Your Guide To The Best Strapless Strap-On Dildos – Enjoy A Shared Experience

Do you love the fun of strapon play, but wish you were getting in on all the wonderful sensations you’re giving your partner? A strapless strapon dildo might just be a great new toy for you!

If you want to skip all the details and start playing here’s a quick summary for you!

Our favorite is the Lovehoney Double Delight – We love the adjustable design of this strapless dildo. It makes finding the right angle and position for partnered play much easier! It’s average size fits most people well and the vibrations from the bullet add to the fun without overwhelming!

Lovehoney Double Delight Strapless Strap-On Dildo

Best Vibrating Strapless Dildo – Fun Factory ShareVibe
Best Strapless Dildo for Beginners – LoveHoney Double Delight Adjustable Vibrating Strapless Strap-On Dildo
Best Strapless Dildo For Clit Stimulation (Non-Vibrating)Fuze Tango Double Ended Dildo
Best Strapless Dildo for Pegging Beginners Tantus Strapless Strap On Slim
Best Realistic Strapless Dildo and For Size Queens and Kings – Vixskin Peacemaker Silicone Double Dildo

How to Use a Strapless Strap-on Dildo

Like a strap-on, a strapless dildo lets anyone enjoy the fun of penetrative sex with a partner. But a strapless dildo has a bulb for the wearer to slide into their own body which presses against their G-spot or stimulates their clit. Both you and your partner will experience the fun of hands-free penetration at the same time. And unlike other hands-free options like suction cup dildos or dildo mounts, all the pleasure is created by the movement of your bodies together (with a little help from the toy)!

A strapless dildo is ideally suited for partners who enjoy pegging and role reversal or partners who both have vulvas seeking mutual stimulation. Strapless strap-on dildos offer the penetrating partner better control and maneuverability than a double-ended dildo.

But, if you are seeking a toy better suited for solo play, or you find the insertable end, also known as the bulb, uncomfortable… you might want to try the double dildo. Typically, strapless dildos are shaped like a capital “L” to fit comfortably in the body while the other end is naturally positioned to penetrate your partner. Double dildos are usually straight but can be bent into a U-shape for solo double penetration!

There are some things to consider to help you pick the best strapless strap-on dildo for you and your partner(s)!

Things to Consider

Wearability

Let’s quick chat about the term “strapless dildo.” You’ll find a lot of people call these “strapless strap-on dildos” instead and I find the second phrase a lot more accurate! Most people will have a hard time keeping a strapless dildo in place without a harness. 

Using the strapless dildo no-harness requires strong kegel muscles. The toy is kept in place by the wearer clenching their vaginal muscles around the bulb’s surface. If you want to try this, start with a lightweight toy! There are plenty of ways to improve your kegel muscles as well. You can try kegel exercises or vaginal weights. There are even toys that help you strengthen your pelvic floor muscles! Using these strapless dildos without a harness gives enjoyable and intimate skin-on-skin contact.

But don’t worry — developing killer kegel muscles is not your only option! Our pelvic floor muscles really aren’t designed to hold and maneuver objects! Plus, there are many reasons it might be difficult to hold the strapless strap-on dildo in place: your vagina gets wet naturally or from lube during sex, you might want rougher play, or you may need time to master the technique. Whatever the reason, you don’t have to miss out on the pleasures of strapless dildos because here’s the secret – most people still use a harness with their strapless dildo! The main purpose of the strapless dildo is to provide simultaneous pleasure to the wearer and receiver – a harness doesn’t take away from the pleasure at all!

There are a variety of harness options: the corset harness, g-string harness, the jockstrap harness, or underwear harness. The jockstrap harness and corset harness pair the best with the strapless dildo, offering excellent support!

Make sure the harness O-ring matches the size of the dildo. A properly fitting O-ring keeps the dildo in place through every kind of thrusting and jolting movement! Most dildo sellers say what size O-ring the dildo needs.

Don’t want to buy a harness? Try an old piece of clothing instead. Some users cite success in using items of clothing in tandem with the toy, such as panties or tights with a hole in the middle fitted around the dildo.

Visual Appeal

Strapless strapon dildos are visually versatile, designed to meet the preferences of each person. You’ll need to decide how realistic you would like your toy to look. With flesh-coloring and pronounced veins, these toys can look extremely realistic if you want them too. However, if you would prefer your toy to not look like a penis, there are many fun, funky, and colorful alternatives!

Stimulation

First time trying a strapless dildo? You might want to try a cheaper no-vibration option. Sometimes simple is preferrable, allowing partners to focus on learning the best motions, positions, and angles for them. Plus, once you get more comfortable with your new toy, you can always add more toys to your love life later on! A classic bullet vibrator, for example, can pair well with a strapless dildo.

If you or your partner have experience playing with strapless strap-on dildos and want to add even more spice into the mix – you’ll want to choose a product with options for intense clitoral, g-spot, or p-spot stimulation. 

