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Dame Pom Review

Tested & Rated with Methodology v1.0

Overall Score

7.5

What is it:

How generally good the mini or bullet vibrator is. It’s a weighted average of the vibrator’s performance in these areas.

Scoring Factors:

7.3

18%

Power Range

6.6

17%

7.0

15%

7.2

13%

9.0

10%

9.0

10%

7.0

8%

Build Quality

7.3

8%

10.0

1%

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Performance Ratings

MAX VIBRATION POWER
6.6
POWER RANGE
7.3
RUMBLINESS
7.2
COMFORT & EASE OF USE
7.0
USE DURING SEX
9.0
NOISE
9.0
BUILD QUALITY
7.0
BATTERY LIFE
7.3
CLEANING
10.0

Our Verdict

The Dame Pom has a unique, exceptionally broad design that’s extremely flexible, fits nicely in your palm, and comfortably spreads the stimulation across your entire vulva. Like most Dame vibrators, its vibration power ranges from gentle to mid-intensity – so it’s best for those who prefer mild vibrations or are prone to overstimulation. But the vibrations are deep and rumbly, so they pack a nice impact without being overstimulating.

If you want a mild, compact toy that comfortably stimulates your entire vulva, the Dame Pom is a great mini vibrator. If you prefer more intense vibrations and don’t need the stimulation to be quite as broad, consider the We-Vibe Touch X in the same price range.

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Pros

  • Provides exceptionally broad stimulation in a compact design (a pro if you prefer broad pressure)
  • Bendy, plush core makes this very comfortable against your body
  • Deep, rumbly vibrations with gentle to moderate power is great for those who need mild vibrations or are overstimulated by intense or buzzy vibes.

Cons

  • No high-strength vibrations
  • Only gentle-to-moderate, rumbly vibrations; Not strong and rumbly
  • Difficult to use for those who prefer to leverage their vibrators and apply firm pressure
  • Buttons have some responsiveness issues and can also be accidentally triggered when the Pom flexes

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Dame Pom with other bullet and mini vibrators in background

The Dame Pom is a luxury mini vibrator from Dame – a brand known for their rumbly but relatively mild vibrations (especially helpful if you’re overstimulated by intensity). 

Dame Pom with Dame Com Head
The Dame Pom (left) provides broader stimulation like the Dame Com wand (right) with a smaller overall size


The Pom provides rumbly, broad stimulation like a large wand vibrator would (such as the Dame Com). But it does so in a compact size and without the extreme intensity of a big wand vibrator, which some people find overstimulating. The Pom competes with other rumbly palm vibrators like the We-Vibe Touch X.

This flexible mini-vibrator has 5 intensity levels and 4 vibration patterns. It’s made of soft, squishy silicone that’s especially comfortable. It’s IPX7 waterproof, so you can completely submerge it. It uses a magnetic USB charging cable and comes with a blue storage bag.

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The Dame Pom can be a good mini vibrator for people who enjoy broad stimulation like wand vibrators provide, but prefer a smaller size and milder vibrations. It competes with other broad mini vibrators like the We-Vibe Touch X, the Fun Factory Laya III, the Magic Wand Micro, and the Maude Drop.

I think most people will prefer the We-Vibe Touch X or Fun Factory Laya III in the same price range, since they have a better power range and are just as rumbly. But some people will enjoy the Dame Pom’s wide, flat, flexible shape that fits conveniently in the palm of your hand. It can be very comfortable while broadly stimulating your whole vulva. The Touch X and Laya III aren’t quite as wide if that’s a big priority for you.

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Vibrations: Power And Range


Max Power Rating

6.6

What is it:

How strong the highest power level feels compared to other bullet and mini vibrators.

When does it matter:

If you need intense vibrations to orgasm or you just enjoy powerful vibrations.

Scoring Factors:

Subjectively Scored

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Power Range Rating:

7.3

What is it:

How wide the range is between the highest and lowest power levels, and whether it has enough power levels that steps between settings are comfortable.

When does it matter:

A broad power range with many intensity levels is always more versatile. You can warm up with softer levels when your body isn’t ready for intense vibrations. But when you want more strength, you can turn it up high. A broad power range is also more likely to include settings at your ideal strength.

Scoring Factors:

7.3

100%

Adjusted Power Range Width

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Power vs Frequency Graph:

What is it:

A graph of each bullet and mini vibrator’s power vs frequency across all of its power levels. 

