The Bellesa Demi Wand has 8 power levels that are all very close together and low-powered. They’re not at all what I expect from a typical wand vibrator. Demi’s power range is much more comparable to the low and middle power levels of a small bullet vibrator.

And I actually find the Demi is less powerful than my favorite bullets like the Lovense Ambi and We-Vibe Tango X (which also outperform the Demi in other aspects). So even if you are only looking for bullet-level vibration strength, I would go with one of those instead.

While I can orgasm with the Bellesa Demi Wand, it’s much easier with one of my bullets.

And if you want the typical enormous power wand vibrators are famous for: the Magic Wand Plus is in this same price range and has 6x the strength of the Bellesa Demi!

The Lovehoney Mini Wand is one of my weakest wand vibrators. Its strength is more like a bullet vibrator than a typical wand, and it’s weaker than most of my bullets.

One aspect I enjoy is that it has 9 power levels in total. So I can start off very soft, and make small, incremental changes. It’s a nice warm-up toy. And even though its top level is much softer than other wands, I can still orgasm with it. 

But wands are known for their sheer power – so if that’s what you’re expecting from this wand, you’ll need to look elsewhere.

The cheaper Blush Noje W4 has more than 2x the vibration strength. And the comparably-priced Orion Your New Favorite Wand has over 3.75x the power!

And if you want the extreme power wands are famous for, you’ll need to increase your budget a bit. The Magic Wand Plus is the least expensive wand (under $100) with these ultra-powerful vibration levels.

We also test and rate how rumbly or buzzy each wand vibrator is.

We award wand vibrators with more rumbly vibrations a high score in this category since most people prefer rumbly vibrations. But some people prefer more neutral or even buzzy vibrations – so a low score in Vibration Frequency may not mean a wand is a bad choice for you.

In fact, some of my favorite vibrators (like the Lovense Hyphy) are very buzzy. So it really depends on what you enjoy!

The Bellesa Demi’s lowest three power levels are actually in the rumbly range. But since this wand is so low-powered, I mostly use the highest powers.

And the three strongest settings are definitely buzzy. Other small wands like the BMS Swan Era have much more powerful, rumbly settings.

Even if you enjoy more neutral or buzzy-feeling vibrators, I’d still recommend a higher-quality bullet like the Lovense Ambi which offers a nice mix of buzziness and rumbliness.

But if you’re like most people, and want something deep and rumbly – the Lovense Domi 2 and Dame Com are some of the best wand vibrators with extremely rumbly vibrations.

We rate wands with rumbly vibrations higher than wands with buzzy vibrations because most people prefer these low-frequency vibrations. But if your preferences lean more towards the buzzy side, the Lovehoney Deluxe Rechargeable Mini might actually be a good fit for you.

Since it’s a low-powered wand vibrator, you’ll likely spend most of your time using the middle and high power levels. And these are neutral to buzzy-feeling. 

I actually enjoy this wands buzziness from time to time. While I find powerful, buzzy vibrations overwhelming – I enjoy softer buzzy vibes like the Lovehoney Deluxe Mini’s occasionally.

But overall, most people prefer something stronger and more rumbly. The Blush Noje W4 and Magic Wand Mini are a better fit for most people since they’re a bit more rumbly.

I found the Bellesa Demi Wand to be one of the least comfortable and more difficult wands to use.

It’s certainly not painful – none of my wand vibrators are. It’s just designed poorly for comfortable, longer sessions.

It’s a very small wand, which means you have to reach farther to place the Demi in the right spot. Whereas mid-sized and larger wands have a nice handle you can gently hold with minimal reach.

But the Bellesa Demi Wand’s extremely flexible neck is the main reason this vibrator is difficult to use. I like to press my vibrators firmly against me – it helps push the vibes deeper! But when you apply pressure with the Demi Wand, its head just flexes away.

If you want to press the Demi with any force, you need to place your fingers on the head itself and push it against you.

You can’t simply use the handle to leverage the vibrator as you can with less flexible wands like the Dame Com. Or even rigid bullet vibrators like the Lovense Ambi and We-Vibe Tango X.

Because of the Lovehoney Mini’s small size and light weight, it’s very comfortable and easy to use. Maneuvering this wand and positioning its head exactly where you want the vibrations is simple.

I also like that the buttons let me adjust the strength easily. Rather than having one button to cycle through power levels, it has separate buttons to increase and decrease vibration strength. 

I do have some complaints though. I wish the head was completely smooth rather than textured/ribbed. These ribs create little edges that occasionally poke or pinch me uncomfortably. It’s rare, but I need to be more conscious of positioning this head than smooth wands like the Blush Noje W4 or Magic Wand Mini.

I also find how close together the buttons are mildly annoying. I occasionally press the button to switch patterns when I mean to increase the power. Then I have to cycle back through the patterns to return to a constant vibration.

The Magic Wand Mini’s buttons are farther apart and easier to feel. So I don’t find myself accidentally hitting the wrong button.

I do find the Demi Wand reasonably easy to use during sex.

The small head and compact size help it fit easily between my partner’s body and mine. I enjoy it decently in Cowgirl, Spooning, and Modified Missionary positions.

Doggystyle is the only position that using the Demi wand is just plain bad. Because it’s so small, you have to reach far to keep the head pressed to your clit – and in a position like Doggystyle where you’re also supporting your own body weight, reaching this far gets tiring.

And in every position, a major drawback is that you can’t get firm pressure because of the extremely flexible neck.

