand feels cheap. I’m currently on my second Romp Flip – the first one stopped vibrating within the first 5 months of testing it. And while I haven’t experienced issues with its replacement, this toy does not feel like it was made to last.

The plastic construction feels especially thin and delicate. And the extremely flexible neck feels flimsy. I’m worried it will break if you apply much pressure – I suspect this is why my first one stopped working.

At a comparable price, the Romp Presto is a much higher-quality wand.