When does it matter:

If you want a detailed look at the vibrator’s full power and frequency characteristics. This tells you how strong and how rumbly each setting feels. You can also compare two vibrators on the same graph using our graph comparison tool here.

How Strong Is Each Power? (Click to Expand Definitions)

  • Power < 2.7: Too weak for me to orgasm, but great while warming up.
  • Power between 2.7 and 6.0: Strong enough for me to orgasm, but takes some effort. Good while warming up.
  • Power between 6.0 and 9.0: I orgasm effortlessly and reliably. These are the settings I typically finish with.
  • Power ≥ 9.0: Extreme power. Way more than I need to orgasm – I rarely use these.

The Dame Pom has a decent power range that begins very soft (1.25 out of 10) and reaches a medium intensity (5.0 out of 10) on high power. 

The Pom’s gentle-to-average strength is great if you’re prone to overstimulation or just prefer moderate intensity. And with its 5 power levels, you can climb through its power range slowly and comfortably. But it may not be enough if you prefer finishing with very intense stimulation. 

Dame Pom and We-Vibe Touch X
The Dame Pom (left) with a stronger alternative that still provides broad stimulation, the We-Vibe Touch X (right)

If you prefer powerful vibrations, I’d consider the We-Vibe Touch X or Fun Factory Laya III in the Dame Pom’s price range. They both begin as gently as the Dame Pom but finish with stronger vibrations (7.75 out of 10), which is plenty for most people.

I still enjoy the Dame Pom’s milder vibrations. I can orgasm with them, but I definitely need to use the highest setting to get there. It’s a slower process since everything is gentler, but drawing the experience out by edging for a while can be fun and lead to a stronger orgasm eventually.

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Vibrations: Frequency (Rumbliness)


Rumbliness Rating:

7.2

What is it:

How “rumbly” (low frequency) or “buzzy” (high frequency) the vibrator feels. And whether it delivers strong vibrations while remaining reasonably rumbly. Higher scores indicate a “more rumbly” (lower-frequency) bullet or mini vibrator, since the majority of people prefer rumbliness. But ultimately vibration frequency is a personal preference.

When does it matter:

If you prefer vibrations in a specific area along the rumbly-to-buzzy spectrum. Rumbly vibrations spread out more and you feel them deeper. Whereas you feel buzzy vibrations nearer to the surface and more concentrated around the point of contact. Both can feel good, and which you enjoy more is a personal preference.

Scoring Factors:

8.6

50%

Median Vibration Frequency

5.9

50%

Power and Frequency Balance

0%

Power vs Frequency Graphs

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Power vs Frequency Graph:

What is it:

A graph of each bullet and mini vibrator’s power vs frequency across all of its power levels. 

When does it matter:

If you want a detailed look at the vibrator’s full power and frequency characteristics. This tells you how strong and how rumbly each setting feels. You can also compare two vibrators on the same graph using our graph comparison tool here.

Frequency on Low Power:

47 Hz

(Extremely Rumbly)

Median Frequency:

64 Hz

(Moderately Rumbly)

What is it:

What part of the frequency spectrum the vibrator’s power levels are centered around. It’s the vibration frequency of the middle power level (the average of the two middle levels if there is an even number of settings).

When does it matter:

If you prefer vibrations in a particular part of the rumbly-to-buzzy spectrum. This provides a quick way to see whether one vibrator’s settings are generally more rumbly or buzzy than another vibrator’s. Since most people prefer rumbly toys, we give higher scores to lower-frequency (more rumbly) vibrators. But ultimately, it’s a personal preference.

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Frequency on High Power:

84 Hz

(Neutral)

Rumbliness & Power Balance:

5.9

What is it:

A measure that rewards bullet and mini vibrators that remain rumbly (low-frequency) while packing good vibration strength. In other words, a bullet vibrator that is strong, but buzzy will perform poorly in this metric. Likewise, a bullet vibrator that is rumbly, but weak will also perform poorly. Only bullet and mini vibrators with strong, rumbly vibrations will have a high rating here. Calculated using the average normalized power / normalized frequency of the vibrator’s settings, with a derating factor applied to buzzy settings. 

When does it matter:

If you want a bullet or mini vibrator with a good balance of power and rumbliness.

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We rate rumbly vibrations higher than buzzy ones because it’s what most people prefer.

