Best Small Dildo

We’re here to help you find the best small dildo for you! You’d think finding your perfect size would be fairly straightforward – certainly creators know what we’re looking for in a nice little dildo? 

A quick scan of features will reveal the astonishing array of ADDITIONAL decisions you need to make now that you’ve opted for the small one. Width, length, curved, straight, density, textures and what even is it made of? 

Here’s a quick list of our favorites, keep scrolling to get the full breakdown of the features on these hunks: 

• Best For Experienced – Colours Soft 5” Dildo by NS Novelties
• Best Starter Dildo – Lovehoney Slimline Silicone Suction Cup Dildo 5”
• 4 Inch Dildo – Glass Candy Land Juicer
• Very Soft Dildo – Uberrime Splendid Dual-Density Dildo Small Size
• Best Small Realistic Dildo – Vixen Spur VixSkin Slimline Realistic Dildo 5”

Why You Might Want a Smaller Dildo

There’s a wide range of reasons people find the more petite to suit their fancy. You may just naturally be a little tighter down there, or could be new to penetration. Recent surgeries or medical conditions may require some shallower play, or perhaps shallow is your JAM.

Shorter, thinner options can also be a great solution for new explorations like anal play, hitting that G-Spot, or finding the prostate (p-spot).

What is a Small Dildo?

Whether you’ve found the run-of-the-mill dildos to be too much, or you’re just beginning your hunt, we’ve got some news. “Small Dildos” are actually much closer to the real-life penises we all know and love.

The average erect penis measures about 5.5” long and 1.5” wide, while most MEDIUM sized dildos are at least an inch longer.

That shorter length is probably the most common factor of tiny dildos, but there’s several other features you may want to consider before you make your pick.

What to Look For:

Length

4-6” of insertable length is going to be your sweet spot here, and that’s what all our options measure in at! 

Width

Having a shorter dildo does not mean you can’t have a little girth! If you’re looking for that really full feeling, you may want to consider a little extra width. That might be a prominent head, extra thickness at various points along the shaft, or consistently throughout. 

If your main goal is to take a little pressure off the vaginal or anal walls, make sure you choose something on the thinner side. Again – the average penis measures 1.5” wide.

Curvature

Ah, glorious curves! This is where we can really get into some fun with g/p-spot stimulation. Those curved options are for those of you who are on a mission to work those angles and hit those pleasure points. 

Density

You want something that you’ll notice, but gentle enough for some quick thrusting in those more heated moments. 

It’s honestly so difficult to tell how hard or soft a dildo may feel from photos alone, so we’ve gathered the voices of those who have already dove in. You can base your decision off of the experts.

Textures

Sleek, ridges, smooth, veins, bumps – they’re not for decoration. The more accentuated the textures, the more you’ll get that drag inside. Make sure you know whether you’re looking for a new rub, or a seamless glide.

Temperature

If temperature play is a tantalizing thought, you’ll want something that can withstand a bit of a range here. Other options are better suited to gain and retain what’s closer to your natural body heat.

Material

We are ALL ABOUT body-safe materials. All recommendations we make are of high-grade material that you won’t have to wonder about. In case your search takes you elsewhere though, we want you to have the facts!

Stay away from phthalates in some of the jelly toys – lots of bad findings around these. PVC-based options are best to avoid too as they are porous and much more likely to hide harmful bacteria. 

Our Recommendations

Best for Experienced – Colours Soft 5” Dildo by NS Novelties

We’re kicking it off on the realistic end of the spectrum! NS has a number of Colours Dildos available, but the Colours Soft line was designed with a slightly squishier density than their average pieces. 

This particular number is almost identical to the real-deal (besides the colors of course). Available in Blue, Pink and Purple, this morsel of medical grade silicone packs 5.25” of insertable length at a 1.4” width. 

The shaft is just slightly curved and has some intense raised veins for some extra grip on the inside. There’s a nice swell up near the top before approaching the pronounced, tapered head too. The balls at the end have been appreciated for the extra grip (considering the shorter length) and a suction cup base allows for hands-free fun!

