The Dame Zee’s power is incredibly weak – reaching only a 2.7 out of 10 on its top strength. It’s the weakest bullet vibrator I’ve tried that I can just barely orgasm with. But while I can orgasm using the Dame Zee, it takes time and effort. There are plenty of comparably-priced bullets that make it easier!

The Zee has 3 power levels, with the lowest starting at only a .25 out of 10. So the first level is hardly a whisper against my clit. Even if you’re looking for a gentle toy to limit overstimulation, I’d still recommend one that gives you the option to go stronger.

For instance, the Je Joue Classic Bullet and Pillow Talk Flirty both have soft, lower powers (under 2 out of 10 intensity). But their upper levels are stronger than the Dame Zee’s, giving you a better range to enjoy.

Or if you prefer high intensity, the Blush Limited Addiction and Nasstoys Intense Travel Vibe Mini are two powerful bullets for about the same price as the Zee.

The Le Wand Grand has a gentle to moderate power range lacking intense levels. The lowest power starts at 2 out of 10 vibration strength, and the highest reaches 5 out of 10. With 4 power levels, the steps between settings are comfortably gradual. This is a nice option for those who prefer milder stimulation but will not satisfy those looking for intensity.

The top strength is enough for me to orgasm with, but it takes some time and effort. Bullets with strengths that reach at least a 6 out of 10 are better if you want an effortless experience. And at this price level, there are plenty of alternatives.

The We-Vibe Touch X is one of my favorite luxury options, and it has an even gentler starting setting while packing more power on high – reaching a 7.75 out of 10. This stimulation is broader than the Le Wand, though. 

Or if you’d like a stronger option with a mid-sized tip like the Le Wand Grand, try the Lovense Ambi. Both of these alternatives are less expensive with broader power ranges.

We rate vibrators with rumbly vibrations higher than buzzy ones because it’s what most people prefer. The Dame Zee has below-average rumbliness.

The Dame Zee’s first two power levels technically fall within the “rumbly” range, but the rumbly vibes have little impact since they’re so weak. And by the time you reach the top intensity level, the vibrations are no longer rumbly.

For that quality, rumbly feel at a higher power, you often have to pay a bit more. The Je Joue Classic Bullet is an excellent, rumbly alternative that’s about $20 more. Or if you’d like one of the most rumbly and well-loved bullets, the We-Vibe Tango X is a fantastic, premium choice.

We rate rumbly bullets higher than buzzy ones since many people want rumbliness. But personal preferences vary, so consider what you enjoy.

The Le Wand Grand bullet has mediocre rumbliness. The lowest power is in the rumbly range, but I consider the middle two strengths “neutral.” And the top strength is moderately buzzy. If you prefer rumbly vibrations, the We-Vibe Tango X is a better (and cheaper) option for you.

My bullet preferences lean towards a neutral feel, and I like moderately buzzy vibrations when they’re only somewhat strong (like the Le Wand Grand’s top setting is!) So I enjoy the feeling of the Le Wand Grand – especially with that medium strength.

However, I still typically use the Lovense Ambi instead because it has a similar frequency range but gets stronger than the Le Wand Grand. And I enjoy some intensity personally.

The Le Wand Grand Bullet comes with a broad, textured silicone attachment designed to stimulate your clit while using the bullet internally for vaginal stimulation.

It works as described, providing some dual-stimulation but not enough strength for me to orgasm. When using the attachment to transfer the vibrations to your clit, they feel much weaker than when directly pressing the motor end of the bullet to your clit. Using the attachment for dual-stimulation can be a fun warm-up activity, but I expect only those who are extra-sensitive will be able to orgasm this way.

As for the internal stimulation, it primarily provides vibrations around the vaginal entrance. The straight shape doesn’t easily target your G-spot as a curved bullet does (like the Pillow Talk Racy).

The Dame Zee has a narrow head with a tapered tip that provides precise stimulation. If you like focused stimulation, you can limit your stimulation to a tiny area by using the tip of the bullet.

Often you can get broader stimulation by pressing the side of a bullet against you instead of the tip. But since the Dame Zee is so short, it’s difficult to hold it in that position. So the Zee is best if you prefer focused stimulation.

The Le Wand Grand provides a medium amount of precision from its wide head and rounded tip. You can limit stimulation to a reasonably small area, but it’s less focused than thinner or lipstick-shaped bullet vibrators like the We-Vibe Tango X.

This medium amount of precision is awesome if you enjoy firm pressure. It can comfortably press against your body while distributing the pressure more evenly.

While the Dame Zee isn’t really uncomfortable, most bullets I’ve tried are easier to use. The Dame Zee is especially small, even compared to other bullets making it more difficult to grip and maneuver. You have to grip the tiny handle pretty tightly between the tips of your fingers which can be tiring.

There’s not enough length along the short handle to leverage the Dame Zee. So any pressure comes from your whole hand and arm pressing the toy in. Longer bullets like the Blush Limited Addiction, rest more comfortably in your hand, and allow you to control firm or soft pressure by efficiently leveraging the toy in your fingers.