Many strapless dildos come with built-in or removable vibrators, curved shafts, or ridged surfaces to provide clitoral stimulation to the wearer. Some bulbs put more pressure on your g-spot, while others offer more stimulus to your clit. Some products have removable bullet vibrators with only one vibration setting, while others have built-in vibrators with multiple options to control speed, pulsation, and vibrating patterns. These will allow the wearer to experiment and adjust the intensity of the stimulation according to their preferences in the moment! You also can often fit your own bullet vibe in the dildo instead.

Size and Shape

From the shaft length to the girth size to the bulb width – you’ll want to choose a size that works for each of you! For example, you’ll be able to select an overall length ranging from 9 to 16 inches or a girth of 3 to 5 inches. You can choose the dimension of the toy to best suit you and your partner’s needs.

For example, the best strapless dildos for pegging beginners are usually slimmer, with a less textured shaft – at least until you know what you enjoy anally!

The bulb (or insertable end) can be curved, rounded, or more closely shaped like a dildo. If you enjoy the feeling of fullness and pressure on your G-spot, pick a model with a larger bulb. Keep in mind heavier products can be more difficult to keep in place without a harness.

Material

Many toys on the market are made of body-safe medical-grade silicone, glass, or hard plastic, make sure to double check the material of the product to ensure 100% safe use. You’ll want to avoid anything containing latex or phthalates, to prevent allergic reactions or rashes.

We always recommend choosing products that are hypoallergenic and non-porous — these include silicone, glass, hard plastic or stainless steel — as they are easy to clean and remove bacteria. If you do have a product that is porous (rubber, TPE, soft plastic, etc.), be sure to use a condom – even after cleaning harmful bacteria can remain on the toy!

If you like to have fun in the shower or want the option to enjoy period-sex, you’ll want to also consider a water-resistant or even water-proof product. 

Our Favorite Strapless Strap-on Dildos Reviewed

Best Vibrating Strapless Dildo – Fun Factory ShareVibe

If you have experimented with strapless strap-on dildos and want the added stimulation of a multi-function vibrator, then this may be the product for you. The included 5-function bullet vibrator gives you 5 powerful vibrating modes to choose from. Plus, it includes a USB magnetic charger, so you’ll never run out of batteries! The charge lasts from 2 to 4 hours, allowing for multiple play sessions before having to be recharged again.

Fun Factory ShareVibe

This product could make a perfect gift for your partner. It arrives in stylish packaging, so you can gift it without even having to remove the packaging!

Weighing 425 grams (just under 1lb), some users do find the toy heavy. Wearers may find it challenging to kneel, stand, or walk around “hands-free,” as the weight of the dildo requires a hand to support it at all times. If this presents a concern for you, you’ll want to look for a lighter weight model.

The smooth shaft of the ShareVibe is 4.5”, inserts easily and is shorter than other designs – a great model for those who prefer shallower penetration. If longer length is important to you and your partner, you may want to consider the 6.75” Fuze Tango or 6” Double Delight.

Both the shaft and the bulb are curved for great G-spot stimulation. The bulb is a bit thicker than others too, so those who love pressure on their G-spot may find what they’re looking for here! 

Pros:

  • Completely Waterproof
  • 5-Function Bullet Vibrator (USB Rechargeable) for a strong and wide-ranging set of vibrations
  • Very flexible strapless dildo – offers good forgiveness
  • Thicker curved bulb gives great G-spot pressure
  • Smooth shaft is comfortable and inserts easily
  • Vibrant color options: Deep Violet, Peachy-Beige, and Neon Pink

Cons:

  • More expensive than some others
  • Vibrations can be moderately loud
  • Heavier than some alternative products – very likely you’ll want a harness
  • Some users may want longer length or more textured feel

Best Strapless Dildo for Beginners – LoveHoney Double Delight Adjustable Vibrating Strapless Strap-On Dildo

Looking for dual stimulation but don’t want the visual of a penis? We recommend this product for you, with its bright colors and smooth surface. Its single-speed bullet vibrator is intense enough to provide stimulation but mild enough for either beginners and users wanting to focus more on the motions of thrusting. If you want more powerful vibes, you may want to insert a bullet of your own.

Lovehoney Double Delight Strapless Strap-On Dildo

The adjustable angle of this dildo and the average size make it ideal for beginners to strapless dildos! It allows the wearer to adjust the angle between the bulb and the shaft – so you can find the best position for your comfort and pleasure. Once you have it where you want it, it locks in place so you can use it as hard as you want!

The adjustable bulb can be great for solo fun too. Some users have great masturbation experiences by inserting the bulb, turning on the vibrator, and using the dildo as a handle to maneuver the bulb — leading to awesome orgasms!

Those who have done a bit of anal play before may enjoy its average length and girth for pegging. And its slightly textured shaft gives just a bit of extra stimulation.

Pros:

  • More affordable option, especially for new users
  • Adjustable angles to maximize comfort and superb g-spot stimulation
  • Great options for solo play/masturbation
  • Nonrealistic Color and Design
  • Single-Speed Bullet Vibrator (Battery Powered)
  • Ergonomic shape

Cons:

  • Some may prefer a bit more girth
  • Vibrator requires batteries and it isn’t as strong as some would want

Best Realistic Strapless Dildo and For Size Queens and Kings – Vixskin Peacemaker Silicone Double Dildo

If you want a realistic strapless strap-on, this is the product for you. This product features a large head with a pronounced coronal ridge, well-placed veins, and squishy surface  – emulating the look, feel, and texture of a real penis. It is even available in 3 different colors, depending on the realistic-look you are after: Chocolate, Cocoa/Caramel, and Cream/Vanilla.