A wide-spread conclusion is that this piece is a nice balance of firm and soft. This definitely has some noticeable textures and a widening near the head for higher internal stimulation. The fairly experienced looking for a shorter staple piece will know if this is the right fit for them.

Best Starter Dildo – Lovehoney Slimline Silicone Suction Cup Dildo 5”

This piece takes us back to the basics. Lovehoney has a collection of these Slimline penetrators, all focused on a trim width to eliminate discomfort. Their options come in a variety of materials or shapes, but we’ve selected the simplest of them all.

Smooth silicone from top to bottom, this 5” glider is the smallest dildo when it comes to width – only 1” across to be precise!

There are no balls and no suction cup at the bottom, but a nice curve to stroke where it counts. Simplicity allows you to focus your efforts on finding that most comfortable, satisfying angle with no distractions along the way.

People love how un-intimidating this piece is. It’s easy to use – no special tricks. Those that found most dildos to be too big or wide said this was just what they were looking for. It comes highly recommended for beginners in any sort of play, making it the best first dildo.

4 Inch Dildo – Glass Candy Land Juicer

This is the only glass piece we’ve recommended for small dildos since there’s not a whole lot of give in the density department. But this sweet little thing has rightfully earned its place here. 

This shatter-resistant glass toy is only 4” long and 1.5” wide. The widened head is inserted and naturally held in place up against the g-spot. A small handle at the base allows the thinner, textured shaft to spin once inside, and the bumps create an incredible massage sensation.

Glass is a beloved material for toys because of its ability to withstand such extreme temperatures. This toy can be frozen or quickly take on a natural body temperature fairly quickly.

This toy is definitely worth it if you are alright with a firmer density, and are looking for some non-thrusting fun. People LOVE the uniqueness, and it’s been known to live up to its wet and wild name.

Very Soft Dildo – Uberrime Splendid Dual-Density Dildo Small Size

The very first piece to this collection came in Medium, and people loved it so much, that Uberrime developed a Small and Large version to cater to more specific needs. 

This beautiful, marbled pastel piece measures 5.25” long and is an average of 1.4” wide throughout. A lot of thought was put into making this piece feel real – down to the slightly larger, extra squishy head and slightly curved shaft. No suction cup base on this one, but does have a concave base that can stick fairly well to anything horizontal (not so much on a wall).

We are stoked about this guy’s dual-density feel. That’s right – two densities in one! The extra soft outside is supported by a slightly firmer core that gives you control and support to go where you want to go with a heavenly gentleness. Very subtle veins add a fun feel that’s not as much of a drag as its medium predecessor. 

This piece is not overpowering, making it a great staple piece, and perfect for those wanting a toned down, less-full sensation. It provides a gentler experience and has been described as “intentionally average” in an awesome way. Overall, a really natural feel. 

Best Small Realistic Dildo – Vixen Spur VixSkin Slimline Realistic Dildo 5”

Vixen is a very well trusted brand. They know their customer’s varying needs and this baby is proof of that! 

This dildo has 5” of insertable length at only 1.1” wide. Simple silicone, no balls and no suction cup.

We can’t help getting excited again that his piece features that awesome dual-density design too! For the people in the back – this means a firm core covered by an extra-cushy outside.

A slight curvature and very mild texturing mean lots of easy thrusting at a variety of angles.

This is a great product for the specific wish of a shorter, easier-to-take dildo. Many with medical restrictions loved this piece. Overall the consensus seems to be that if you know this smaller experience is what you’re looking for, it’s was well-worth your money for life-long fun.

Our Top Pick

My overall favorite pick of this bunch is the Uberrime Splendid Dual-Density Dildo Small Size. Many (not all) small dildo searchers tend to be on the newer side of things, and this beauty combines many important aspects for this. 

Something soft, yet sturdy is KEY, and so the dual-density nature and extra squishy head really has me swooning. The perfectly realistic width is important for a nice glide, and the rounded out, subtly-smooth feel just finish it off.

It’s not the cheapest option out there, but still a really reasonably priced choice for the awesome quality!