You control the Dame Zee’s power by cycling through with a single button, which is easy to press without adjusting your grip. Typically, these one-button cycle setups are frustrating. But since there are only 3 power levels and no patterns on the Zee, it’s easy to tap through quickly.

Except for its one-button control system, the Le Wand Grand is very comfortable and easy to use.

The awesome weight of this toy from its metal construction is unlike any of my other bullets. It feels luxurious and naturally adds pressure without tiring out my hand. This is one of its biggest assets, and none of my other bullets even come close to the weight of this one.

Vibrations in my hands are minimal and won’t distract the average user. I find that the bumps on the silicone surface don’t add anything to the experience, but they also don’t detract. The silicone tip can also be removed if you prefer.

The only downside is its one-button control system. There’s one button on the base of the bullet. And you need to cycle through the 4 intensity levels and 11 patterns – you cannot move backward without cycling through the remaining settings. Many bullets use a one-button system, but for a bullet at this high price point, I was expecting the ability to conveniently toggle up or back down to reach my preferred setting quickly.

If this bothers you, the We-Vibe Tango X and We-Vibe Touch X have separate buttons to increase or decrease strength. And a third button to separately tap through patterns.

The Dame Zee is not worth messing with during sex. The stimulation is so weak that it has little impact. And because the Zee is so tiny, you really have to get your fingers down there working hard to get any good pressure. Using the Zee during sex takes a lot of effort with little payoff, so I find it more of a distraction.

If you’ll frequently use your bullet vibrator during sex, I recommend slightly longer bullets with more strength. The Pillow Talk Flirty (low to medium power) and Blush Limited Addiction (medium to extreme power) are better alternatives in this same price range.

Or, if you want one of the best bullet vibrators overall, the We-Vibe Tango X is also great during sex.

The Le Wand Grand is a great size fit between bodies, leverage, and maneuver during sex. It doesn’t get in the way, and the weight helps to add a pleasant natural pressure.

The weight takes a little extra effort to hold upward in positions where you’re working against gravity, like the spooning position. But that’s only when you compare it to the ease of use in missionary or other positions where the weight is a huge asset. The average user will not grow tired of holding this toy during sex.

The Dame Zee is inaudible from behind a closed door on all power levels. But since it’s also one of my weakest bullet vibrators, this isn’t very impressive.

If you want a discreet bullet, there are plenty of quiet but stronger options available. For those on a budget, the Je Joue Classic, Nasstoys Intense Travel Vibe Mini, and Blush Limited Addiction are all inaudible from behind a closed door as well.

And the We-Vibe Touch X is one of my absolute favorites and has the lowest decibel reading, but it’s not cheap.

The Le Wand Grand is one of my quietest bullet vibrators! It’s completely inaudible from behind a closed door, so you can play discreetly without worry of being overheard.

And besides that, the decibel level is very low. So even if you’re easily annoyed by buzzing sounds, this one is hardly noticeable.

The Dame Zee is rechargeable and has a long battery life lasting 2 hours on high power. But since it’s weaker than other bullets, this is not much to boast about. Of course it lasts a while – it doesn’t use much power!

The We-Vibe Tango X and Nasstoys Intense Travel Vibe Mini last an hour and a half. And the Je Joue Classic and Blush Limited Addiction last around an hour on high. All these are stronger options, and you can even draw their battery life out longer if you use the lower levels.

The Le Wand Grand Bullet’s battery life is passable. It’s rechargeable and lasts about 75 minutes, constantly running on high power.

If battery life is an aspect you prioritize, there are longer-lasting options. For instance, the We-Vibe Tango X lasts for 105 minutes on high, and since it’s stronger than the Le Wand Grand bullet, you can use its middle power levels and extend the battery even longer.

The Dame Zee feels a little cheaply made because it’s so lightweight and doesn’t feel as solid as some others. But I’ve had no issues with it breaking so far. And while the button on the end does not feel very high-quality, it functions fine.

Even at this budget-friendly price point, I prefer the more solid feel of the Blush Limited Addiction or Nasstoys Intense Travel Vibe Mini.

The Le Wand Grand’s build quality is exceptional. Because of its solid metal construction, it’s the heaviest of my bullets (but not tiring to hold). The weight provides a luxurious feel while also reassuring that it’s well-built and solid. The head has a silky silicone cap, and the button press has a nice feel. The luxury design, materials, and aesthetic are a big reason to consider this bullet.

The Dame Zee is very easy to clean. It’s IPX6 Water Resistant which means that it can resist high pressure jets of water. In other words, you can clean it in the sink using soap and water without worry. But it’s not rated to be completely submerged, so don’t use it in the bathtub.

The Le Wand Grand is very easy to clean. It’s 100% waterproof, so you can completely submerge it while you clean! You don’t need to avoid water getting into specific areas. You can also take it in the bath with you.