The Dame Pom has decent rumbliness, with its 5 power levels ranging from extremely rumbly on low to neutral on high. It never becomes buzzy, which many people find overstimulating or numbing. Its low-frequency vibrations and moderate power make it a good option if you prefer milder stimulation. 

If you prefer low-frequency, rumbly vibrations but enjoy more power, there are better options than the Dame Pom. For instance, the We-Vibe Tango X and We-Vibe Touch X have similarly low-frequency (rumbly) vibrations but more strength on those rumbly settings. Or rumbly wand vibrators like the Lovense Domi 2 pack extreme intensity while remaining rumbly. 

Dame Pom with Stronger Rumbly We-Vibe Tango X and We-Vibe Touch X and Lovense Domi 2
The Dame Pom (left) with stronger, rumbly alternatives. From left to right, the We-Vibe Tango X, We-Vibe Touch X and Lovense Domi 2


Which is better for you depends on whether you prefer rumbly, mild vibrations or rumbly, intense vibrations.

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Stimulation Precision


Stimulation Precision

What is it:

How focused or broad the stimulation feels compared to other mini and bullet vibrators.

When does it matter:

If you prefer stimulation focused in a small, precise area or enjoy it spread out over more of your vulva. It’s a personal preference.

Dame Pom Typical Tip Width Photo

Precision:

Broad

Head or Tip Width:

1.61 inches

What is it:

The width of the vibrator’s head or tip measured at the part of the vibrator in contact with my body during normal use. For most bullet vibrators, it’s the width of the toy right before it begins to taper. For uniquely-shaped mini vibrators it’s a subjective location I determine based on my experience using the vibrator.

When does it matter:

If you enjoy broader stimulation you’ll will want a greater tip width. If you prefer precise stimulation, you’ll want a narrower tip width. 

Tip Shape:

Wide

What is it:

The shape of the bullet or mini vibrator’s tip.

When it matters:

The tip’s shape affects how broad or precise the stimulation feels. And it affects how much you can vary the stimulation. Lipstick-shaped and tapered vibrators provide very focused stimulation when using the tip or moderate precision when using the side of the toy. Rounded heads stay in that moderate range of precision. And others can be broader.

The Dame Pom’s wide, flexible shape primarily provides broad stimulation. It spreads comfortably along your vulva and vibrates the entire area.

Squishy Material of Dame Pom
The Dame Pom is very flexible and provides broad stimulation”

Using the Dame Pom’s ridged tip, you can also focus the stimulation more. But resting the Pom over the entire area for broad stimulation is easiest. A bullet-shaped toy like the We-Vibe Tango X is better if you prefer precise stimulation. 

Dame Pom and We-Vibe Tango X
Thinner bullets like the We-Vibe Tango X (left) are better for precise stimulation

The Pom’s flexible shape and squishy texture help its broad stimulation feel especially comfortable. It feels like the Pom is spreading out to fill every nook and cranny. 

The flexible core also gives you more control over exactly where you apply pressure. You can palm this whole toy and use your fingers to press the vibrations exactly where you want them. Since the Pom is not rigid, the pressure isn’t an “all or nothing” deal – you can choose which areas you want to feel that firm pressure.

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Comfort & Ease of Use


Comfort & Ease of Use Rating:

7.0

What is it:

How comfortable the bullet or mini vibrator is to hold and press against your body. As well as how easy it is to press the buttons, leverage the vibrator for good pressure, and maneuver it to apply the stimulation where and how you want it. 

When does it matter:

If you are easily distracted by subtle discomforts such as feeling the vibrations in your hand, an awkward grip on the handle, or clicking buttons repeatedly to reach your preferred setting.

Scoring Factors:

9.0

40%

Grip Comfort

6.0

40%

Controls Ease of Use

5.0

20%

Easy Leverage & Pressure

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Dame Pom Comfort and Ease of Use Photo

Grip Comfort:

9.0

What is it:

How comfortable the bullet vibrator or mini vibrator is to grip and hold during typical use. I consider aspects such as whether I feel the vibrations much in my hand, whether the handle is long enough to grip comfortably, whether the shape feels good or awkward in my hand, etc. 

When does it matter:

If you need an especially comfortable grip to minimize distractions.