If you want a small wand with better pressure, the Blush Noje W4 is another mini wand that I enjoyed much more during sex. It’s easier to leverage, and it’s cheaper! Or you could go with a bullet like the Lovense Ambi.

If you have the budget, the BMS PalmPower Extreme has an angled head that provides incredible pressure and helps the wand fit well between bodies during sex – even with its larger size. It gets almost perfect scores in all 4 positions! And since it’s larger, it offers much more vibration power.

If you typically have sex in Doggystyle, I find medium-length or long wand vibrators are best. The Lovense Domi 2 is one of my favorites in this position!

The small size and light weight of this wand make it easy to maneuver into tight spaces during sex. But I never reach for this wand because its vibrations are too weak. 

The vibes are hardly noticeable when they’re competing with the additional stimulation I’m getting during penetration. I think most people will want something with more oomph. 

The Lovehoney Mini also has a really flexible neck, so I can’t press the vibes firmly into me as I enjoy during sex.

If using your wand with a partner is important to you, the Blush Noje W4 or VeDO Wini are better choices in this price range. It’s also small and easily maneuverable – but its vibrations are stronger and its neck is less flimsy.

Demi Lovato’s Bellesa wand is definitely very quiet.

It has one of the lowest decibel readings on both low and high power. And when my partner and I tested whether someone can hear it behind a closed door, the Demi wand remained inaudible on all power levels.

But the main reason it’s so quiet is that the Demi is very low-powered. If you want something stronger that remains discreet, the Magic Wand Rechargeable or Lelo Smart Wand 2 Large are both only audible behind a closed door on the highest power level. And each has the substantial vibration power people associate with wands.

Note: The sound levels recorded in the video and measurements above were taken before the rattling sound developed which we discuss under Build Quality. For a listen into the wand’s sound now, see the video here.

The Lovehoney Deluxe Rechargeable Mini wand is definitely quiet. But it’s quiet because the vibrations are weak.

There are many wands with much greater power that remain discreet. For instance, the Viben Sultry has more than 4 times the Lovehoney Mini’s power. And it’s still inaudible on the other side of a closed door at every power level.

The Bellesa Demi is compatible with very few attachments. Of the more than 25 wand attachments we own, it’s only compatible with Lovehoney’s Queen G (a G-spot attachment designed for the Lovehoney Deluxe Mini Massage Wand)

Most attachments are designed for full-sized wands like the Magic Wand Rechargeable (among others). While most attachments fit a range of wands, very few are designed to fit tiny heads like the Bellesa Demi’s. If you value attachment compatibility, consider the Magic Wand Plus or Rechargeable.

Because the Lovehoney Mini is so small, it has very little compatibility with wand attachments.

Lovehoney designed a G-spot attachment (the Queen G) specifically for this wand. But none of my other wand attachments fit the Lovehoney Mini’s small head.

We test our wands with the Liberator’s wand mounts – the Axis and Wanda. These mounts are designed to hold your wand vibrator so you can enjoy hands-free clit stimulation.

Unfortunately, the Demi wand is too small for either mount. As with wand attachments, wand mounts are designed for mid to full-sized wand vibrators.

If you value hands-free play – the BMS PalmPower Extreme and Dame Com are my favorites to use with both wand mounts. They have an angled head or a curved handle, which helps them provide better pressure and clitoral contact when held in the Liberator Axis mount. And more angles to try in the Wanda mount.

I test my wands the Liberator Axis and Wanda – wand mounts for hands-free play. Unfortunately, the Lovehoney Deluxe Mini is too small for both of them.

It completely falls into the Liberator Wanda mount. And though its head sticks out past the Axis’ opening, its not far enough to provide any useful clit stimulation.

If hands-free play with mounts is important to you, go with something larger. The Dame Com is one of my favorites to use with wand mounts. Its a great size and the curved shape keeps its head in excellent contact with my clit. Or for something slightly more budget-friendly, the FemmeFunn Ultra Wand works fairly well with mounts too.

The Bellesa Demi wand has a pretty short battery life. I test all my wands’ battery life by charging them fully – then letting them run on high power until they die.

The Demi Wand lasted only 55 minutes. And since it’s pretty low-powered, most people will be cranking it on high the whole time – so there’s not much room to extend the battery life by mixing in lower strengths.
If you value longer play sessions the Lovense Domi will give you at least two hours of play. Or the Magic Wand Rechargeable lasts over 4 hours!

The Lovehoney Deluxe Rechargeable Mini has below average battery life compared to other wand vibrators. 

It lasts for around 95 minutes continuously vibrating on high power. This is enough for most people, but you can find more powerful wands that last longer. For example, the Magic Wand Mini lasts 3.5 hours on high power. And it’s nearly 3x stronger than the Lovehoney Deluxe Mini!

The silicone on my Demi Wand has a nice texture and feels high-quality.  I’ve not had any issues with it breaking, though the neck is very flexible, and I am a little suspicious that it won’t have the longest life. Because it has very weak vibrations, you’ll likely be pressing and bending this wand very hard, so it has to take some wear and tear.

The Lovehoney Deluxe Rechargeable Mini’s plastic is very lightweight to the point of feeling cheap. Although the neck is extremely flexible, it still feels reasonably strong. But the weak, buzzy motor feels poor quality and has developed a bit of a rattling sound the more we’ve used it. The vibration power occasionally wavers, especially on the low settings.