Peacemaker VixSkin Strapless

If you prefer the fullness of a larger penis, the size and realistic look of the Peacemaker is for you! With a 6.5” shaft length and 1 ⅞” girth, this model is slightly larger than the typical strapless dildo design. Because this dildo has a squishy VixSkin layer, even with its large size it’s soft and comfortable!

For a realistic look and feel but slimmer fit, you may enjoy the Tantus Real Strapless Strap On Slim.

The Peacemaker’s bulb is softer and more “squishy” than other models too. Some wearers find that this softer material doesn’t put enough pressure on their g-spot. Others found that the bulbed head on each end rubbed their G-spot just right. 

Pros:

  • Realistic design 
  • Retains warmth and body heat
  • Large size for those who love the “full” feeling
  • Soft VixSkin material is realistic and comfortable
  • Textured shaft and bulbous head provide good stimulation

Cons:

  • More Expensive
  • No Vibrator

Best Strapless Dildo For Clit Stimulation (Non-Vibrating) – Fuze Tango Double Ended Dildo

A vibrant, pearlescent shade of purple, the Fuze Tango is a bright and visually appealing choice. With a 6.75” shaft and 1 ⅜” girth, the Fuze Tango is not large but not slim — perfect for the average couple!

Fuze Tango Strapless Strapon


This product is made of top-tier pure platinum silicone: non-porous, odorless, tasteless, and does not stain. You’ll be able to wash it easily using soap and hot water. This product is durable and will last you through many years of pleasurable experiences! It’s not as flexible as some other options which means it has less forgiveness if it takes a wrong turn anally. Those looking for a pegging dildo may prefer one of the other options.

This dildo offers great clit and G spot stimulation without vibrations. It has three ridges on the clitoral pad to grind on your clit as you penetrate your partner! The bulb is also curved well to target your G spot. You have the option to add your own bullet vibrator (not sold with the toy) if you want to up the stimulation.

Many users like the Fuze Tango for its ability to be comfortably harnessed. Compared to other strapless dildo designs, the Fuze Tango has less girth at the clitoral pad, allowing the dildo to fit more easily into an O-ring! It pairs well with a two-strap Jock Harness, like the flexible and fun SpareParts Joque Harness.

Pros:

  • Easy to use with a harness
  • Slight bulbous head for G-Spot or P-Spot Stimulation
  • Ridges for clitoral stimulation
  • Very durable
  • Warms quickly with body heat
  • Space to insert a bullet vibe (sold separately)

Cons:

  • No vibrator
  • Bullet vibrator sold separately
  • Less flexible – not as forgiving for pegging

Best Strapless Dildo for Pegging Beginners – Tantus Strapless Strap On Slim

Sometimes the size or firmness of other products can cause discomfort in the wearer or reciever. If you’re looking for a small strapless strap-on, The Tantus Slim may be for you!

Tantus Strapless Strap On Slim

There are many reasons to want a slim strapless dildo – you may have found other dildos too large for anal play or their bulbs diffcult to insert. Many users of the Tantus Slim have found the thinner girth of this dildo is great for entering the waters of pegging. Others love the simple shape of the bulb. 


This product’s slim shaft and upward curve are great for prostate stimulation. The rounded shape of the bulb stimulates the wearer’s g-spot, while providing a comfortable, non-intimidating fit. It’s 10% lighter than its original model, the Tantus Strapless Strap On Classic, making it easier to control and lighter to maneuver for the penetrating partner! 

It even comes with a realistic version, the Tantus Real Strapless Strap On Slim, for those who love the slim fit but also love a realistic penis!

One point to consider: Wearers with larger vaginas may find this product more difficult to keep in place and their kegel muscles unable to hold on to its thinner girth. If this is you, you may prefer the classic version, the ShareVibe or the extra large Vixen Peacemaker. As always you can also wear a harness to keep it steady so you can focus on the fun!

Pros:

  • More affordable
  • Slim, non-intimidating size
  • Great strapless dildo for pegging
  • Waterproof
  • Single-speed removable vibrator (battery powered)
  • Great angle between dildo and bulb

Cons:

  • Weaker vibrator than ShareVibe
  • Slimmer size may make the bulb more difficult to keep in place

Final Thoughts

After exploring a variety of strapless dildo options, our favorite pick is the LoveHoney Double Delight Adjustable Vibrating Strapless Strap-On Dildo. This colorful product provides great flexibility for your solo or partnered love life! Not only is this product the most affordable, it is uniquely adjustable to your preference and needs, made out of top-grade material, and provides the option of a bullet vibrator for additional stimulation.

Whether this is your first time shopping for a strapless dildo or you are an experienced user, this product is affordable enough for you to give it a try and see what pleasurable experiences you discover!

Lovehoney Double Delight Strapless Strap-On Dildo

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