Scoring Factors:

Subjectively Scored

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Controls:

6.0

What is it:

Whether the controls are simple, easy to use, helpful, and provide all the important functionality or whether they’re distracting, unresponsive, difficult to use, etc.

When does it matter:

If you switch power levels or vibration patterns frequently during your normal use. 

Scoring Factors:

Subjectively Scored

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Easy Leverage & Pressure:

5.0

What is it:

How easily you can leverage the bullet or mini vibrator to vary the pressure.

When does it matter:

If you typically press your vibrators firmly against your body. 

Scoring Factors:

Subjectively Scored

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The shape and texture of the Dame Pom make it extremely comfortable on your body, but applying pressure is challenging. 

The plush, flexible core easily contours to your body with a gentle, pillowy feel. The flexibility and broad, contoured shape make for a snug fit that spreads the pressure and vibrations comfortably along your whole vulva. 

Flexibility of Dame Pom
The flexibility means the Pom is best for gentle or medium pressure rather than firm

The extreme flexibility limits the pressure you can apply though. So it’s best for those who enjoy gentle or medium pressure, broadly spread across your vulva – not those who like to firmly press the vibrator into a particular spot. Any pressure comes from pushing the back of the Pom with your fingers – not like a toy with a handle that you can leverage with your hand or arm for a ton of pressure. 

Pressing the Dame Pom Power Button
The Dame Pom’s buttons are very squishy and can be accidentally pressed when palming the toy

The Magic Wand Micro is cheaper and has a similar level of plushness in the head, but has a solid handle, so it’s easier to apply firm pressure. But the Magic Wand Micro’s power range is more limited.

I had to get used to the Dame Pom’s buttons. Since the palm vibrator is very squishy, the controls are easy to press accidentally. Sometimes, when I flex the Pom, the bending motion automatically clicks the increase power button. So there’s a minor learning curve to prevent this from happening.

Dame Pom Buttons with Instructions
How to use the buttons on the Dame Pom

I enjoy that the Dame Pom has separate buttons to increase and decrease power, or move through vibration patterns. So you can quickly reach your desired setting. You can also hold down the buttons to steadily change power for a more gradual build (rather than stepping up or down through the 5 preset power levels). So once you get used to the buttons, they provide excellent control.

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Use During Sex


Use During Sex Rating:

9.0

What is it:

How easy the bullet vibrator or mini vibrator is to use for clit stimulation during partnered sex. When rating the vibrator I consider aspects such as whether the vibrator has a handle that’s comfortable to grip and keeps my hand out of the way during sex, whether I can easily angle the vibrator and fit it between our bodies, whether using the vibrator during sex interferes with me or my partner, etc.

When does it matter:

If you’ll frequently use your wand vibrator with a partner during penetrative sex.

Scoring Factors:

10.0

50%

Spooning

8.0

50%

Missionary

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Dame Pom Maneuverability in a Tight Space Photo

Spooning:

10.0

What is it:

How easy the bullet or mini vibrator is to use for clit stimulation during sex in positions where you’re not facing your partner (so you have more space available). We used each vibrator specifically in the Spooning position (lying on our sides with my partner penetrating from behind), but this rating applies to a wide range of sex positions where space is not limited.

When does it matter:

If you frequently have sex in the spooning position or similar positions from behind.

Scoring Factors:

Subjectively Scored

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Missionary:

8.0

What is it:

How easy the bullet or mini vibrator is to use for clit stimulation during sex in face-to-face sex positions where space is limited. We used each vibrator specifically in the Missionary position, but this rating applies to a wide range of sex positions where space is tight.

When does it matter:

If you frequently have sex in positions facing each other where space is more limited.

Scoring Factors:

Subjectively Scored

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The Dame Pom works really well during sex as long as you prefer milder, rumbly stimulation. The tip covers a comfortable area, and you don’t have to worry about precisely positioning it in the “exact right spot” since it broadly covers your whole clit and upper vulva.

The stimulation is lovely, and I’m able to keep good contact with my clit during sex. Since the tip is flexible, it moves with my body during sex to stay in contact. 

It’s easiest to situate the Dame Pom in positions where you’re not facing your partner and have lots of space for your hand and the toy since both will need to be between your legs. But even in Missionary position, it still works well since the shape is so flat, and your fingers rest flatly along the back of the toy. So together, your hand and the Pom are not too thick that they take up that much space – it just takes a little more intentionality in face-to-face positions.

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Noise


Noise Rating:

9.0

What is it:

How loud the bullet or mini vibrator is. We measure the decibels on low and high power with a sound level meter. We also test whether we can hear each vibrator from behind our closed bedroom door.

When does it matter:

When you live with other people or are distracted by sound.

Scoring Factors:

8.0

50%

Audibility Behind a Closed Door

10.0

30%

Decibels on High Power

10.0

20%

Decibels on Low Power

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Audibility Behind Closed Door:

8.0

What is it:

Whether my partner could hear me using the bullet or mini vibrator inside the bedroom while he stood on the other side of our closed bedroom door. We tested each vibrator on low, middle, and high power levels with the house completely silent. Then we tested each vibrator’s highest power with a box fan turned on in the bedroom. Lastly, we tested the highest power with music playing in the bedroom at a normal listening volume.

When does it matter:

When you live with other people and want to select a bullet vibrator or mini vibrator you can use confidently without them hearing.

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Decibels on High Power:

35 dB

What is it:

How loud the bullet or mini vibrator’s highest power level is, measured in dB with a sound level meter approximately 12 inches away

When does it matter:

If you typically use your vibrator’s highest power levels or want the freedom to use the full power range without worry. 

Good Sound Level:

<42 dB is excellent; Nearly everything under this value was inaudible behind a closed door.

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Decibels on Low Power:

35 dB

What is it:

How loud the bullet or mini vibrator’s lowest power level is, measured in dB with a sound level meter approximately 12 inches away

When does it matter:

If you typically use your vibrator’s softer settings.

Good Sound Level:

<42 dB is excellent; Nearly everything under this value was inaudible behind a closed door.

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Low Power:

Inaudible

Middle Power:

Inaudible

High Power:

Audible

High Power with Box Fan:

Inaudible

High Power with Music:

Inaudible

The Dame Pom is very quiet for the most part, and it’s unlikely any housemates will hear you using it. 

However, it can make an occasional rattling sound on its highest power. We test every mini vibrator to see whether someone may hear it on the other side of a closed door. My partner listens as I use the vibrator in the bedroom, and he notes whether he can hear it. My partner could only hear the Dame Pom when I used it at its maximum power and only when it made a rattling sound. 

This was his note in our testing spreadsheet: “Even with this occasional rattle, I still have to try hard to hear it. It’s unlikely someone would actually notice it during ordinary use.”

I can also prevent the Pom from rattling by adjusting my grip to keep it in better contact with my body. If you’d rather play it safe, simply turning on a box fan or playing music in the bedroom makes the Dame Pom completely inaudible behind a closed door. Or you could try an exceptionally discreet vibrator like the We-Vibe Touch X if you’re very concerned about noise.

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Battery Life


Battery Life Rating:

7.3

What is it:

How long the bullet vibrator or mini vibrator lasted continuously running on its highest power before its battery died during our test.

When does it matter:

If you want to play for long periods of time between charges.

Scoring Factors:

7.3

100%

Battery Life on High Power

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Dame Pom Charging Cable Photo

Battery Life on High Power:

85 minutes

Power Source:

Rechargeable

Charging Cable:

Magnetic

The Dame Pom is rechargeable and has a decent battery life, lasting 85 minutes on high power. This should be plenty for most people, but you’ll want to charge between every couple of uses depending on how long you run it.

A full charge takes 2 hours using its magnetic USB charging cable.

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Build Quality


Build Quality Rating:

7.0

What is it:

Our perception of the bullet or mini vibrator’s durability and material quality; whether it feels cheap or sturdy and long-lasting. If we noticed any decline in a vibrator’s performance over our months of testing, it is accounted for in its Build Quality rating.

When does it matter:

When you want a vibrator to last for years. Many vibrator manufacturers provide a warranty (usually 1 to 2 years), but a higher quality vibrator is more likely to endure after your warranty is expired.

Scoring Factors:

Subjectively Scored

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Dame Pom Build Quality Photo

The Dame Pom’s build quality is okay. It has many qualities that make it feel luxurious, like its comfortably plush, silky silicone exterior. And its contoured shape that fits naturally in your palm, or its completely waterproof design. 

Dame Pom Grip with Accidental Button Press
Flexing the Pom in this way often accidentally causes a button press when I do not want it

But the extremely flexible structure also causes it to feel cheap in some ways – for instance, when the Dame Pom flexes, the flexing motion often presses one of the buttons accidentally. And it almost feels precariously held together inside, as though too much flexing could damage it – although I’ve had no issues with it wearing out or breaking.

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Cleaning


Cleaning Rating

10.0

What is it:

How easy the bullet or mini vibrator is to clean. Vibrators with an IPX6 (water-resistant) or IPX7 (waterproof) rating are super easy to clean under a running sink. For vibrators without a waterproof rating, I subjectively rate how difficult it is to clean.

When does it matter:

If you’re worried about damaging your toy with water. Or if you won’t use your vibrator as much if cleaning is tedious.

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Dame Pom Waterproof Rating Demonstration

Waterproof Rating:

IPX7

What is it:

The bullet or mini vibrator’s waterproof rating – IPX7, IPX6, or No Rating

When does it matter:

When you plan to use your vibrator in the shower, bath, or want simpler cleaning.

  • IPX7 (Submersible): Vibrators with this rating are “waterproof.” You can submerge them in water up to a meter deep for up to 30 minutes. So you can use them in the bath and cleaning is easy.
  • IPX6 (Water Resistant): Vibrators with this rating can resist high-pressure, heavy sprays of water, but should not be fully submerged. This means you can use them in the shower (but not submerged in a bath). You can also clean them under a sink faucet without worry.
  • No Rating: These vibrators do not have a waterproof rating. You should not use them in the shower, and you must be careful to keep water away from electronic components when cleaning them.

The Dame Pom is extremely easy to clean because it’s 100% waterproof. So you can completely submerge the Pom as you scrub with soapy water. You can also use it worry-free in the shower or bathtub.

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General Design and Specs


Size and Weight

Dame Pom Vibrator Length Measurement with Calipers Photo

Length:

3.2 inches

What is it:

How long the bullet or mini vibrator is, measured from the base to the tip.

When does it matter:

In general, longer mini and bullet vibrators are easier to hold, maneuver, and leverage. These types of vibrators are smaller than most, so some additional length can provide a more comfortable grip.

Dame Pom Typical Tip Width Photo

Head or Tip Width:

1.61 inches

What is it:

The width of the vibrator’s head or tip measured at the part of the vibrator in contact with my body during normal use. For most bullet vibrators, it’s the width of the toy right before it begins to taper. For uniquely-shaped mini vibrators it’s a subjective location I determine based on my experience using the vibrator.

When does it matter:

If you enjoy broader stimulation you’ll will want a greater tip width. If you prefer precise stimulation, you’ll want a narrower tip width. 

Dame Pom Weight Measured on a Scale Photo

Weight:

2.7 ounces

What is it:

How heavy the bullet vibrator or mini vibrator is, measured with a digital scale. 

When does it matter:

The weight of a bullet or mini vibrator is not that important, because they’re all relatively light (around 0.6 to 5.0 ounces). They’re not heavy like wand vibrators which can weigh up to 25 ounces and can be difficult to maneuver. A slightly heavier bullet or mini vibrator can feel sturdier, more durable, and higher quality.

Design Features

Dame Pom Vibrator Shape Photo

Vibrator Shape:

Palm

What is it:

The general shape of the mini or bullet vibrator.

When it matters:

Most bullet vibrators have a basic, straight design. Angled bullet vibrators can be easier to leverage and apply pressure. An angled shape can also help a bullet vibrator fit more easily between bodies during sex. We use the word “palm” to refer to mini vibrators designed to fit in the palm of your hand. Palm vibrators generally provide broader stimulation than bullet vibrators.

Dame Pom Tip Shape Photo

Head or Tip Shape:

Wide

What is it:

The shape of the bullet or mini vibrator’s tip.

When it matters:

The tip’s shape affects how broad or precise the stimulation feels. And it affects how much you can vary the stimulation. Lipstick-shaped and tapered vibrators provide very focused stimulation when using the tip or moderate precision when using the side of the toy. Rounded heads stay in that moderate range of precision. And others can be broader.

Head or Tip Firmness

Plush

What is it:

Whether the vibrator’s tip is firm or plush.

Dame Pom Rigidity and Flexibility Photo
Dame Pom Rigidity and Flexibility Photo 2

Flexibility:

Extremely Flexible

What is it:

How flexible or rigid the mini or bullet vibrator is.

When does it matter:

It’s generally a personal preference. A slightly flexible vibrator can be more comfortable to use, especially if the vibrator is very firm. However, too much flexibility makes it harder to apply substantial pressure since the vibrator’s tip can flex away. 

Materials:

Silicone

What is it:

The material of the mini or bullet vibrator’s body and handle.

When it matters:

Only non-porous materials (including ABS plastic, silicone, some metals, and some other materials) are body-safe since they can be fully sanitized. Every bullet and mini vibrator we review is made using body-safe materials. The choice between different safe materials is a personal preference. Some people enjoy how smooth ABS Plastic feels. Others find silicone feels higher-quality to them. Or the additional weight and shine of a metal vibrator can make it feel luxurious. 

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Review Results


The Dame Pom is best for those who enjoy broad stimulation and gentle-to-moderate intensity. The Dame Pom comfortably spreads the vibrations over your whole vulva, like a large wand vibrator does. But it takes up far less space, fits comfortably in your palm, and provides more moderate stimulation, which many people prefer over the extreme intensity of large wand vibrators.

Dame Pom in Box
Dame Pom in its box

The Dame Pom’s rumbly vibrations feel lovely, and it’s an excellent choice for many people. If you prefer more intense vibrations, consider the alternatives below.


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We-Vibe Touch X

The We-Vibe Touch X is better than the Dame Pom if you want stronger vibrations and easier leverage. The Touch X is another mini vibrator for broad stimulation, although not quite as wide as the Pom. But the Touch X’s core is firm and longer, so it’s easier to leverage for pressure.

Dame Pom and We-Vibe Touch X

The Touch X has a greater power range than the Dame Pom. It also begins whisper-soft, but ultimately finishes with more power at 7.75 out of 10 vibration strength. Like the Dame Pom, the We-Vibe Touch X‘s vibrations are deep and rumbly. The Touch X is also quieter than the Dame Pom. They cost about the same. 

If you don’t need exceptionally broad stimulation, most people will prefer the We-Vibe Touch X for its improved power range.

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Lovense Domi 2

The Lovense Domi 2 is better than the Dame Pom if you enjoy rumbly vibrations with extreme power. The Domi is a wand vibrator, so it’s much larger than the Dame Pom. As a result, its motor is much more powerful (wand vibrators are the strongest type of vibrator).

The Domi 2 takes up more room, but it’s also easier to leverage since it has a long handle.

Dame Pom and Lovense Domi 2

The wand’s head covers a similarly broad surface area as the Pom, but it doesn’t contour to the body as the Pom does since it’s not flexible. But if you prioritize rumbliness and vibration strength, this is a better choice at the same price. It also comes with a free app for in-depth control of the toy. Or you can provide long-distance control to a partner anywhere in the world!

Note: We tested the Lovense Domi 2 with other wand vibrators. Whereas we tested the Dame Pom with other mini vibrators. So, numerical scores between the 2 reviews are not directly comparable since we evaluated them against different product types. For instance, a 7.5 vibration power in our wand vibrator reviews is much stronger than a 7.5 in our mini vibrator reviews.  

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Magic Wand Micro

The Magic Wand Micro is a cheaper mini vibrator than the Dame Pom that is also made using plush silicone. It has a squishy, comfortable head. But the Magic Wand Micro’s handle is solid plastic, so leveraging the Micro to apply firm pressure is easier.

Dame Pom with Magic Wand Micro

Its power range is more limited than the Dame Pom’s, with only moderately intense settings – nothing very gentle or very intense. But it also has lovely rumbliness, and it’s about $30 cheaper, so it can be a nice alternative if you are okay with the more limited power range.

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Je Joue Amour

The Je Joue Amour is better than the Dame Pom if you want a broad mini vibrator on a tight budget. The Amour is about $30 cheaper, has a wider power range with an even stronger top strength, and covers a similarly broad surface area.

Dame Pom and Je Joue Amour

It’s more versatile than the Pom because it uses a flutter tip, which is great for broad coverage with a little extra unique stimulation. You can use the flutter tip for a flicking sensation, or you can press the firm core of the Amour against you if you prefer that harder pressure. This one has excellent controls, without the accidental clicks the Dame Pom experiences.

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Review Updates

  • May 14, 2024: We tested the Fun Factory Laya III and Magic Wand Micro and added relevant comparisons in this review.
  • April 15, 2024: Review Published.

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